Talking yourself into the friend zone.

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I always check a guy's social media. Some of the men that approach me tend to be married or in relationships.


On topic: I tend to attract men who are never direct with me when it comes to their feelings. For a while I thought maybe it as me being intimidating, but they've already decided the outcome. Shame because I had great conversations with some of them. One guy I was trying to set something up and every time he would try to attach our friends to it. I eventually just gave up.
 
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I always check a guy's social media. Some of the men that approach me tend to be married or in relationships.


On topic: I tend to attract men who are never direct with me when it comes to their feelings. For a while I thought maybe it as me being intimidating, but they've already decided the outcome. Shame because I had great conversations with some of them. One guy I was trying to set something up and every time he would try to attach our friends to it. I eventually just gave up.


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In the long run you friend zone dudes at a huge cost..
It's all fine and dandy in your premium years but as you age and demand drops you'll likely end up alone with no life companion like most females out there.
 

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I always check a guy's social media. Some of the men that approach me tend to be married or in relationships.


On topic: I tend to attract men who are never direct with me when it comes to their feelings. For a while I thought maybe it as me being intimidating, but they've already decided the outcome. Shame because I had great conversations with some of them. One guy I was trying to set something up and every time he would try to attach our friends to it. I eventually just gave up.
You attract all sorts of different men, it's the ones that you are attracted to that is important.
 

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You can find a potential wife anywhere because it's about the woman not the place. you act like golddiggers and loose sluts don't go to barnes n noble or the gym. you think she's wife material just because you met her in a church? you do realize some of the biggest hos are in front of the altar every sunday asking for forgiveness right?:pachaha: you make way too many negative assumptions breh. Just because you met a woman in a club/bar does not mean she frequently goes or is fukking random nikkas. lol how the fukk do you deduce the sexual history of a woman you don't even know just off the fact that she's in a club? :what:

You don't know shyt about her other than the fact that you met her in a club. A woman who's in a club/bar could be there for a dozen reasons. yes there are the every weekend club-rats but for anyone with experience these are easy to spot, she came out to celebrate for her girlfriends birthday party, celebrate a graduation, going away party for a friend, her girls wanted to go out on friday night and they dragged her out the house, just finished final exams and came out for a drink, there's a million reasons. do you not have a social life?

No wonder you nikkas struggle with women. your mindset is so fukking negative before you even meet the bytch :scust:
Don't matter, I ain't taking the chances.
 

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My social media gives out way more info out than my phone number.
:dead:women are vastly underestimating the power that a phone number has, you're opening yourself up to a potential series of abuse, threats, and real life scamming that you would just dismiss if it was online. Lots of psychopaths out there :mjpls:
 

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In the long run you friend zone dudes at a huge cost..
It's all fine and dandy in your premium years but as you age and demand drops you'll likely end up alone with no life companion like most females out there.

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When I meet a quality man I won't let him go. I haven't met one yet. And even if I had came across one it doesn't mean we would have worked out. It's hard meeting anyone these days because no one wants relationship they are all looking for "friends"
In the long run you friend zone dudes at a huge cost..
It's all fine and dandy in your premium years but as you age and demand drops you'll likely end up alone with no life companion like most females out there.
 

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When I meet a quality man I won't let him go. I haven't met one yet. And even if I had came across one it doesn't mean we would have worked out. It's hard meeting anyone these days because no one wants relationship they are all looking for "friends"

I'm sure you've met quality men. You probably know a couple in your life right now. It's just that they probably don't look/dress like you expect in quality men.

And I hope that you're a quality woman yourself.
 

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When I meet a quality man I won't let him go. I haven't met one yet. And even if I had came across one it doesn't mean we would have worked out. It's hard meeting anyone these days because no one wants relationship they are all looking for "friends"

Serious calculating men want to befriend you first in order to read you better over time before taking you.

No man in their right mind is jumping head first into a relationship with women of today.
 

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I'm sure you've met quality men. You probably know a couple in your life right now. It's just that they probably don't look/dress like you expect in quality men.

And I hope that you're a quality woman yourself.
The quality men I know are family or either have been married for many years.
Serious calculating men want to befriend you first in order to read you better over time before taking you.

No man in their right mind is jumping head first into a relationship with women of today.

Men don't want to be friends with women. A man will jump in bed with you, risk catching something that can kill them but won't be in a relationship with you after months of talking to u. Think about all of the things that can possibly happen with sex.


The worlds logic is so immoral
 

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The quality men I know are family or either have been married for many years.
So you don't know even one single quality man in your life? :jbhmm:

The law of probability makes that very difficult to believe.

Again, I'm sure you know at least one single quality man; he probably just isn't what you envision him to look like.
 

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:what: Breh please reread what I said. Then reread your question and then determine if your response makes any sense:pachaha:
So you don't know even one single quality man in your life? :jbhmm:

The law of probability makes that very difficult to believe.

Again, I'm sure you know at least one single quality man; he probably just isn't what you envision him to look like.
 
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