There’s a lotta ego and copium in this thread. Men need to stop trying to fearmonger women into relationships.
How many times do I have to say it?
VINEGAR COURTSHIP DONT WORK.
If you gotta scare somebody into being with you, it’s already an L.
And you especially can’t scare chicks with that because a lotta older women who were married don’t WANT husbands after they divorce or when their husbands die. Ya’ll don’t talk to old chicks. I know you don’t because you will get your feelings hurt. They are BRUTAL. They are just like cats.
Women have always had to deal with solitude so they learned to form better social connections outside of romantic relationships. They’ll have a whole support circle of friends and church members and sorors. Who had to stay behind when men went to war and died or went to the store for cigarettes? Women outlive men on average, so there’s a high likelihood of women dying alone anyway. Now what?

These shaming tactics are last ditch efforts by some men to wrangle chicks in. But the veil has been lifted. Chicks ain’t believing in fairy tales anymore. Why you think chicks outchea trying to make a dollar and delaying one of the strongest biological instincts they have, childbirth and marriage, until their ovaries get dusty? Men think attention and reproduction are the most powerful driving forces for women.
Wrong. And chicks are literally showing otherwise.
Survival is the strongest driving force. And beneath all those lies and myths about women ya’ll fed each other, is a ice cold pragmatic chick. Women are trying to make enough money to retire comfortably without having to be a “nurse and a purse” to a man in her Golden girls era. That’s why marriage is such a big deal to women in childbearing years. Not so they don’t die alone, but so they don’t die vulnerable. That’s what the alimony and child support game is about.
But once chicks age out of that rat race or grind for their own paper, companionship becomes an option. Not a necessity.
You talk to some old chicks and they’ll tell you, “I wouldn’t move in with no man if he came with a gold dikk!”
These are direct quotes btw. But keep rocking yourselves to sleep thinking you know what you know. Ya’ll aren’t women. And you don’t date men. So you don’t see how irritating some can be just to deal with on a daily basis. The ego. The complaining. The hypersensitivity. The hypocrisy. And now chicks making their own money too?!
They ain’t trying to be stressed out in their old age. Doesn’t mean that good relationships and real love ain’t beautiful and desired. It just means if you come with foolishness, women don’t think your juice is worth the squeeze. And for those well off retired educator AKAs who done raised their kids, got the dikk they wanted, divorced, done paid off their houses…it ain’t.

People gotta come with something better than “if you don’t put up with my bs, you gon die alone”.
But keep on digging your heels in and getting mad at Booksnrain for telling you about the wetness of water.