Talk Yourself out the Drawls, Thirsty Brehs

[Eternally Jaded]

When the vibe is real a goofy text won't fukk it up. If she was gonna go over it was prob for free food/weed/alcohol. I have been out of the game since texts were $0.10 a pop but even with free messaging he was doing way too much kekeing. Prob bought a curly phone cord just to twirl while he laid on his stomach

The thing is, he didn't even get her in the flesh to figure out if they vibe or not.

Why?

Cuz his overeager ass scared her off.

Most nikkas walking around are mighty nighties.

Might get buns if the night goes right, depending on the dude and woman in play.

That leverage shifts depending on the factors in the dudes favor vs the woman.

You're plain silly if you don't think someone can be on a nonchalant "we'll see if something happens" mood, and something else cannot kill that plan.

Especially for a nikka she's never even fukked before.

That come hell or high water drive is usually for what she feels is good dikk.

He was new, so he doesn't get that privilege.

 

[Ohene]

I ain't do nothing wrong bro...
She probly really ain't want new dikk bro...
Just the attention.

nikkaz gotta understand, if a bytch actually wants ur dikk... there ain't nothing in this world that's gonna stop her.

Not ur words, not ur actions, not her fukking kids or husband.

She coming to fukk....
If she dont.. she probly just wanted the attention

we not worried bout them ones though

there are girls who are ripe or open to smashing but not 110% there yet
those are the ones we talking about

 

[Ohene]

The thing is, he didn't even get her in the flesh to figure out if they vibe or not.

Why?

Cuz his overeager ass scared her off.

Most nikkas walking around are mighty nighties.

Might get buns if the night goes right, depending on the dude and woman in play.

That leverage shifts depending on the factors in the dudes favor vs the woman.

You're plain silly if you don't think someone can be on a nonchalant "we'll see if something happens" mood, and something else cannot kill that plan.

Especially for a nikka she's never even fukked before.

That come hell or high water drive is usually for what she feels is good dikk.

He was new, so he doesn't get that privilege.

well said

 

[Piff Perkins]

Never Be Thirsty. Be engaging and funny and supportive, but always remember that not being thirsty makes you stand out from the other 10 dudes she talks to periodically. Mind you I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that...dudes talk to multiple chicks. Just as you wouldn't want to deal with some annoying chick who is always trying to come over to your place, chicks don't want to deal with dudes who are constantly making conversations awkward by shifting every topic/word/etc to sex.

The highest plane of understanding is responding to her nudes with casual disinterest, but yall not ready to have that conversation.

 

[$cam-U-Well_Jack$on]

A lot of ppl lack self awareness

Most people do.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[Hardest Since MC Ren]

nikka was textin a

I don't believe he talked himself out of it.

From my experience if she wants it she would've been down for whatever.

I had a bytch I chilled with 1 time want to come over and it was cold. It was Christmas break from college, I was literally seeing about 4 girls at the same time.

Meeting up with 1 at 8 going out to eat, going back to my or her place fukking, then leaving at 11 to go to bar meet up with another and go fukk

I wasn't 100% about her at the time so I told her I was busy that night and she texted me all types of sad faces and shyt. That ended there.

About a week passed and shyt hit me up asked what I was going to be doing, I told her just working, chillin and my birthday. She's like "lemme give you a birthday blowjob....."

Came through and we kicked it. She straight up told me "I was waiting for you to tell me when to come over, I was going to show up in my long coat with nothing but bra and panties on......."

We fukked for the rest of Christmas break and she came back on spring break to just meet up and fukk. I never had to ask for anything. It was always "hey I'm back in town......" "What time are you off...." "You up......"

Ok

 

[JQ Legend]

One thing I can say is he handled it well, I thought he was bout to beg

He seemed

 

[Robo Squirrel]

called that man "champ"

synonym for "lame ass nikka"

 

[Deuterion]

As was said many of times before, she wasn't feeling him. These situations where a non-creepy line or two can derail everything is a sign of low interest and not necessarily an absence of game. Some of y’all chase low interest women perpetually and so you start to believe that that’s how the game is but it ain’t. A high-interest woman is gonna put you in position to win...she ain’t gonna trip on a text, she gonna be at yo house on yo sofa...throwing up the alley pop so you can dunk it.

Once I was able to identify low interest behaviors and CONTRAST them to high interest my dating life changed drastically. The second I see the tell tale signs of low-interest like: slowness to respond, flakiness, refusal to commit to plans, and etc I keep it pushing. I don’t make it an ordeal or anything...I don’t even tell her, I just move on. I don’t try to step up my game or no dumb shyt...I just go about my life.

In the aft chances she comes back like “where you been” I be like “chopping dollars, let’s go on a date Friday night” if I get a “let’s see” I’ll be like “I don’t do let’s sees, let me know when you have a date you know you can keep, see ya”.

To cement this point...There was a test done on tinder where a dude made a profile with a male model’s pics and started sending women creepy texts...guess what...the women still wanted to smash.


Example 1

Example 2

This Guy’s Tinder Experiment Shows How Girls Respond To Creepy Messages From Hot Guys, And It’s Quite Shocking

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[Code]

Some of y’all chase low interest women perpetually and so you start to believe that that’s how the game is but it ain’t.

This is the main problem lmao