That moment when you realize you really need to get your sh*t together...

[CrimsonTider]

I was having nervous breakdowns, like man these nikkas that much better than me

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

25. Got laid off my job and realized living to sex hot girls behind my girls back was not the path I wanna go no more.

I kinda want kids and a family. That's how I know I'm getting. Old.

 

[Pazzy]

You're doing better already..the first step is admitting that you have a problem..

lol

op, i realized i had this problem at 14. still working on it. you're not alone.

 

[Silver Surfer]

not too late....

 

[MikeBrownsJob]

It's over before it ever really began. This metamorphosis you speak of only happens for a select few. A zebra cannot change his spots. It's not in your DNA to be great because you come from poor stock and unplanned breeding.

My DNA is from the Gods.

 

[re'up]

To me, I have to constantly make myself aware to keep it together, not fall off, get complacent, be aware of my own flaws, and work on them. Always room for improvement, but it's healthy to be realistic.

None of it is easy, everything you do from cleaning the house, paying bills, to paying rent, how you earn money, it can all be draining and weary. I have friends though, who are perfect examples of what I DON'T want to be, flabby and sick, out of shape, always chasing the club, the drugs the alcohol, serious substance issues, basically, they never grew up since we were all in high school. Some still live at home, it's a cultural thing, but it's also because they are lazy, not motivated, incompetent people, content to be miserable. I tell them they are like the Kardashians or some shyt, they have family money/business, but I don't respect it, because they don't do anything for themselves, just complain, while being given a living while most fight for it, everyday.

 

[acri1]

social life and finances been stuck on for a minute now fukk it tho

Spoiler

Same here, I've been stagnant the last couple years but I just landed a new job with pretty good pay so I'm getting there I guess.

 

[stealthbomber]

i been feeling the same for the past few months, i just got a job last week

im tryna save up like 5 or 6 stacks next year

maybe start flippin cars as a side hustle :newman:

 

[Rominati]

shyt moving smoove for me. But I kinda wish I started this journey a year ago. But im young so im not too far off.

 

[dynamik]

It's over before it ever really began. This metamorphosis you speak of only happens for a select few. A zebra cannot change his spots. It's not in your DNA to be great because you come from poor stock and unplanned breeding.

My DNA is from the Gods.

Reinforced by your 200 posts in just a matter of 2 weeks.

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

when I lost my fiance from chasing other tail. A good woman at that.

 

[Loud Still Coolin]

now

 

[Rocket Scientist]

A man must make changes everyday. Life is too precious to let your potental rot away, doing the same thing day after day.Good thing is you admitted you wanna change.Now you just got to do it!Gotta grow up one day,dont wanna be stuck in your 2nd childhood.

 

[gameover82]

I reached that point brehs.

Woke up feeling like mad sh1t needs to change.

Health
money
mentality
relationship

Mad sh1t.

Kinda late being as though i'm 28 but hey at least it happened. I aint tryna go out like

never too late

 

[Demon]

I smoked a bundle of wet one night and woke up in jail. It was that day I said shyt gotta change