Texting her in the morning?

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I feel like if the girl isn't someone you are in a relationship with then sending goodmorning textsand good night texts are going to do more harm than good. Talking to a chick that we really hit it off and have plans this weekend. This week is busy for her. I'm wondering why she doesn't initiate text first...either shes making me and few other guys work for it or she just doesn't use her phone like that.

My Ex still tells me goodmorning and goodnight initiates texts and has a boyfriend.
With this new chick I feel comfortable with her but we still are in courting stage. Today I won't contact her at all and tomorrow maybe i'll text ... but in the morning? Will it make her day or make me look some typa way.
 

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Relationships aren't performance art. You're too busy trying to make sure you "look" a certain way with your actions when you feel a different way but are actively trying to hide it so she doesn't know.

That's childish and I'd wager you're too old to be playing these kinds of "if she don't hit me up I'm not gon her up" type games.

:francis:
 

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Relationships aren't performance art. You're too busy trying to make sure you "look" a certain way with your actions when you feel a different way but are actively trying to hide it so she doesn't know.

That's childish and I'd wager you're too old to be playing these kinds of "if she don't hit me up I'm not gon her up" type games.

:francis:
You're right I am too old for it but i'm trying to do this right and not fukk it up. That means not getting into her space too much.
 

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You're right I am too old for it but i'm trying to do this right and not fukk it up. That means not getting into her space too much.

This can be solved by communicating more effectively. The issue with the game you're playing is that it can be misinterpreted as you lacking interest and you'd still fukk it up. Next time before y'all hang out, watch porn and rub one out so you can focus less on manipulating your way into her vagina and focus more on her as a person and you'll be less confused about what she likes or doesn't like.
 

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This can be solved by communicating more effectively. The issue with the game you're playing is that it can be misinterpreted as you lacking interest and you'd still fukk it up. Next time before y'all hang out, watch porn and rub one out so you can focus less on manipulating your way into her vagina and focus more on her as a person and you'll be less confused about what she likes or doesn't like.
I took the focus off sex when dubbing hanging out at the crib last weekend but this weekend we hanging at the crib :shaq:
I guess I more so don't want to come off clingy. Females react so weird sometimes hot and cold you do and they move away you dont and they either move closer or think you don't care and get someone else.
Kinda hard for me to
Just jump all in. When they usually have a dude lurking somewhere they are about to move in with/can move in with/have
Moving in. Whole time you think you in there... you even fukked and in reality you wasted your time. I'd like to avoid these things.
 

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I ain't with the texting games....Chick asked me recently why she always has to send the first good morning text...I said "I be waking up late, and you've already texted" ...but I be awake at like 7am every day :youngsabo:

You not with the texting games but you with the lying about waking up late games.

:pachaha:
 
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