Thank you for your honesty.
As black men, we can't only hold the feet of black women or feminism to the fire...we must start with the black male. Women are followers and will become what the environment allows them to become. If the men of their environment are on top of their game, provide, protect and hold the women to an underlying standard because of the nest they lay out, then the women will comply more times than not. For fear of being alone and for fear of being ostracized.
But if the men are weak, shiftless, unmotivated and not able or willing to provide/protect, then the women will become ornery, deceitful and covetous.
The truth is, black women are a reflection of black men. If black women are not on top of their game, it's because black men are not on top of theirs. And if black men are not on top of theirs, they have neither the facility or wherewithal to demand black women, as a whole, step their game up.
Submission comes from women who feel secure and provided for. You can't expect sweet, submissive women who have to conquer the same world their man has to. Sweet and submissive comes with a level of innocence that most black men do not and cannot afford to offer black women at this point.
Peace
Bullshyt black women are the ones chooing losers to procreate with. I get so sick of brothers talking about if we step black women will. No they won't their actions now show they won't.
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these new posters
...why do you feel like I need to reply to you about a subject that I didn't address to you? you seem to be bothered by what I said for some reason 
"slither" my way out of what?
you say everyone isn't a dumbass but you're coming off as one right now thinking I owe you an explanation...and yes that dumbass hat of yours prevents me from even taking you seriously nikka...get off my dikk and keep writing your fukking dissertations bruh


