#TeamUgly Reality Check: Guide/FAQ for Success

[ViShawn]

Y'all should have a thread to determine if y'all are ugly or not

 

[Oran "Juice" Jones]

Y'all should have a thread to determine if y'all are ugly or not

There's already a thread for that. It's called men of the coli post your pictures.

Women rate 80% of men as ugly. They don't make a distinction between average and ugly the way men do.

 

[ViShawn]

There's already a thread for that. It's called men of the coli post your pictures.

Women rate 80% of men as ugly. They don't make a distinction between average and ugly the way men do.

Haha yeah that's the funny thing. I think most dudes in here are average at worst. Not plain out ugly.

I've had ugly ass women check me out and some that are gorgeous into me. I'm not everyone's cup of tea though. I think dudes in here took too many L's or are in bad locations. I could be wrong.

 

[Weaver31]

Haha yeah that's the funny thing. I think most dudes in here are average at worst. Not plain out ugly.

I've had ugly ass women check me out and some that are gorgeous into me. I'm not everyone's cup of tea though. I think dudes in here took too many L's or are in bad locations. I could be wrong.

That's possible. Too many L's aint healthy for anyone. And too many L's from females we like can mos def fuk our confidence, self-esteem and perspectives up.

 

[ZoeGod]

That's possible. Too many L's aint healthy for anyone. And too many L's from females we like can mos def fuk our confidence, self-esteem and perspectives up.

That is why I feel if you tell a man who never felt wanted by women to go out and approach women when he has low self esteem that is a recipe for disaster. He will go in this endless cycle of pain and self loathing. He will get rejected and after each one will feel worse and worse. What they must do is work on themselves first(get money,get in shape,find a hobby etc) to help them fix their confidence. Then go out and meet women.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

That is why I feel if you tell a man who never felt wanted by women to go out and approach women when he has low self esteem that is a recipe for disaster. He will go in this endless cycle of pain and self loathing. He will get rejected and after each one will feel worse and worse. What they must do is work on themselves first(get money,get in shape,find a hobby etc) to help them fix their confidence. Then go out and meet women.

Haha yeah that's the funny thing. I think most dudes in here are average at worst. Not plain out ugly.

I've had ugly ass women check me out and some that are gorgeous into me. I'm not everyone's cup of tea though. I think dudes in here took too many L's or are in bad locations. I could be wrong.

That'll have u not even wanting to try tbh

 

[pop]

True....in order for bruhs to have supreme confidence...they have to have success...and that mainly comes from other people especially women. How they gonna tell someone to up their confidence if they been in negative situations and didn't have the success with women as other better looking men did?

This is the key. Women and society as a whole try to peddle the lie that self esteem is an independent attribute that is wholly dependent on the man. Men that are confident are confident because they have spent their formative years being socially and sexually accepted. Women smile at them, talk to them, help them, nurture them, support them, and ultimately have sex with them. Men on the other end of the spectrum spend their formative years being ignored by women at best, and mocked, scorned, rejected, ostracized, and have violence by proxy aimed at them from women. How is a man supposed to have a healthy self image, and positive view of women and society in general when he has grown up with no support from either?

 

[pop]

That is why I feel if you tell a man who never felt wanted by women to go out and approach women when he has low self esteem that is a recipe for disaster. He will go in this endless cycle of pain and self loathing. He will get rejected and after each one will feel worse and worse. What they must do is work on themselves first(get money,get in shape,find a hobby etc) to help them fix their confidence. Then go out and meet women.

Exactly. In this generation and going forward, if you do not achieve success with women by college age, you are pretty much fukked. Social media presence is extremely important to women, and not having girlfriends/ women friends in grade school really fukks up your development. You cant hide it anymore either. If you manage to past the looks threshold and she wants to get to know you, you must have some kind of heavy social media presence with lots of women friends on your accounts. A lot of women will try to look up your social media presence before they even speak to you. Not having social media and lots of women friends is a huge red flag and an immediate disqualifier. The worst part of all is that if one women finds out about your status she cant just mind her fukking business. She has to tell everyone that you are a loser/virgin/creep and basically make you a pariah at school, and work. Women are evil. You should never have any mercy or take pity on them.

 

[Fandroid]

Right. I find when people are in the mindset there is no point of arguing when someone wants to feel a way it won't matter. So I'll just say of course there is a middle ground and we can agree to disagree.

So you believe in a fairytale reality and are unable to believe there are absoutely ugly people.

 

[Fandroid]

I told you... Women are different from men.

No they're not.

I hate people that think men and women are 2 totally different species from each other.

Damn you're a dumb bytch.

Change your username to A Dumb bytch's Opinion.

 

[Teal.]

Thank you for this excellent guide...

 

[Palm Tree's & Blunts]

This is the key. Women and society as a whole try to peddle the lie that self esteem is an independent attribute that is wholly dependent on the man. Men that are confident are confident because they have spent their formative years being socially and sexually accepted. Women smile at them, talk to them, help them, nurture them, support them, and ultimately have sex with them. Men on the other end of the spectrum spend their formative years being ignored by women at best, and mocked, scorned, rejected, ostracized, and have violence by proxy aimed at them from women. How is a man supposed to have a healthy self image, and positive view of women and society in general when he has grown up with no support from either?

By logging off and actually trying. This thread is becoming pathetic. For all the guys in here complaining maybe the problem is you.

 

[ZoeGod]

Exactly. In this generation and going forward, if you do not achieve success with women by college age, you are pretty much fukked. Social media presence is extremely important to women, and not having girlfriends/ women friends in grade school really fukks up your development. You cant hide it anymore either. If you manage to past the looks threshold and she wants to get to know you, you must have some kind of heavy social media presence with lots of women friends on your accounts. A lot of women will try to look up your social media presence before they even speak to you. Not having social media and lots of women friends is a huge red flag and an immediate disqualifier. The worst part of all is that if one women finds out about your status she cant just mind her fukking business. She has to tell everyone that you are a loser/virgin/creep and basically make you a pariah at school, and work. Women are evil. You should never have any mercy or take pity on them.

Uh listen that is not want I meant. First women aren't evil. You gotta stop being bitter towards women. It doesn't do any thing but lead to more misery. Second all I am saying is figure out a way to increase confidence. Exercise is one. Multiple research say exercise lowers depression. Once you workout you feel better. All I am saying improve on yourself first before you go out and approach. Hating and saying women are evil will get you nowhere. I'm not down for women bashing.

 

[brebabyyy]

I've talked/dated men who has considered themselves ugly and perhaps some may have been. I feel as if you believe you're ugly, there's no need to always going on about it. Own it and move on. Confidence to me what makes a man attractive along with other qualities. Trust me I've seen the ugliest men get most prettiest/decent women.

 

[Raava]

So you believe in a fairytale reality and are unable to believe there are absoutely ugly people.

Can you read?