Texting her in the morning?

[Dixon Cider]

The issue is your insecurity and that can't be hidden no matter what/when/how you text.

The point is to do what feels natural for you.

If you're truly trying to "not come off clingy". My advice is .....Only text her when you have something you need to communicate or something you need to ask her, no matter what time of day or who text who last. That doesn't matter.

Tired of being treated like a
Piece of
Meat

 

[NO-BadAzz]

If you're feeling her and you don't want to come off as clingy or a bugaboo, just text her with something simple like: "Hope you have/having a good day, you came across my mind, just wanted to shoot this text to you" and leave it at that, she'll prolly say 'aww' or 'thanks' but if she is really really feeling you, she'll pick up the convo and run with it and ask you how your day is going or show interest in what you're doing.

If you're over 25, it's timeout for the childish games, you gotta take the lead at some point and just say fuk what the program states..I'ma do me..and that means if you wanna talk to her, shoot her a text, if she's the one, she wouldn't/don't mind you doing that, but if she's full of games, then you'll know how to play the situation.

 

[HopeKillCure]

the GOAT commercial............ I was in tears the 1st time I saw this back in the day...........

The greatest commercials of all times ---no doubt.

"If any bytch ass think I lost a step...Because of what happened to my knee, and such, is in for a surprise...A RUDE, PAINFUL SURPRISE!"

 

[Boogie]

I can tell y'all don't get no hoes b/c y'all make everything complicated

 

[Loose]

You're right I am too old for it but i'm trying to do this right and not fukk it up. That means not getting into her space too much.

There should never be limits of space, if a chick ain't feeling you she ain't feeling you my g

 

[Deafheaven]

I wouldn't bother. A woman is more attracted to a man whose feelings are nebulous and unclear. It makes no sense to us because we are logical and men but thats just how it is until thats your main try to only use the phone to set up your next date. You want to remain a mystery. Sending a chick gn/gm text every day just shows how much you are already emotionally invested.

 

[Dixon Cider]

I wouldn't bother. A woman is more attracted to a man whose feelings are nebulous and unclear. It makes no sense to us because we are logical and men but thats just how it is until thats your main try to only use the phone to set up your next date. You want to remain a mystery. Sending a chick gn/gm text every day just shows how much you are already emotionally invested.

This makes the most sense

 

[Address_Unknown]

Thank you. I'm apprehensive to allow a
Female to get close after the last chick I was talking to flipped the script after we were getting too close after we fukked and had ill chemistry. I haven't fukked new chick yet... purposefully trying to pace it. Really trying to have something quality and lasting

That's why I'm very critical of chicks I feel like I should be with but ain't ever really kicked it one on one with in intimate affairs outside of just them few feeling out dates you might go on, if that much before you smash. I done jumped the gun and climbed into bed with a few chicks that I slowly found myself going "How the fukk am I supposed to deal with this outside of the bedroom?"

Glad to see you're treading carefully. Keep conversating and spending time is all I can really tell you. Each situation is different and while I can apply general advice in terms of dealing with females and how they should respond to your actions and what's not..errybody different, and alot of us are our own brand of crazy out here.

 

[Legend]

All the people who tell OP that he shouldn't care how he looks by sending a text in the morning, if he feels moved to, are right....

However.

The context is off.

The reality isn't set up for you to win that way... If there's anything that being in the new-age military taught me (programs to help eliminate sexual assault in the ranks but really just makes every male soldier feel like a rapist), it's that it doesn't matter how you feel. It's all about how a girl perceives your actions.

He can follow his feelings all day, decide not to play the game.... But that won't amount to shyt if she already indulges in the game.

At best, him just following his heart will expose him to a lot of women that like the hunt, as oppose to those with a preference of being normal and honest... He will go through a lot of the former types, a lot of them, assuming he texts/calls, does everything off the cuff without considering how he looks. At the same time, all the women in question --- the ones that like the hunt --- aren't any less fukkable than the normal types if he decided to just play the game and go through the motions.

If all you care about is p*ssy OP, then you will have a lot more success just playing the dumbass texting games; you know, the not gettin back til an hour or so later, have her thinking bout why you didn't text and all that, get her mind racing and wondering. ( iGeneration of women. It's just the reality).

If you care about more than just p*ssy, then doing everything off the cuff may make you appear thirsty, clingy or many other things, more often than not to women you may come across; however, the reward can be greater if you find someone who appreciates the straight forward approach. And that's only a matter of time.

I guess the takeaway is this: be straight forward with the broad, if you want. Based on her reception, you will be able to determine if she appreciates your plain approach or if she herself plays the texting games and does it on you. At that point, you know she is a bird and will consider your uncalculated texts every single morning as being thirsty or desperate.

 

[VFib]

Did you end up texting her OP?

 

[Caligula]

If you have to play games and crack a code to keep her interested, what happens when you get tired of playing and just want to be you?

 

[Piffiztheanswer]

If we spent time lastnight doing WHATEVER, doesn't have to include sex and I liked it and her, I'm texting her in the morning.

True playa 4 real

 

[WaveGang]

You're right I am too old for it but i'm trying to do this right and not fukk it up. That means not getting into her space too much.

Thinking too much

 

[Dixon Cider]

All the people who tell OP that he shouldn't care how he looks by sending a text in the morning, if he feels moved to, are right....

However.

The context is off.

The reality isn't set up for you to win that way... If there's anything that being in the new-age military taught me (programs to help eliminate sexual assault in the ranks but really just makes every male soldier feel like a rapist), it's that it doesn't matter how you feel. It's all about how a girl perceives your actions.

He can follow his feelings all day, decide not to play the game.... But that won't amount to shyt if she already indulges in the game.

At best, him just following his heart will expose him to a lot of women that like the hunt, as oppose to those with a preference of being normal and honest... He will go through a lot of the former types, a lot of them, assuming he texts/calls, does everything off the cuff without considering how he looks. At the same time, all the women in question --- the ones that like the hunt --- aren't any less fukkable than the normal types if he decided to just play the game and go through the motions.

If all you care about is p*ssy OP, then you will have a lot more success just playing the dumbass texting games; you know, the not gettin back til an hour or so later, have her thinking bout why you didn't text and all that, get her mind racing and wondering. ( iGeneration of women. It's just the reality).

If you care about more than just p*ssy, then doing everything off the cuff may make you appear thirsty, clingy or many other things, more often than not to women you may come across; however, the reward can be greater if you find someone who appreciates the straight forward approach. And that's only a matter of time.

I guess the takeaway is this: be straight forward with the broad, if you want. Based on her reception, you will be able to determine if she appreciates your plain approach or if she herself plays the texting games and does it on you. At that point, you know she is a bird and will consider your uncalculated texts every single morning as being thirsty or desperate.

She is very different and she seems to really like me for my different and understanding of her different. While maybe a few years ago i'd agree with that was all you needed but in 2017 era we coming up on the dynamics and shyt really makes this difficult. Where as
Women know they can get many guys if they are attractive and a guy can do
The same but for the guy it's more work, more heartache and more bullshyt. Now women have at least 3 men to rotate if single and deal with etc so If you hit too fast they get weird chemical shifting in the brain and may feel more comforted by guy #2 or 3 depending on schedules. I'd like to cuddle but when they tell me they cant sleep
Cuddling or are tired and we had sex I let them be. They at very least can kick a leg over or rub something too to show interest shouldn't have to be on us to have to read into
Every action. Got enough shyt going on and to deal with.

 

[Bless't]

All the people who tell OP that he shouldn't care how he looks by sending a text in the morning, if he feels moved to, are right....

However.

The context is off.

The reality isn't set up for you to win that way... If there's anything that being in the new-age military taught me (programs to help eliminate sexual assault in the ranks but really just makes every male soldier feel like a rapist), it's that it doesn't matter how you feel. It's all about how a girl perceives your actions.

He can follow his feelings all day, decide not to play the game.... But that won't amount to shyt if she already indulges in the game.

At best, him just following his heart will expose him to a lot of women that like the hunt, as oppose to those with a preference of being normal and honest... He will go through a lot of the former types, a lot of them, assuming he texts/calls, does everything off the cuff without considering how he looks. At the same time, all the women in question --- the ones that like the hunt --- aren't any less fukkable than the normal types if he decided to just play the game and go through the motions.

If all you care about is p*ssy OP, then you will have a lot more success just playing the dumbass texting games; you know, the not gettin back til an hour or so later, have her thinking bout why you didn't text and all that, get her mind racing and wondering. ( iGeneration of women. It's just the reality).

If you care about more than just p*ssy, then doing everything off the cuff may make you appear thirsty, clingy or many other things, more often than not to women you may come across; however, the reward can be greater if you find someone who appreciates the straight forward approach. And that's only a matter of time.

I guess the takeaway is this: be straight forward with the broad, if you want. Based on her reception, you will be able to determine if she appreciates your plain approach or if she herself plays the texting games and does it on you. At that point, you know she is a bird and will consider your uncalculated texts every single morning as being thirsty or desperate.