The amount of wenching happening on television is becoming ridiculous.

[iBrowse]

I said as much years ago on this site. That BMBW pairings are so rare to non existent is very concerning. Most dudes didn’t care because it was prescandal era. Now that we are seeing a concentration of IR on in mainstream tv that consist of BW of all ages now it’s a problem. It
Would have been nice to have that same energy when black girls were complaining back then.

But there is a constant attitude on this site that BW want the right of refusal or want to dominate BM sexual interest or wants to force BM to only want them.

So what is the solution, Black women should celebrate Black male interracial relationships but should only with black men and take whatever they can get in a black male pool according to the coli.

That’s demeaning and insulting and until this site is honest to themselves how they want to rig the game to only favor them than these gender conversations will persist.

I hear you. The fact of the matter though is that we have systemic generational trauma (in this case psychological) that we’re dealing with and most people are either speaking from a place of hurt/bitterness or ignorance because they’ve never experienced an enriching experience example of black love. Now we’re left with oppression olympics. It’s a fact that both bm and bw are out here contributing to the problem as well as other bm and bw contributing to the solution.

I understand that you’re a woman so yeah you’re frustrated so I get it. The coli is predominantly made of men so you’re going to see a general consensus that favors us men just as a predominantly female site will do the same for women. I wouldn’t draw a blanket generalization off of people here. Just do you in real life and be righteous.

 

[personaguy]

I said as much years ago on this site. That BMBW pairings are so rare to non existent is very concerning. Most dudes didn’t care because it was prescandal era. Now that we are seeing a concentration of IR on in mainstream tv that consist of BW of all ages now it’s a problem. It
Would have been nice to have that same energy when black girls were complaining back then.

But there is a constant attitude on this site that BW want the right of refusal or want to dominate BM sexual interest or wants to force BM to only want them.

So what is the solution, Black women should celebrate Black male interracial relationships but should only with black men and take whatever they can get in a black male pool according to the coli.

That’s demeaning and insulting and until this site is honest to themselves how they want to rig the game to only favor them than these gender conversations will persist.

Wench it was already proven that bw/wm was always more common than bm/ww on tv so why the fukk are you still pushing your narrative? You screaming or being sassy dosent make it true

 

[Ya?]

Wench it was already proven that bw/wm was always more common than bm/we on tv so why the fukk are you still pushing your narrative

No it wasnt i can debunk the star taht supper very easily by quoting his own quote and expanding on it quite easily.

 

[personaguy]

I hear you. The fact of the matter though is that we have systemic generational trauma (in this case psychological) that we’re dealing with and most people are either speaking from a place of hurt/bitterness or ignorance because they’ve never experienced an enriching experience example of black love. Now we’re left with oppression olympics. It’s a fact that both bm and bw are out here contributing to the problem as well as other bm and bw contributing to the solution.

I understand that you’re a woman so yeah you’re frustrated so I get it. The coli is predominantly made of men so you’re going to see a general consensus that favors us men just as a predominantly female site will do the same for women. I wouldn’t draw a blanket generalization off of people here. Just do you in real life and be righteous.

why are you coddling someone who is wrong and pushing something that is false

 

[Robo Squirrel]

A black man can’t even relax and watch a tv show without some black woman being paired with a white man on it. shyt is becoming ridiculous and it’s like almost every show now.

They’ve clearly realised the hypocritical racist white man has no problem watching a black woman with a white man than the opposite so they’ve gone crazy with it. I pretty much have to fast forward this shyt or most of the time just stop watching altogether [/QUOT
.

Facts.

 

[personaguy]

No it wasnt i can debunk the star taht supper very easily by quoting his own quote and expanding on it quite easily.

Do it

 

[Ya?]

I hear you. The fact of the matter though is that we have systemic generational trauma (in this case psychological) that we’re dealing with and most people are either speaking from a place of hurt/bitterness or ignorance because they’ve never experienced an enriching experience example of black love. Now we’re left with oppression olympics. It’s a fact that both bm and bw are out here contributing to the problem as well as other bm and bw contributing to the solution.

I understand that you’re a woman so yeah you’re frustrated so I get it. The coli is predominantly made of men so you’re going to see a general consensus that favors us men just as a predominantly female site will do the same for women. I wouldn’t draw a blanket generalization off of people here. Just do you in real life and be righteous.

don’t disagree, and never denied that both men and women come from our respective perspectives.

 

[Ya?]

Well when the toxic and unproductive voices are the ones being given the megaphone by the powers that be that's something that has to be addressed. To ignore that would be to allow their state sanctioned muck to bog down what could be a productive discussion. You can't control it but like you said some shyt deserves to be pointed out so more people know what the game is and can move accordingly.

Agreed which is the reason that neither side should tell the other to ignore the negativity as if it is going to go away just because it is not acknowledged. Men on this site would have never seen the light if twitter never became what it is now truth be told. Deny, hide, pretend would have been the course.

Most people are incapable of empathizing until they are subjected to the same thing.
Hence why I keep on saying that when black female entertainers will mirror black male entertainers energy then we will be able to come to head.
I was always in favor of black relationships being celebrated I am sick of the interracial/colorist agenda. But what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

I want to see black teen heartthrobs and complex healthy black relationships not just dysfunctional ones.

 

[SuavePrince]

There are still good black women out here brehs.

Black women are in Europe, North America, South America, Africa, Caribbean etc.

 

[Ya?]

There are still good black women out here brehs.

Black women are in Europe, North America, South America, Africa, Caribbean etc.

There are good Black women everywhere as there are good black men everywhere. But anti-blackness and colorism is also everywhere.

 

[Voice of Reason]

I used to think "black masculinity is under assault" people were crazy but now I'm seeing that there is a lot of truth to it. They started with clowning hoteps a few years ago now they are critical of any man that isn't in lock step with the agenda.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

why are you coddling someone who is wrong and pushing something that is false

I don’t know why trolls entertain her. She had a previous account that was banned but they’ve allowed her to continue trolling. She’s clearly mentally ill and I’m not joking. You wouldn’t argue with a crazy hobo in the street. Best not to entertain her.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

@Tariq Nasheed just posted this too .

Police officer was like

 

[Ya?]

I don’t know why trolls entertain her. She had a previous account that was banned but they’ve allowed her to continue trolling. She’s clearly mentally ill and I’m not joking. You wouldn’t argue with a crazy hobo in the street. Best not to entertain her.

Are you ok? You know me?

 

[Voice of Reason]

Police officer was like