The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Wild self]

The issue is the black female nerd is so rare.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

If regular brothas have to put in work for women then those cake ass socially inept fakkits have to also

They ain't special. Being a "nerd" isn't a handicapped

real talk this is the truth. I been a nerd my whole life. Played final fantasy, metal gear, I love star wars and tinkering with my phone's OS...etc etc. I do lots of nerd shyt. But I never had an issue with getting girls..why?

Because "nerd" is just a part of a greater whole, but even beyond that I let a person know off rip this is what I'm into and if you ain't with it you can get lost. You can call games "childish" but I could say the same about getting fukked up at the club every weekend. Or spending $600 on a phone when your lights are due. Black people (women in this case) have a real issue with dismissing non-hood, non-poor people shyt as not valid.

Goes back to the whole monolith argument. I have no problem with ole girl growing up and realizing that perhaps the type of man she was dealing with wasnt the best. But I DO have issue with this notion that being a "nerd" equals social ineptitude/sterility/beta/quietness.

I knew kids who kept burners right next to the Gundam Wing dvds, brehs.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Who cares?

What's the difference from a regular dude running around and fukking girls he doesn't wanna marry till he finds a nice wholesome wifey type and a chick running around, getting fukked by guys that aren't marriage material, until she finds a nice, wholesome nerdy type?

Your right, who cares? Women shouldnt tell men what to do and men shouldnt tell women what to do, and neither can be mad at the outcomes of their decision. Men and Women are not equal, as much as people cry for it each person has different purposes in a relationship. Men dont have to carry babies nor do they have a clock when they can no longer produce. If a woman wants to ignore she has a biological clock thats on her, but she cant expect anyone to want her or act like she deserves someone. The same way she is entitled to her life decisions men are also entitled to their decisions and neither owe the other anything.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

"It wasn’t until my 30s that I began questioning my line of thinking in terms of Thugs and Black Boy Nerds; I started to wonder what the Thug brought to the table. Who was he aside from smoldering good looks, stilted conversation and emotional closed-off-ness? Once I stripped away the fantasy, I realized he was a scared little boy, acting out by withholding affection and commitment and I was a scared little girl accepting his bad behavior because I didn’t think I deserved better.

Oh fukkin PLEEEEASE....now that you're old and washed up and no "Thugs" want that saggy worn out p*ssy anymore...now you are considering the Black Boy Nerds???
bytch GTFOHWTBS....They ain't lookin for your tired run-thru ass.
You still dumb as hell and ain't thinkin...those Black Boy Nerds are in their 30's too and wise to your bullshyt after dealing with it for a lifetime.
And that's exactly why they're with Ericka and Becky.


"The more I embraced being a Black Girl Nerd, the more I discovered I wanted a Black Boy Nerd of my own. I was tired of the dark, brooding, emotional terrorism of the Thug. I rethought my archaic ideals surrounding masculinity, which helped me to embrace the type of guy that worked for me, not against me. I’m not saying Black Boy Nerds can’t hurt us, but I do think they’re worth getting to know."

Yeah...the exact words of every old washed up ran-thru hoe I ever knew from the PJs back home.
Every...single...gatdamned...one of them is posting on FB about the same damn shyt. With their 3+ kids and project living with multiple baby daddies who are still on that same stupid pathetic "Gangsta" bullshyt that they were about back in the 7th grade.
Every one of those silly birds are posting about how they want a nerd now and want someone who can give them what they need.

Well, nerds don't want you!

Buncha fukkin dodo birds...your time passed decades ago bytch.
We married wholesome females (black, white and other) that would date nerds and had better minds and more going for them.
fukkin black females do this shyt every damn day, I see it all the time...the whole range of em.
The young ones curving regular smart black kids, the 20 year old ones getting knocked up by tyrone and his boys, and the 30+ ones with saggy t*ts and 3-4 kids and just disgusting talking bout "I need a good man".
Man, fukk YOU!!
Every one of you fukk YOU!!!!
I hope you NEVER find a good man, stay with fukkin Tyrone and his cronies!!
That's what you deserve, and I hope they shyt on you every fukking day!

 

[Neuromancer]

Care to chime I'm
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/nerdy-black-girls-do-you-ever-feel-like.378225/

 

[VFib]

The issue is the black female nerd is so rare.

No they aren't. You just aren't checking for them.

 

[Blackout]

Then just date/fukk/marry black female nerds and keep it moving.

As you said, no one is obligated to date anyone they don't want. If washed thots want a nerd to save them, then ignore said washed thot and go find yourself a nerd girl who will watch all the anime you want and play risk with till 5am in the morning.

But noooo, no one is talking about black female nerds, you keep talking about the former bad bytches who have had their hoe streak and now want to settle down.

And that is what is so funny to me. Why are you nikkas even worrying about these women? How weak do you have to be to let someone guilt trip you into a relationship?

No they aren't. You just aren't checking for them.

Who says that black nerds wouldnt want black female nerds?

Black nerds even have to compete with other types of men for black female nerds when playas and other types of black men decide to wife a good girl.

 

[Gold]

Who says that black nerds wouldnt want black female nerds?

Black nerds even have to compete with other types of men for black female nerds when playas decide to wife a good girl.

yeah.. all men have to compete with other men for women...

Welcome to the world breh...



I swear the entitlement in this thread is killing me

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

They damn well should. I think anyone being socially inept would jump at the chance for anyone to like them. It's a shame someone needs to teach them something about the world and women. But they as men must also accept their bad choices.

This is true too, thats why I hope these dudes aren't just handing out commitment like candy to these women who had their fun and want to settle for marriage and stability.

Asian males struggle heavily with women but once they hit mid 30s, they will get suckered by a woman who wants financial stability . I was kicking it with this Asian dude, black, white and Asian women were giving him no shot, little do they know he is in his late 20s working in cyber security pulling 150k plus .

I was telling this dude, dont ever buy a woman's attention, thats how a lot guys end up with these past their prime broads who want a simp lol..

 

[Gold]

The issue is the black female nerd is so rare.

I know more black nerds than bad bytches

 

[Blackout]

yeah.. all men have to compete with other men for women...

Welcome to the world breh...



I swear the entitlement in this thread is killing me

Entitlement? Nowhere did I say that nerds are entitled to these women

Im saying that they have to have more game and have to put in more effort than other type of men.

 

[Wild self]

No they aren't. You just aren't checking for them.

If they were more well known and out there, life would be that much better. This topic wouldn't even exist.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I think thats what our community does not get. a good percentage of the marriageable financially stable black me are gone by 25 and wont be coming back. You ostracize them and they leave, yet they will complain they aren't "waiting" for them when they finally want them.


These dudes are gone and you wont be able to get them back. Black females need to realize this by 22 but majority educated or not dont until 32.


I even see it down here in Atlanta half of my black colleagues are with white or asian women. I work in high finance and these thots (geeky or not) dont want em.

So I stopped preaching to em to marry black, its impossible to convince someone thats starving not to go hunt and eat elsewhere

THANK YOU!!!!
That's exactly the same thing I've been preaching here in the Bx and the DMV!!
These dumb hoes aren't worth the time of day. If they won't see you because they're eyeing a thug, that's the first sign you don't want their stupid asses anyway.

Date white, date asian, date indian, date whatever or whoever respects you for who you are and fukk all the rest!
I always hated that bullshyt belief that you're supposed to stick to dating black females because you're a black guy. Believing that bullshyt is why I didn't get any play til almost the end of fkn high school.

Don't believe anything you're told, follow your mind, heart and your balls and don't change for anyone!!!

 

[QuavoFlow]

fat thot
this is one of the dumbest things i ever read

same old shyt, be a thot in high school and through your 20s

then wanna settle down with a S̶I̶M̶P̶ "good guy"


how any one of yall can take females seriously beyond sex and cooking in 2016 is beyond me

 

[Gold]

I'm I was talking about black female nerds. Read my posts.

So the female black nerds are going after the thugs and leaving nothing for you?

EDIT: I'll admit I didn't read every post, I'll go back and check