Thatâs a given but I have stopped friends from doing dumb stuff before. Lapse in judgement happens, for 18 year old kids, pumped on ego plus adrenaline ( alcohol or drugs may have played a part to). I wouldnât let somebody make a dumb decision like this because theyâre stupid.nikka what? How about the idiot wasnt smart enough not do it in the first place lol.