"Tariq Nasheed is the lowest of low"

[mcdivit85]

Patriarchy is still alive in our communities and one example is the substitution of the government in the place where the man once occupied. It is patriarchal because some women still rely on the government for housing, food, child-care, etc.
By and large, black women still take a secondary role in our communities. Men are still in positions of power, are more often the doctors, not the nurses, the lawyers and not the secretaries, or the principal and not the teachers.
Patriarchy still exists, it's just my opinion that the power has become much more concentrated.

I have taken some classes with feminists, and one reason black feminists identify themselves as such, is because they feel as if historically they have not been as well represented as black men. Women just got the right to vote 95 years ago, and to this day they cannot decide what is best for them, and have access to abortions and birth control. A patriarchal system tells her what to do with her body- in a sense still seeing her as chattel.

Black feminists are our allies, and I am glad to see my black sisters standing up for what they believe is right, and demanding an audience.

 

[iBrowse]

Did you read all that. It talked about the money shot in porn. IT fukkING TALKED about PORN.

"I can purchase pornography that typically shows men defile women by the common practice of the "money shot."

 

[iBrowse]

Cosign. Like I say to the dudes on here constantly talking shyt about black women (and vice versa). Y'all nikkas would dedicate thousands of posts to saying how black men/women ain't shyt and how your group has it worst, but sit back and do fukk all to change the shyt you see everyday in the city you live in. Won't donate to a single cause, won't volunteer at a single organization. shyt as much as these pseudo militants talk about how much of a joke marching is, these fukk boys wouldn't even do that.

nikkas will attack each other all day long, but will be skinning and grinning with the white folks at their job because they're too scared to say shyt to our actual enemy.

I honestly never even knew about the BM/BW divide until I came to the coli...and even now outside of the coli in real life I don't see this division....

 

[Sk3ptical]

Tariq Nasheed

 

[↓R↑LYB]

LOL, me CAC?

Come on man. That shyt is insulting and it hurts. lol

Medicine wouldn't be medicine if it tasted good

 

[No Sleep]

Medicine wouldn't be medicine if it tasted good

Yeah, but I'm pretty black.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Naw, I know what im speaking on... my bm was one before the shyt was even popular... had Facebook page w all these bitter bitxhes following her cuz shes educated and pretty.... but she got educated and grew up...

Most of these women are following the few white supremacy tools at the top. Most are open to dialogue..

Saying fukk you sluts, you're the enemy, eat a dikk... is just gonna push them closer to the dark side.

I know this sounds sexiest.. but idk another way to say it.... women are followers by nature and their low self esteem drives their poor choices. We need to build them up, and when dealing with them just show them real men... and explain to them the social economic political factors that produce the sorry ass nikkas amongst us. And we shouldn't really mention their poor sexual choices, hair hats, and body shapes.... they hate the truth and they put the in shape sexy ones on posters anyway.

Give these hoes a purpose... thats the way u bend a women's mind... thats how these instrgram feminist gain numbers.. In reality a black woman would rather serve their entire community as opposed to this bitter mission.

Its not difficult , if we stopped arguing with them and tried. Or are just gonna push them deeper into the cacs bushes? They aren't evil and most can become lil assatas.

See this is why I fukks with you. You understand that most of these broads are the way they are because we as men dropped the ball. If a black woman who identifies as a feminist fukks with me I guarantee you I can turn her into a pan African in under a year.

Women WANT a man they can look respect and look to for leadership. And if they meet a dude like that, they will fall in line. shyt's nature.

Before my girl met me she really ain't know too much about black history (even though she went to an HBCU). Now she's reading books on Garvey and is a Umar Johnson fan and wants to teach at his school and when it's ready.

Black men dropped the ball and the damage in our community is partially our fault. Which is why I don't really focus on the bullshyt they say because they're not getting what they need from us.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Yeah, but I'm pretty black.

So was ****

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I honestly never even knew about the BM/BW divide until I came to the coli...and even now outside of the coli in real life I don't see this division....

Exact same shyt I said all the way back on sohh. Which is why I keep saying this site is filled with cacs pretending to be black.

 

[Y2Dre]

you coming off real dusty is all i'm saying. i doubt you understand what you want to do w/her info.

its sad nikkas dont know how to fight propaganda with equal propaganda. your method is just going to help reinforce everything she's saying about black men.

@ you caring about what your enemy thinks of you. This bytch works with cracker feminists to pass laws to lock nikkas up. You sitting here like


"b-b-b-but she might think we're bad people."




fukk this fat bytch and any other bytch that wants to pass laws to lock me and my brothers up.


The point of us having her info is to put a face and info on the agenda.

 

[No Sleep]

So was ****

How I know you're not ****?

Naw, we good fam. I'm going to keep busting CAC's, and BFem's in the mouth.

 

[Blackking]

See this is why I fukks with you. You understand that most of these broads are the way they are because we as men dropped the ball. If a black woman who identifies as a feminist fukks with me I guarantee you I can turn her into a pan African in under a year.

Women WANT a man they can look respect and look to for leadership. And if they meet a dude like that, they will fall in line. shyt's nature.

Before my girl met me she really ain't know too much about black history (even though she went to an HBCU). Now she's reading books on Garvey and is a Umar Johnson fan and wants to teach at his school and when it's ready.

Black men dropped the ball and the damage in our community is partially our fault. Which is why I don't really focus on the bullshyt they say because they're not getting what they need from us.

Yeah,

I didn't want to actually hurt nikkas feelings.... I see that you dont care.

Truth is... most of these nikkas aren't the type of men that a strong woman or weak women would want to follow. Black chicks naturally fall into pro blackness on some level if they are dealing and respecting a real man who exposes them to knowledge, instead of simply women bashing.

 

[mcdivit85]

The Black Male Privileges Checklist
Leadership & Politics

1. I don't have to choose my race over my sex in political matters.
2. When I read African American History textbooks, I will learn mainly about black men.
3. When I learn about the Civil Rights Movement & the Black Power Movements, most of the leaders that I will learn about will be black men.
4. I can rely on the fact that in the near 100-year history of national civil rights organizations such as the NAACP and the Urban League, virtually all of the executive directors have been male.
5. I will be taken more seriously as a political leader than black women.
6. Despite the substantial role that black women played in the Civil Rights Movement and Black Power Movement, currently there is no black female that is considered a "race leader".
7. I can live my life without ever having read black feminist authors, or knowing about black women's history, or black women's issues.
8. I can be a part of a black liberation organization like the Black Panther Party where an "out" rapist Eldridge Cleaver can assume leadership position.
9. I will make more money than black women at equal levels of education and occupation.
10. Most of the national "opinion framers" in Black America including talk show hosts and politicians are men.
    Beauty
    
    
    
11. I have the ability to define black women's beauty by European standards in terms of skin tone, hair, and body size. In comparison, black women rarely define me by European standards of beauty in terms of skin tone, hair, or body size.
12. I do not have to worry about the daily hassles of having my hair conforming to any standard image of beauty the way black women do.
13. I do not have to worry about the daily hassles of being terrorized by the fear of gaining weight. In fact, in many instances bigger is better for my sex.
14. My looks will not be the central standard by which my worth is valued by members of the opposite sex.
    Sex & Sexuality
    
    
    
15. I can purchase pornography that typically shows men defile women by the common practice of the "money shot.”
16. I can believe that causing pain during sex is connected with a woman's pleasure without ever asking her.
17. I have the privilege of not wanting to be a virgin, but preferring that my wife or significant other be a virgin.
18. When it comes to sex if I say "No", chances are that it will not be mistaken for “Yes".
19. If I am raped, no one will assume that "I should have known better" or suggest that my being raped had something to do with how I was dressed.
20. I can use sexist language like bonin’, laying the pipe, hittin-it, and banging that convey images of sexual acts based on dominance and performance.
21. I can live in a world where polygamy is still an option for men in the United States as well as around the world.
22. In general, I prefer being involved with younger women socially and sexually
23. In general, the more sexual partners that I have the more stature I receive among my peers.
24. I have easy access to pornography that involves virtually any category of sex where men degrade women, often young women.
25. I have the privilege of being a part of a sex where "purity balls" apply to girls but not to boys.
26. When I consume pornography, I can gain pleasure from images and sounds of men causing women pain.
    Popular Culture
    
    
    
27. I come from a tradition of humor that is based largely on insulting and disrespecting women; especially mothers.
28. I have the privilege of not having black women, dress up and play funny characters- often overweight- that are supposed to look like me for the entire nation to laugh.
29. When I go to the movies, I know that most of the leads in black films are men. I also know that all of the action heroes in black film are men.
30. I can easily imagine that most of the artists in Hip Hop are members of my sex.
31. I can easily imagine that most of the women that appear in Hip Hop videos are there solely to please men
32. Most of lyrics I listen to in hip-hop perpetuate the ideas of males dominating women, sexually and socially.
33. I have the privilege of consuming and popularizing the word pimp, which is based on the exploitation of women with virtually no opposition from other men.
34. I can hear and use language bytches and hoes that demean women, with virtually no opposition from men.
35. I can wear a shirt that others and I commonly refer to as a "wife beater" and never have the language challenged.
36. Many of my favorite movies include images of strength that do not include members of the opposite sex and often are based on violence.
37. Many of my favorite genres of films, such as martial arts, are based on violence.
38. I have the privilege of popularizing or consuming the idea of a thug, which is based on the violence and victimization of others with virtually no opposition from other men.
    Attitudes/Ideology
    
    
    
39. I have the privilege to define black women as having "an attitude" without referencing the range of attitudes that black women have.
40. I have the privilege of defining black women's attitudes without defining my attitudes as a black man.
41. I can believe that the success of the black family is dependent on returning men to their historical place within the family, rather than in promoting policies that strengthen black women's independence, or that provide social benefits to black children.
42. I have the privilege of believing that a woman cannot raise a son to be a man.
43. I have the privilege of believing that a woman must submit to her man.
44. I have the privilege of believing that before slavery gender relationships between black men and women were perfect.
45. I have the privilege of believing that feminism is anti-black.
46. I have the privilege of believing that the failure of the black family is due to the black matriarchy.
47. I have the privilege of believing that household responsibilities are women's roles.
48. I have the privilege of believing that black women are different sexually than other women and judging them negatively based on this belief.
    Sports
    
    
    
49. I will make significantly more money as a professional athlete than members of the opposite sex will.
50. In school, girls are cheerleaders for male athletes, but there is no such role for males to cheerlead for women athletes.
51. My financial success or popularity as a professional athlete will not be associated with my looks.
52. I can talk about sports or spend large portions of the day playing video games while women are most likely involved with household or childcare duties.
53. I can spend endless hours watching sports TV and have it considered natural.
54. I can touch, hug, or be emotionally expressive with other men while watching sports without observers perceiving this behavior as sexual.
55. I know that most sports analysts are male.
56. If I am a coach, I can motivate, punish, or embarrass a player by saying that the player plays like a girl.
57. Most sports talk show hosts that are members of my race are men.
58. I can rest assured that most of the coaches -even in predominately-female sports within my race are male.
59. I am able to play sports outside without my shirt on and it not be considered a problem.
60. I am essentially able to do anything inside or outside without my shirt on, whereas women are always required to cover up.
    Diaspora/Global
    
    
    
61. I have the privilege of being a part of a sex where the mutilation and disfigurement of a girl’s genitalia is used to deny her sexual sensations or to protect her virginity for males.
62. I have the privilege of not having rape be used as a primary tactic or tool to terrorize my sex during war and times of conflict.
63. I have the privilege of not being able to name one female leader in Africa or Asia, past or present, that I pay homage to the way I do male leaders in Africa and/or Asia.
64. I have the ability to travel around the world and have access to women in developing countries both sexually and socially.
65. I have the privilege of being a part of the sex that starts wars and that wields control of almost all the existing weapons of war and mass destruction.
    College
    
    
    
66. In college, I will have the opportunity to date outside of the race at a much higher rate than black women will.
67. I have the privilege of having the phrase "sewing my wild oats" apply to my sex as if it were natural.
68. I know that the further I go in education the more success I will have with women.
69. In college, black male professors will be involved in interracial marriages at much higher rates than members of the opposite sex will.
70. By the time I enter college, and even through college, I have the privilege of not having to worry whether I will be able to marry a black woman.
71. In college, I will experience a level of status and prestige that is not offered to black women even though black women may outnumber me and out perform me academically.
72. If I go to an HBCU, I will have incredible opportunities to exploit black women
    Communication/Language
    
    
    
73. What is defined as "News" in Black America is defined by men.
74. I can choose to be emotionally withdrawn and not communicate in a relationships and it be considered unfortunate but normal.
75. I can dismissively refer to another persons grievances as ^*ing.
76. I have the privilege of not knowing what words and concepts like patriarchy, phallocentric, complicity, colluding, and obfuscation mean.
    Relationships
    
    
    
77. I have the privilege of marrying outside of the race at a much higher rate than black women marry.
78. My "strength" as a man is never connected with the failure of the black family, whereas the strength of black women is routinely associated with the failure of the black family.
79. If I am considering a divorce, I know that I have substantially more marriage, and cohabitation options than my spouse.
80. Chances are I will be defined as a "good man" by things I do not do as much as what I do. If I don't beat, cheat, or lie, then I am a considered a "good man". In comparison, women are rarely defined as "good women" based on what they do not do.
81. I have the privilege of not having to assume most of the household or child-care responsibilities.
82. I have the privilege of having not been raised with domestic responsibilities of cooking, cleaning, and washing that takes up disproportionately more time as adults.
    Church & Religious Traditions
    
    
    
83. In the Black Church, the majority of the pastoral leadership is male.
84. In the Black Church Tradition, most of the theology has a male point of view. For example, most will assume that the man is the head of household.
    Physical Safety
    
    
    
85. I do not have to worry about being considered a traitor to my race if I call the police on a member of the opposite sex.
86. I have the privilege of knowing men who are physically or sexually abusive to women and yet I still call them friends.
87. I can video tape women in public- often without their consent - with male complicity.
88. I can be courteous to a person of the opposite sex that I do not know and say "Hello" or "Hi" and not fear that it will be taken as a come-on or fear being stalked because of it.
89. I can use physical violence or the threat of physical violence to get what I want when other tactics fail in a relationship.
90. If I get into a physical altercation with a person of the opposite sex, I will most likely be able to impose my will physically on that person
91. I can go to parades or other public events and not worry about being physically and sexually molested by persons of the opposite sex.
92. I can touch and physically grope women's bodies in public- often without their consent- with male complicity.
93. In general, I have the freedom to travel in the night without fear.
94. I am able to be out in public without fear of being sexually harassed by individuals or groups of the opposite sex.

No lie, I've never sat down and read this "Black Male Privilege" list. Even so, knowing how black feminists think, I was pretty sure it was all forms of bullsh#t.

But now that I have read it, I KNOW it's all forms of bullsh#t.

Thanks for that.

Peace

 

[iBrowse]

She's beautiful... and we give up on these chicks too easy.... when you fight w black feminist that shyt adds fuel to their fire.

They love threads like this.

I deal w these hoes (I know, lol) in real life....

Only a few are extra bitter....... most are following and need guidance. All you really have to do is speak to them, show them reality, and honestly...... overall WE NEED to be better examples of black men.

I know a few chicks who went from black feminist bullshyt... to just being pro black against white supremacy.

And yeah some are lesbo, some are smuts, etc... but who are we to judge? Thats not even the issue... our focus should be on not allowing the top feminist bytches to get more women on their side.

Besides, I dont argue w women anyway... they don't see your logic when you act like them

They're [out] there but most of them are fronting. Put a good black man in their face and they'll be ready to throw on a dashiki.

 

[mcdivit85]

i already have. you asked for further proof so i supplied that. maybe you should read up on some bell hooks, and angela davis. look at the list with a non-biased eye. while all of that list is not true, there are things that ring true on that list.

personal?
As a male, I have never had to worry about being raped Function of sexual organ....no privilege here
As a male, to insult my malehood, people will insult with female based derogatory terms (bytch p*ssy etc) Because acting like a woman is the opposite of manhood...."female" or "woman" could be interchanged with b#tch or p#ssy in this instance and still have the desired effect in the spirit of the insult i.e. "you acting like a female right now"...no privilege here....oh, and woman use b#tch and p#ssy when tearing down men as well
As a male, I have never had to worry about a woman grabbing my dikk unsolicited in public Ummm....this depends on the environment....I could find some threads on this here forum with dudes talking about fat, ugly chicks being alittle too friendly....no privilege here
As a black male, I cannot relate to the systematic rape that women from slavery times and beyond went through at the hands of white men Neither can the 2014 black feminists who wrote this....this one is simply assanine....no privilege here
As a black male, it is more socially acceptable for me to abandon my children than women Where is this acceptable? In the courtroom? Or maybe Child Support offices? Or maybe TV talk shows? Or maybe around the dinner table where Tamika gets clowned by grandmother for getting "knocked up" by that "nothing a## Tyrone from down the street"
As a black male, I do not have to worry about the angry black woman stereotype, or have my sexuality questioned because of my profession No, we have to worry about the Angry Black Man stereotype, the Oversexed Whoremonger/Rapist stereotype, the N#ggas is Lazy stereotype, the N#ggas don't take of their kids stereotype, etc.
As a black male, I can have a white wife and think my opinion on black american affairs is still valid And black women don't do this? See Stacey Dash and several other black female Fox News commentators who sleep with a cac every night but are all too eager to talk about what blacks are and aren't doing
As a black male, I don't have to worry about being foced into sex because of going on a date with a woman who paid Forcing someone to have sex is rape. Is there an epidemic of black women getting raped on first dates in the parking lots of Red Lobsters and TGI Fridays across the country?
As a black male, independence was something that was inherent- for black women, independence is still something they strive for Black men are no more independent than black women. Black men are still overwhelmingly dependent on non-blacks for jobs, access to homes, access to education, access to goods and services, etc. Where is this independent state, county or city that black men have built on their "inherent" independence?
As a black male, I have more positive black male figures on TV/media More doesn't equal better. Black men and black women have their fair share of stereotypical TV/movie characters. Is this really a debate?

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