The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Blackout]

Dated non exclusively, black the guy that got with the hood chick

Dated exclusively, white

I meant you.

Was your first boyfriend white or black?

 

[The Mad Titan]

I"m just going to say this and I'm done.

Before I met my boyfriend, I was dating a black male nerd who gussed over the fact that I was interested in anime, comic books, video games, built my own gaming computer, etc and how he doesn't meet black women who are into that very often. A month later, he's not interested in a relationship so whose fault is that


Another instance, I was dating this black guy who wasn't necessarily a nerd but also wasn't a thug either and he gave me the for a hood chick but I guess that's because I like thugs, oh wait


But believe whatever helps you sleep at night/get through the day. Everyone's experience is different.

See mars that's where you getting things confused, most black nerdy dudes that are upset are upset because they don't even get to taste the cookie. Where as with all your boyfriends or people that were interested in you, you probably got to get your spot worked at least be it bad or good



I'm assuming most these nerdy dude's that are complaining about not being able to get a chick, especially a black chick are mostly complaining about not being able to smash/date/ or hook up with them more so that find long term solutions.


But like I said I agree with those that say its harder, because it is. Not impossible, but its def not as easy. Truthfully online is probably one of those kind of dudes best bets.

 

[Neuromancer]

Exactly. " NO BLACK WOMEN wants me! Wah WAh" But if this black woman approached they wouldn't want her. Threads like this make me laugh. I don't have a problem with people who date IR, but enough with the excuses.

I am physically not large enough to support her head on my shoulder.

 

[Arishok]

I meant you.

Was your first boyfriend white or black?

I just answered

 

[Blackout]

I just answered

So black men only like hood chicks/IG hoes?

 

[Arishok]

So black men only like hood chicks?

Did I say that?

 

[FSP]

Awkward nerdy types usually don't have enough approaches/experience with the opposite sex to be making any kind of sweeping generalizations about 'all Black women like xyz...'

You would think nerds of all people would understand what a proper sample size is to make a proper statistical analysis, but I guess that all goes out the window when they get in their feelings.

Do you really believe all that boils down to "black nerds don't try hard enough".

 

[thekidvoodoo]

I mean, do we get mad at dudes for fukking a bunch of Instathots and then settling down with a "wifey" type?

What's the difference?

I repped this, but on second look it's wrong.

The breh wanting to settle down with "wife material" after years of thots does so by only two ways:

1) wifed up wifey type in college (no ring yet), cheated like crazy with the thots and then gave her a ring

2) ran through thots left and right, decided he needed to find wifey... Marries a "born again" thot from outside his wild days circle and don't even know it

Most people agree that #1 ain't cool and most people areat breh #2.

But for brehs feeling entitled to wifey after years of debauchery, are the women mad at them? Cause if not.. It doesn't matter. There aren't bitter brehs bemoaning how they're being judged for being hos and can't find a "good woman" now. That's just the way it is. Hold us accountable for our past if you want, but don't go thinking it's just going to be the other way when us brehs stay getting passes.

 

[Blackout]

Did I say that?

Did I say this?

So basically black women like playas and thugs? Got it.

 

[killacal]

beard

 

[Gold]

Amd quad core
GeForce gtx can't remember the series atm
Full ATX
Full tower
No OC
1 TB hard drive
8 gb RAM
And its currently not working because my psu died

-I'm gonna assume 4150-4350 on stock air. It runs very hot and has a huge TDP

-Nothing wrong with a geforce card unless your cpu is actually an APU. If so, you are missing out on free hybrid crossfire that is probably worth about 2 to 10% performance gains.

-8gb on a quadcore with a system running a 64-bit OS is a serious bottleneck. Double that ram
-Full tower
-1 TB hdd drive should be a backup, invest in a SSD boot drive

sorry about your PSU.. we've all been there

fukk. I wish I had the bread build.

Breh you can do it on the cheap. I spent a lot on mine but that's cuz I have a spending problem...

I honestly could have spent 1500 less and gotten similar results .

All depends on what you are trying to do really

I don't want to derail this thread tho... I can talk about this shyt forever

 

[Arishok]

Did I say this?

Yes, you've been saying that the whole thread why else would this women be more receptive to Playas and not you?

 

[Blackout]

Yes, you've been saying that the whole thread why else would this women be more receptive to Playas and not you?

I never said all black women

 

[Arishok]

-I'm gonna assume 4150-4350 on stock air. It runs very hot and has a huge TDP

-Nothing wrong with a geforce card unless your cpu is actually an APU. If so, you are missing out on free hybrid crossfire that is probably worth about 2 to 10% performance gains.

-8gb on a quadcore with a system running a 64-bit OS is a serious bottleneck. Double that ram
-Full tower
-1 TB hdd drive should be a backup, invest in a SSD boot drive

sorry about your PSU.. we've all been there



Breh you can do it on the cheap. I spent a lot on mine but that's cuz I have a spending problem...

I honestly could have spent 1500 less and gotten similar results .

All depends on what you are trying to do really

I don't want to derail this thread tho... I can talk about this shyt forever

I had no idea about computers when I started and still barely do

 

[Neuromancer]

-I'm gonna assume 4150-4350 on stock air. It runs very hot and has a huge TDP

-Nothing wrong with a geforce card unless your cpu is actually an APU. If so, you are missing out on free hybrid crossfire that is probably worth about 2 to 10% performance gains.

-8gb on a quadcore with a system running a 64-bit OS is a serious bottleneck. Double that ram
-Full tower
-1 TB hdd drive should be a backup, invest in a SSD boot drive

sorry about your PSU.. we've all been there



Breh you can do it on the cheap. I spent a lot on mine but that's cuz I have a spending problem...

I honestly could have spent 1500 less and gotten similar results .

All depends on what you are trying to do really

I don't want to derail this thread tho... I can talk about this shyt forever

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