telling women they're gonna be single for life or won't have a family just doesn't hit like it used

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Fixing the problem is usually the solution to an issue, so we absolutely can. If we have the reigns of leadership in our community we must take the majority of responsibility when it isn't being run right.

When we have a higher standard for ourselves and our behavior we can demand more from women and for the most part they'll comply because that's what leaders do, they lead and others fodon't. I've seen it happen in real time.

But you have to have something worth following, and most men dont.
Man they aint going to comply to shyt. They just going to keep moving the goal post:mjlol:
 

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Single men die faster than married men.


Single women live longer they married women.

Take that for what you will :manny:
Post the study with the data verifying the first sentence, and I"ll post another showing that lifespan has nothing to do with spousal support but ease of access to healthcare. In the 1930s, this might have been true, not so much now.

The second point sounds like some propaganda.
 

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Post the study with the data verifying the first sentence, and I"ll post another showing that lifespan has nothing to do with spousal support but ease of access to healthcare. In the 1930s, this might have been true, not so much now.

The second point sounds like some propaganda.

:mjlol: Google is your friend. There are several recent studies that show single women live longer than single men. I mean it's not rocket science. Working 40+ plus hours a week and then coming home and being responsible for the household chores, cooking, and kids sounds stressful to the body.
 

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There’s a lotta ego and copium in this thread. Men need to stop trying to fearmonger women into relationships.

How many times do I have to say it?

VINEGAR COURTSHIP DONT WORK.

If you gotta scare somebody into being with you, it’s already an L.

And you especially can’t scare chicks with that because a lotta older women who were married don’t WANT husbands after they divorce or when their husbands die. Ya’ll don’t talk to old chicks. I know you don’t because you will get your feelings hurt. They are BRUTAL. They are just like cats.

Women have always had to deal with solitude so they learned to form better social connections outside of romantic relationships. They’ll have a whole support circle of friends and church members and sorors. Who had to stay behind when men went to war and died or went to the store for cigarettes? Women outlive men on average, so there’s a high likelihood of women dying alone anyway. Now what?
:mjlol:
These shaming tactics are last ditch efforts by some men to wrangle chicks in. But the veil has been lifted. Chicks ain’t believing in fairy tales anymore. Why you think chicks outchea trying to make a dollar and delaying one of the strongest biological instincts they have, childbirth and marriage, until their ovaries get dusty? Men think attention and reproduction are the most powerful driving forces for women.

Wrong. And chicks are literally showing otherwise.

Survival is the strongest driving force. And beneath all those lies and myths about women ya’ll fed each other, is a ice cold pragmatic chick. Women are trying to make enough money to retire comfortably without having to be a “nurse and a purse” to a man in her Golden girls era. That’s why marriage is such a big deal to women in childbearing years. Not so they don’t die alone, but so they don’t die vulnerable. That’s what the alimony and child support game is about.
But once chicks age out of that rat race or grind for their own paper, companionship becomes an option. Not a necessity.

You talk to some old chicks and they’ll tell you, “I wouldn’t move in with no man if he came with a gold dikk!”

These are direct quotes btw. But keep rocking yourselves to sleep thinking you know what you know. Ya’ll aren’t women. And you don’t date men. So you don’t see how irritating some can be just to deal with on a daily basis. The ego. The complaining. The hypersensitivity. The hypocrisy. And now chicks making their own money too?!

They ain’t trying to be stressed out in their old age. Doesn’t mean that good relationships and real love ain’t beautiful and desired. It just means if you come with foolishness, women don’t think your juice is worth the squeeze. And for those well off retired educator AKAs who done raised their kids, got the dikk they wanted, divorced, done paid off their houses…it ain’t.
:yeshrug:People gotta come with something better than “if you don’t put up with my bs, you gon die alone”.

But keep on digging your heels in and getting mad at Booksnrain for telling you about the wetness of water.
 

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Man they aint going to comply to shyt. They just going to keep moving the goal post:mjlol:

Maybe it's anecdotal, but they comply with me. And I don't see any men that are personable, well groomed, and handling their business that deal with low quality women or have issues getting high quality women on their program.

:hubie:
 

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Maybe it's anecdotal, but they comply with me. And I don't see any men that are personable, well groomed, and handling their business that have issues with low quality women not getting on their program.

:hubie:
Wetalking about the Macro. The Micro isnt going to solve what you are talking about...
 

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There’s a lotta ego and copium in this thread. Men need to stop trying to fearmonger women into relationships.

How many times do I have to say it?

VINEGAR COURTSHIP DONT WORK.

If you gotta scare somebody into being with you, it’s already an L.

And you especially can’t scare chicks with that because a lotta older women who were married don’t WANT husbands after they divorce or when their husbands die. Ya’ll don’t talk to old chicks. I know you don’t because you will get your feelings hurt. They are BRUTAL. They are just like cats.

Women have always had to deal with solitude so they learned to form better social connections outside of romantic relationships. They’ll have a whole support circle of friends and church members and sorors. Who had to stay behind when men went to war and died or went to the store for cigarettes? Women outlive men on average, so there’s a high likelihood of women dying alone anyway. Now what?
:mjlol:
These shaming tactics are last ditch efforts by some men to wrangle chicks in. But the veil has been lifted. Chicks ain’t believing in fairy tales anymore. Why you think chicks outchea trying to make a dollar and delaying one of the strongest biological instincts they have, childbirth and marriage, until their ovaries get dusty? Men think attention and reproduction are the most powerful driving forces for women.

Wrong. And chicks are literally showing otherwise.

Survival is the strongest driving force. And beneath all those lies and myths about women ya’ll fed each other, is a ice cold pragmatic chick. Women are trying to make enough money to retire comfortably without having to be a “nurse and a purse” to a man in her Golden girls era. That’s why marriage is such a big deal to women in childbearing years. Not so they don’t die alone, but so they don’t die vulnerable. That’s what the alimony and child support game is about.
But once chicks age out of that rat race or grind for their own paper, companionship becomes an option. Not a necessity.

You talk to some old chicks and they’ll tell you, “I wouldn’t move in with no man if he came with a gold dikk!”

These are direct quotes btw. But keep rocking yourselves to sleep thinking you know what you know. Ya’ll aren’t women. And you don’t date men. So you don’t see how irritating some can be just to deal with on a daily basis. The ego. The complaining. The hypersensitivity. The hypocrisy. And now chicks making their own money too?!

They ain’t trying to be stressed out in their old age. Doesn’t mean that good relationships and real love ain’t beautiful and desired. It just means if you come with foolishness, women don’t think your juice is worth the squeeze. And for those well off retired educator AKAs who done raised their kids, got the dikk they wanted, divorced, done paid off their houses…it ain’t.
:yeshrug:People gotta come with something better than “if you don’t put up with my bs, you gon die alone”.

But keep on digging your heels in and getting mad at Booksnrain for telling you about the wetness of water.


Yeah but this thread is about younger women in their late 20s to early 40s. And we talking single and childish, with a heavy emphasis on childish.

Yes, a majority of single childish women get desperate when alone.
 

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:mjlol: Google is your friend. There are several recent studies that show single women live longer than single men. I mean it's not rocket science. Working 40+ plus hours a week and then coming home and being responsible for the household chores, cooking, and kids sounds stressful to the body.
You def correct

GMB brehs die faster and earlier

And they less healthy



Married men and mortality
A major survey of 127,545 American adults found that married men are healthier than men who were never married or whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood. Men who have marital partners also live longer than men without spouses; men who marry after age 25 get more protection than those who tie the knot at a younger age, and the longer a man stays married, the greater his survival advantage over his unmarried peers.

Harvard studies
Fred
 

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Whos telling a women that...If you with them then why would you say that and if you not why are you talking to them like that...If is your sister or cousin thats rude
 
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