Talk Yourself out the Drawls, Thirsty Brehs

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He talks too much and ruined it. I've learned from experience less is more. Chicks i wanted when they wanted it, was ON it. I barely had to do anything. Maybe just text them and say one thing and that's that. Once they're interested, you basically just go along with it.

The convo should've went like this:

Her: Next time :laugh:

Dude: (i can't tell what they were talking about here though.) Okay cool.


That's it. If the convo was about coming over and she said she's coming then that's that. Let her come over. I wouldn't even ask her for confirmation I'd just wait until she texts me saying she's coming or that she's outside.

If she doesn't come over and she tells me, I'd just say "ight next time" and hope she schedules something. if not I'd just wait a week or so to do it again.
even that's too much
breh could've given an "okay" emoji and kept it movin
 

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She wasnt on shyt anyway. She thought she was gonna waste dude time, eat his food or just hang out as friends (which is cool). Dude clearly let it be known he was trying to fukk and NOT just hanging out. She wasnt coming there to fukk so she shut it down. I see nothing wrong with how either handled it. Now no one is wasting the other's time and knows what the other is on.
this why you gotta keep cheap, shytty snacks and high quality liquor for the birds
 

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Cant lie, I did this once.

Wanted one real bad. She was in a relationship, but I worked on her for a lil bit. Had her sending pics n twerk vids and actually talking bout meeting up to smash.

I don't know if it was 100% in the bag at this time, but I was telling her how I was thinking about smashing 1 nite. She was like damn, you think about it all the time...

After that the convo was kind of off, so I left it alone.

you were right and she was wrong in that scenario...she probably got cold feet about fukking around on her man
 

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And if she actually wanted to fukk, that little exchange aint enough to stop her if she was one of those "different story in person" grils. Unless yall just interested in on-the-bubble pity fukks. Thats why so many of yall get caught up in these kind of cases and situations trying to "persuade" a woman into sex. If I said the lame shyt dude said in a text to woman, her response would not be "Im good champ". And that would be because they are actually interested in fukking me. Not bored.
SMH
 

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I’ve been bad but never that bad. If a chick is coming over to your home. You’ve won! She knows having sex is a huge possibility.

Damn! Also, word of advice. Truth be told is there’s nothing wrong with his request if y’all have an understanding. You just don’t text that. You call and express that so she has context.
 

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I agree he was being thirsty over pursuing but here's the thing, if she really wanted to fukk him then this would not have stopped her. If she was texting Trey Songz he could've told her "get over her butt naked in some heels and don't forget the lube" and she would've been there in a flash. Chances are she probably had 5/6 level attraction to this guy and just liked the attention she was getting. she would've prolly went over there and played all kinds of games relishing in the fact that she knows he wanted her so I'd say he saved alot of time.

This is why I don't even invite girls out now. If a girl is interested she'll invite you out or at least hint at it
 
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