The vast vast majority of men of all races, about 90% are average looking yet somehow hasn't stopped them from dating, getting married, having kids etc. Ugly to me is someone like this...
Now this dude is seriously ugly and yet he's the opposition leader in Uganda and close to becoming the president of a country. He didn't sit in room feeling sorry for himself but got somewhere in life regardless of how he looks.
If you're not deformed like this dude
Then shut up about your "ugliness" and man up.