TFP: Relationship Advice from a Real Woman

[TheFemalePerspective]

Females will respond to an awkward or inappropriate guy that they like without a second thought. If we are being real awkwardness is determined by how much you are feeling dude.

Telling a guy that the girl is just reading into his text for hours without replying is setting him up for failure. 9 times out of 10 if a girl likes a guy she will reply/respond to his attempts to communicate in a rather prompt fashion. I have sat there with chicks while they looked at their phone, saw it was a guy they weren't really feeling like that, and giggled and proceeded not to reply. There is a clear and distinct difference between how a female behaves when she likes a guy and when she doesn't.

You need to first of all recognize the difference between a young girl and a young woman.

A young girl is naive enough to project a solid image onto a man she knows nothing/very little about. She can like (and giggle) for a man with no apparent reason. Her attraction is usually based on assumptions not in the realm of reality; she lives in a world of fantasy with Tyrone. Whereas a young woman is less likely to make a complete judgement about your character based on the few encounters you've had. She understands that people often wear a mask, thus is much more forgiving of awkward interactions. In such a case, calling the woman is not a bad idea -- she may prefer a different type of communication to the one you presented. Of course, in every situation you should use your own discretion.. and be able to read the signs of no interest; however, not every unanswered text translates to uninterested. I know women (like myself) who prefer a man call and set a date.. because that's what i prefer.

Treating every woman the same is the real downfall.

 

[FTBS]

You need to first of all recognize the difference between a young girl and a young woman.

A young girl is naive enough to project a solid image onto a man she knows nothing/very little about. She can like (and giggle) for a man with no apparent reason. Her attraction is usually based on assumptions not in the realm of reality; she lives in a world of fantasy with Tyrone. Whereas a young woman is less likely to make a complete judgement about your character based on the few counters you've had. She understands that people often wear a mask, thus is much more forgiving of awkward interactions. In such a case, calling the woman is not a bad idea -- she may prefer a different type of communication to the one you presented. Of course, in every situation you should use your own discretion.. and be able to read the signs of no interest; however, not every unanswered text translates to uninterested. I know women (like myself) who prefer a man call and set a date.. because that's what i prefer.

Treating every woman the same is the real downfall.

I was focusing about the concept not the form of communication. Since you singled out texting as the predominant form of communication amongst young people that's what I went with. You can replace texting with emailing, calling, IMing whatever you want and it's still the same concept.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

I was focusing about the concept not the form of communication. Since you singled out texting as the predominant form of communication amongst young people that's what I went with. You can replace texting with emailing, calling, IMing whatever you want and it's still the same concept.

Oh, I see.

Of course if someone ignores you completely...

Let them go.

 

[TM101]

I asked for questions not statements, but I'm willing to give you a reply Chris.

You see, the kind of women (people in general) that you attract are a reflection of yourself. If you are reckless person, then most likely you'll attract someone similar of a dysfunctional nature.

I don't know how old you are but I sense that you're still a teenager. Give it some time and I'm sure you'll figure out what it is that you want in life & subsequently find a woman that is on the same page as yourself.

I ain't a single father tho

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Time of the month.

Touché

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

I ain't a single father tho

How old are you? It might have to do with your age, demographic, area.. etc.

Don't lose hope.

 

[Peter Parker]

I'll bite because i'm a good sport, I met this chick at Chipotle or whatever, she seemed to be into me considering that I hadnt asked her a damn thing, I mean I had just met this chick and she asking me what my favorite movie is, what did I do today, laughing at all my jokes and shyt, so I hit her for the number and told her I'd text her later when I got back to the crib, I hit her like "heyo its pete, wassup" and she never hit me back, so I text her the same message the next day, no reply, why didn't this chick respond, its the oddest thing that I cant seem to wrap my head around, like im not even mad or nothing im pretty over it but I been like for the past few days tryna figure out why she did all that shyt and then not responding

 

[Chris.B]

I'll bite because i'm a good sport, I met this chick at Chipotle or whatever, she seemed to be into me considering that I hadnt asked her a damn thing, I mean I had just met this chick and she asking me what my favorite movie is, what did I do today, laughing at all my jokes and shyt, so I hit her for the number and told her I'd text her later when I got back to the crib, I hit her like "heyo its pete, wassup" and she never hit me back, so I text her the same message the next day, no reply, why didn't this chick respond, its the oddest thing that I cant seem to wrap my head around, like im not even mad or nothing im pretty over it but I been like for the past few days tryna figure out why she did all that shyt and then not responding

she saw you as a bytch.
Must be assertive next time.
Deep down women still want a man

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Just because she's not responding to your texts (promptly) doesn't mean she's not interested.

If that's all you're going on it's not enough info.

 

[Sterling Archer]

I'll bite because i'm a good sport, I met this chick at Chipotle or whatever, she seemed to be into me considering that I hadnt asked her a damn thing, I mean I had just met this chick and she asking me what my favorite movie is, what did I do today, laughing at all my jokes and shyt, so I hit her for the number and told her I'd text her later when I got back to the crib, I hit her like "heyo its pete, wassup" and she never hit me back, so I text her the same message the next day, no reply, why didn't this chick respond, its the oddest thing that I cant seem to wrap my head around, like im not even mad or nothing im pretty over it but I been like for the past few days tryna figure out why she did all that shyt and then not responding

I didn't read your or any post in here. I just came to say because you took my name. I reserve the right to EDIT this after I actually read this.

 

[Peter Parker]

she saw you as a bytch.
Must be assertive next time.
Deep down women still want a man

lol we was at chipotle, and I copped her number, I dont know what more she wanted, was I supposed to strip her naked and fukk her in some taco meat or something?

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

I'll bite because i'm a good sport, I met this chick at Chipotle or whatever, she seemed to be into me considering that I hadnt asked her a damn thing, I mean I had just met this chick and she asking me what my favorite movie is, what did I do today, laughing at all my jokes and shyt, so I hit her for the number and told her I'd text her later when I got back to the crib, I hit her like "heyo its pete, wassup" and she never hit me back, so I text her the same message the next day, no reply, why didn't this chick respond, its the oddest thing that I cant seem to wrap my head around, like im not even mad or nothing im pretty over it but I been like for the past few days tryna figure out why she did all that shyt and then not responding

Girls can be fickle creatures; I wouldn't waste my time thinking about her. It's obvious you dodged a bullet, my brother. Count your blessings and move on. But if you ever bump into her again, act real nonchalant and be like 'Hey, you cool?' and then chat up the girl next to her. She'll be feigning for your attention then, because she sounds like a starving energy vampire that hunts for young, kind men like yourself, so she can emotionally drain them. Be weary in this cold world and stay strong my brother!

 

[KinksandCoils]

i got nothing against TheFemalePerspective but i personally don't believe in asking females for advice on how to deal with females. Men who do it are setting themselves up for strings of Ls 98% of the time. Only females i would talk to is butch lesbians and even then i'd take it with plenty of salt.

the typical problem with females giving advice is that you will ask them "how do i get the girl?" and for some reason they will hear "how do i get the girl to like me?". now don'tget me wrong, there is nothing wrong with the girl liking you. but setting this as your goal is the reason most people take Ls and that's exactly what female advice will set you up for. but this thread is the OP's kitchen so i'm gonna let her cook.

so you rather ask a man about women instead of asking a woman about women?

what kind of logic is that?


Thats like asking another man about how to eat a girl out properly instead of asking a woman that knows exactly what feels good and what doesnt. There is enough women on here for guys to ask for advice but instead some of you would rather ask another man about a woman instead of asking a woman who is completely neutral in the situation and doesnt like you.

 

[Turbulent]

so you rather ask a man about women instead of asking a woman about women?

what kind of logic is that?


Thats like asking another man about how to eat a girl out properly instead of asking a woman that knows exactly what feels good and what doesnt. There is enough women on here for guys to ask for advice but instead some of you would rather ask another man about a woman instead of asking a woman who is completely neutral in the situation and doesnt like you.

a few things. i wouldn't ask a girl for advice on how to eat p*ssy (or how to fukk for that matter).

second, yes, i would rather ask advice on how to deal with women to other men for the reasons i explained. even in your post you talk about "what feels good" to women as if that was our main goal. the goal is to get your chick to cooperate. subconsciously, women will put the focus on what the woman in question wants instead of on what the guy wants and what's the most efficient way to get there.

 

[CityGuy]

so you rather ask a man about women instead of asking a woman about women?

what kind of logic is that?


Thats like asking another man about how to eat a girl out properly instead of asking a woman that knows exactly what feels good and what doesnt. There is enough women on here for guys to ask for advice but instead some of you would rather ask another man about a woman instead of asking a woman who is completely neutral in the situation and doesnt like you.

No offense but you're way off