telling women they're gonna be single for life or won't have a family just doesn't hit like it used

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I guess a single man isn’t seen as much as a failure as a single woman in society’s eyes.

Its not that easy for the average guy to get consistent p*ssy hence the obsession with getting a girlfriend.

Single men are stereotyped as sexless losers,unproductive and immature.Especially if he has no kids and 30+ or close to it.

Some of the most common insults guys get is related to his inability to 'pull' chicks or employment status.This website is proof.

Single women are shamed heavily and seen as incomplete and worthless especially if she isn't married and making babies.

Most people are sheep and society successfully brainwashes people into thinking being single means you're a loser.

There's a reason people won't leave toxic relationships and get into a relationship with anyone just to avoid being lonely.

Humans are social creatures and hardwired to reproduce but not everyone needs someone to validate them 24/7.
 

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Why should they care. They’re more successful than you, black man. Making more money, graduating at a higher rate, starting more businesses, acquiring more passports, traveling more, buying more homes. At some point brehs need to sit down and reevaluate the scoreboard because it’s not pretty, and “but you’ll be single forever” is a meaningless insult coming from someone who is single too.

Real question is what are YOU doing to better your situation or maintain your success.

:dwillhuh:Black men earn more than women on average. Most of their degrees are in arts and humanities.
 

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Black men don’t need to figure out shyt. They should do whatever they want to do with their life. I’m tired of people telling black men what they need to do. fukk that. Black men can’t be the problem and the solution.

Also the women Willingly excepted what they were giving.

Fixing the problem is usually the solution to an issue, so we absolutely can. If we have the reigns of leadership in our community we must take the majority of responsibility when it isn't being run right.

When we have a higher standard for ourselves and our behavior we can demand more from women and for the most part they'll comply because that's what leaders do, they lead and others fodon't. I've seen it happen in real time.

But you have to have something worth following, and most men dont.
 

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My parents are 70 and 71 and let me tell you they would be fukking MISERABLE without each other. Hell you gotta deal with depression and lack of motivation WITH a spouse, without one? nikka...

Millenials and gen Z don't understand there's a difference between being single 18-35 and being single when you are 45, 55, 65. The whole culture revolves around young people and young adults so if you're single you feel you got all the time in the world. You can go to any bar, club, lounge, dating app, and eat good because young people like young people and older men like young women. Then you got the cougars for the young bols.

Being 50 and single tho? :patrice: Being the old dude / old broad at the bar or club :scust: Get at young people and they just look at you like :camby:

Not to mention everybody think they will be a millionaire off crypto and investments and won't need a second income to survive. :heh: Yeah fukkin right. Every man on his #GMB thinks he will look like Idris Eldba or Brad Pitt at 50. Gon be a lot of men and women on some "I never thought i'd end up in this position" in 20 years, mark my words. Also many millenialls will engage in buzzer beater marriages in their late 40's / early 50's.
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