The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[miranda]

Black nerds rarely end up divorced no matter who they end up with lol.

i said in my experience, actually dated 2 guys in this situation, both have "college sweetheart" white exwives, but seem to have a preference for black women

 

[Bless't]

I'm lucky to have found a female nerd. Damn lucky.

Gamer.
Writer.
Loves comic books/movies/shows.
Voracious reader.
loves anything that has to do with space.

And I'm not labeling her a nerd because of those things... she's self proclaimed.

Never considered myself a nerd but damn... we like the same things. Seems to be shaping up that way.

 

[Neuromancer]

So the female black nerds are going after the thugs and leaving nothing for you?

My post actually says the opposite.

 

[Scott Larock]

gOOD EDUCATED STABLE DUDES ARE USUALLY OFF THE MARKET BY 25.

aFTER 30 IT'S RARE TO FIND A GOOD DUDE, CHILD FREE AWITH A GOOD JOB.

aFTER 35 YOU CAN FORGET ABOUT IT, YOU TAKING CARE OF A DUDE AND DCALLING IT A DAY.

aFTER 40, JUST GO TO CHURCH AND CALL IT A DAY.

a MAN AFTER 40, HE'S GONNA MARRY A FORMER JUMPOFF, JUST DON'T PUT TOO MUCH INTO HER AND CHILL WITH THE CREW.

QUALITY DOESN'T STAY ON THE MARKET LONG AT ALL. REALITY IS ALOT OF SISTER ARE fukkING WITH DUDES THAT DON'T REALLY WANNA COMMIT TO NO ONW WOMAN. AND ALOT OF THESE DUDES ARE ESTABLISHED TOO, NOT BROKE CATS.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

yeah.. all men have to compete with other men for women...

Welcome to the world breh...



I swear the entitlement in this thread is killing me

It's no competition really but if you'd pay attention you'd know that vFibs post implied that a non-thuggish black male pursuing a nerdy black female was an easier task than a thuggish black male pursuing a nerdy black female, which is totally opposite to reality. That's why she got that kind of response.

 

[Blackout]

i said in my experience, actually dated 2 guys in this situation, both have "college sweetheart" white exwives, but seem to have a preference for black women

You have experience with black nerds?

From our last convo it sounded like you had no experience with nerdy black men.

 

[VFib]

I love how every black woman over 30 is assumed to be washed up and ran through.

 

[Gold]

Entitlement? Nowhere did I say that nerds are entitled to these women

Im saying that they have to have more game and have to put in more effort than other type of men.

Well yeah you have to put in more effort when you are the one who has been putting in the least amount of effort your entire life.

You have to work just to get to an even playing field because you've been avoiding women from the jump.

this is the definition of entitlement breh

 

[Neuromancer]

I'm lucky to have found a female nerd. Damn lucky.

Gamer.
Writer.
Loves comic books/movies/shows.
Voracious reader.
loves anything that has to do with space.

And I'm not labeling her a nerd because of those things... she's self proclaimed.

Never considered myself a nerd but damn... we like the same things. Seems to be shaping up that way.

Eat breh.

 

[Blackout]

Well yeah you have to put in more effort when you are the one who has been putting in the least amount of effort your entire life.

You have to work just to get to an even playing field because you've been avoiding women from the jump.

this is the definition of entitlement breh

Thats a straight up generalizing lie.

Nerdy black dudes have to put in more work by default and they do so they dont have to end up as 40 year old virgins.

 

[Neuromancer]

Well yeah you have to put in more effort when you are the one who has been putting in the least amount of effort your entire life.

You have to work just to get to an even playing field because you've been avoiding women from the jump.

this is the definition of entitlement breh

All nerds avoid women? Generalize much?

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I'm sorry; but I can't show sympathy to a person who allowed a bum ass Nikka, or a Instabytch to ruin their life. You had your fun and made a bad decision(s) . This women seemed like she was hurt by Stefan Urkal; and now wants Steve Urkel to step back in. Nah Nikka, it doesn't work like that. Also it isn't fair to the guy or girl who worked hard knowing that entering the thug/Instabytch life wasn't for them from the jump.

BTW: You can tell she didn't have a father growing up, because she allowed TV to dictate the type of man she wanted.

Ladies if you have your Shyt together don't settle for being somebody other choice. And fellas same here!

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

gOOD EDUCATED STABLE DUDES ARE USUALLY OFF THE MARKET BY 25.

Naw homie, a lot are typically playing the field. No guy in his mid 20s is rushing towards commitment.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

They still have to put in more effort than you regardless.

You see those biggest unapologetic anime geeks that your talking about. They have more game than you.

I consider myself average looking
I take pride in my appearance
All my clothes are clean and they fit
I wash my ass, brush my teeh and exercise
I have things to talk about and I can listen
I have my own things and interests
Never have STDs
I don't have children and I haven't killed anybody yet


Most of that stuff is common sense.
I'm not doing anything special, so I don't understand how much more game tha a "geek" or "nerd" require outside of 3 -4 of those things that I listed

You didn't read the text?

Nope. I didn't feel like it would enlighten me any more than the other bi-weekly threads on the matter of black women only liking thugs

It's not the way I see it it's the way it is lol. Of course not all but the majority of BW seem to want guys what are either "thugs" or have thuggish qualities. This is one of the reasons why there are more black families missing the dad in the home than any other race in America because they prefer and are stupid enough to procreate with someone who is typically unreliable. To that 95 percent of black women the term nerd is used as an extreme. I've heard nerd used not only by black women but black men as well as a man who doesn't have the typical thuggish demeanor associated with the stereotypical modern black male or rap and hip hop culture. These are the out casts lol he doesn't necessarily have to be a geek as some of you guys are trying to use in favor of BW's choices. Nerds and geeks are too totally separate things of course he just has to lack that exemplification of the stereotypical black male our media portrays.

I would ask you what you consider the anatomy of a thug to be but, honestly, this whole subject is tired and it's been debated to death on her

I'll just guess that your views and interactions with black men and women are severely limited if you believe that the majority of us are thugs and thots

 

[Gold]

Thats a straight up lie.

Maybe we have different definitions of nerds. The nerds I knew growing up didn't go to prom, didn't ask girls out on dates, didn't go to dances, didn't do sports.

They focused on their studies.

They didn't focus on doing things to attract women.

They weren't calling me inviting me to parties and social events. That's what the athletes did.

What is a black nerd to you?