Talk Yourself out the Drawls, Thirsty Brehs

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She wasnt on shyt anyway. She thought she was gonna waste dude time, eat his food or just hang out as friends (which is cool). Dude clearly let it be known he was trying to fukk and NOT just hanging out. She wasnt coming there to fukk so she shut it down. I see nothing wrong with how either handled it. Now no one is wasting the other's time and knows what the other is on.

Plenty of girls have said one thing in text messages and then when they are face to face its a different story. Just getting a chick to the crib is basically getting down to the red zone. Once they are there its up to you to score.

This nikka threw a pick on the opening play of the game.
 

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Plenty of girls have said one thing in text messages and then when they are face to face its a different story. Just getting a chick to the crib is basically getting down to the red zone. Once they are there its up to you to score.

This nikka threw a pick on the opening play of the game.
And if she actually wanted to fukk, that little exchange aint enough to stop her if she was one of those "different story in person" grils. Unless yall just interested in on-the-bubble pity fukks. Thats why so many of yall get caught up in these kind of cases and situations trying to "persuade" a woman into sex. If I said the lame shyt dude said in a text to woman, her response would not be "Im good champ". And that would be because they are actually interested in fukking me. Not bored.
 

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She wasnt on shyt anyway. She thought she was gonna waste dude time, eat his food or just hang out as friends (which is cool). Dude clearly let it be known he was trying to fukk and NOT just hanging out. She wasnt coming there to fukk so she shut it down. I see nothing wrong with how either handled it. Now no one is wasting the other's time and knows what the other is on.

She said she was wearing some cozy clothes, what more does he need to know. It was their first time chilling too it’s not like she is going to come in looking like Robin Givens in Boomerang.
 

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Saying less is way more effective then saying more.

Should of stopped talking after next time & ended it with “call me when your close”

She made the comment about cozy clothes, cap it with "aight, bet."

Follow up.

"Hit me when you're close" should've ended it.

Overeager kills the vibe, EVERY TIME.

You can only throw out that super horny energy if one, she sparks it or two, you've already smashed.

Anything else and you risk sounding thirsty.

Remember fellas; your night is fantastic whether she shows up or not.

Only energy you should be exuding.
 

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She made the comment about cozy clothes, cap it with "aight, bet."

Follow up.

"Hit me when you're close" should've ended it.

Overeager kills the vibe, EVERY TIME.

You can only throw out that super horny energy if one, she sparks it or two, you've already smashed.

Anything else and you risk sounding thirsty.

Remember fellas; your night is fantastic whether she shows up or not.

Only energy you should be exuding.
I agree with all this. But none of that means you smashing tonight.
 

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She said she was wearing some cozy clothes, what more does he need to know. It was their first time chilling too it’s not like she is going to come in looking like Robin Givens in Boomerang.
If she coming to crib then saying she's wearing "cozy" clothes only means she not doing herself up. Doesnt mean its "im fukking" clothes no matter how many times that may be the case. What Im saying is that, THIS girl was NOT gonna fukk THIS guy that night based on her response to his texts. He made texts that werent all that bad but a little thirsty. If she shut the whole thing down just off those two texts, understand she wasnt gonna fukk dude that night. That would be petty to do if this is someone you were interested in fukking. Thats my point. Im not talking about fukking later on at some point. Im talking about right now.
 
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