Dude just always sounds so feminine. Sheesh. 


his BM not his wife. You still dont get it. You're thinking about marrying some random chick that runs off on you or that you run away from. we're not talking about that. we're talking about your real life partner in crime. Your mother is supposed to leave this earth way before you do if all things work out as planned. if you get sick in your old age your wife is basically obligated as if she was your mother to take care of you. If you've ever been sick and your down chick girlfriend or boyfriend hasnt at least put up some serious effort to take care of you. she/he aint the one. even if all other things are great about them. they aint the one.Doesn't matter, your mother will love you unconditionally. A woman could leave you tomorrow if you lost your job or status or if she thinks she can upgrade on some hypergamy shyt.
Usher put his BM over his mother...I bet he regrets that shyt.
There it isEgo..that's all this is..dude caught a moment and is trying to recreate that wave since his nuts got grabbed.. pandering to every and any demographic that wants to feed his fragile ego
His BM was his wife and I bet he still regrets ithis BM not his wife. You still dont get it. You're thinking about marrying some random chick that runs off on you or that you run away from. we're not talking about that. we're talking about your real life partner in crime. Your mother is supposed to leave this earth way before you do if all things work out as planned. if you get sick in your old age your wife is basically obligated as if she was your mother to take care of you. If you've ever been sick and your down chick girlfriend or boyfriend hasnt at least put up some serious effort to take care of you. she/he aint the one. even if all other things are great about them. they aint the one.
IF you can't trust your spouse to hold you down then dont marry them. its really that simple. I know what you're saying but understand what i'm saying. and for the record there are some people with some sh... mothers and fathers out there. lets keep it a buck. just because someone is your birth mother doesnt automatically mean they love you like they should. you dont auto love your child. sure for women its a lot more innate than it is for men. but its no guarantee that will be the case. There's a lot of mamas out there in love with some d... more than their sons and daughters to the point of hooking up with wack dudes who are molesting and/or verbally abusing their kids. just sayin. there's wack parents and wack spouses out there.

so thta wasnt his bm. it was a his wife. there's nothing to regret unless he was siding with her where she wasnt making logical sense. now i didnt say side with your wife vs you rmother and your wife is making zero sense. i would not do that and i would catch flack at the house for it. i dont care. i'm siding with the right side. if neither is right i side with neither.His BM was his wife and I bet he still regrets it![]()
Of course it matters, you know how much shut a black woman has to go through in life? And even more so as a black woman raising children. What's wrong wit you peopleThe way you said black like it matters in this context![]()
It's 2020 you think I'm dumb enough to believe in legal marriage? No difference between a wife and girlfriend, I seen girlfriends treat their men better than wivesYou shouldn't get married if you'll look at your wife- that's wife, not girlfriend- as just "someone else's daughter".
same question. if you married her and have stayed married knowing she cannot sire you an heir you clearly love this woman deeply enough to still navigate this journey we call life with her so yeah. you're gonna try to save them both and you're finna take that eternal g'nite.What if she can't have kid's but y'all married?
