The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[JudgeJoeForilla]

What does that have to do with "nerds/lames" gettin or not gettin p*ssy from black women?

You goof, use your brain. It's a simple as this a nerd to black women and other black men like you for that matter is a man who doesn't fit the description of the arrogant boastful slothful black male. It's not the guy who likes anime or reads comic books those are geeks. Hell a nerd in a black woman's eyes doesn't even have to be super educated. He just has to be separate and apart from the typical "thug, player, stoner" that so many black women were foolish enough to procreate with. These are the guys passing their genes to the next generation of black people.

 

[Blackout]

offtopic, but this girl is such a cutey pie

edit:

nope, yep, i stand by what i said. most of these "black female nerds" gravitate towards non-black men

Yep but watch them deny this tho

 

[Neuromancer]

Some deflection going on up in here.

 

[Insensitive]

I hate those extreme labels too. But we got far too many people with social power labeling people one of 2 categories. And it's been going on for the last few decades.

Most black folk are in the middle, but only one small portion eats. Like capitalism where the majority suffer and a few wealthy people have and control everything.

That's not even remotely close to an accurate description of Black people and it certainly hasn't been going on for "decades".
This is a NEW phenomenon brought on by the popularity of Hip Hop/Gangsta rap and the adoption of Style and Language from
the inner city not necessarily because black men in mass became thugs because that's all black women are attracted too.

Many "Black men" are eating, I'm a fukking proud nerd and I've never struggled with attracting black women, the problem with
certain types of "Black" people period is they don't like or want to be around black people and that shyt can be felt ALL the way across
the room.

I'm a nerd so I've had to listen to my black friends who only listen to metal, spends dozens of hours playing videogames and aspire to
be artists/game designers go on about how "Black people don't like me" or "I don't think any black woman/man would be interested in me"
or even worse they fetishize white people like their skin color makes them special.

Nine times out of 10 they're fukking projecting or dealing with some fukked up ugly view of what being "Black" entails.

 

[Wild self]

You really seem to think that I give a rat's ass about you or what you think. I don't exist to impress your whiny, complaining ass. YOU are the one with the dating issues and needs help. YOU tell ME what your hobbies are and maybe someone here can help you. Oh no wait, you are tall and light skinned, so that's enough.

As far as the bold, that's none of your damn business.

I travel a lot (4 continents), roll with a crew that makes money off of studio engineering, own stocks and a piece of real estate, always posting from my phone and not at home. Love to play golf, have hundreds of people in my immediate area who know me practically by family. And so on. My life far from dull.

But I hardly mention that because you too busy getting played in a dating scene that should be catering to you. I ain't hating or being immature, just calling out the bullshyt for what it is.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

offtopic, but this girl is such a cutey pie

edit:

nope, yep, i stand by what i said. most of these "black female nerds" gravitate towards non-black men

Not gonna front Id prolly walk right past this chick without a second thought

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

You goof, use your brain. It's a simple as this a nerd to black women and other black men like you for that matter is a man who doesn't fit the description of the arrogant boastful slothful black male. It's not the guy who likes anime or reads comic books those are geeks. Hell a nerd in a black woman's eyes doesn't even have to be super educated. He just has to be separate and apart from the typical "thug, player, stoner" that so many black women were foolish enough to procreate with. These are the guys passing their genes to the next generation of black people.

The term "nerd/lame" in the black community is ass backwards and I cringe when black ppl use it. "Nerds/lames" in the black community are just everyday, normal functioning people in other communities.

 

[TEH]

"Bad boys" have always been "in style" James fukking Dean starred in this movie
in the 1950's.

Guess who had young women collectively losing their shyt ?

Rockstars ?
Rap stars ?
etc.
All of these guys epitomize "Bad boys" who engage in risque behavior, the problem
is people don't literally like "Bad boys" very rarely are women turned on by violent or
just generally evil people.

In black pop culture which affects black youth culture it varies though ...

Remember MJ and Prince and Debarge?

Remember the 80's

Gerri Curl Juice and glittery clothes

Ok

Go ahead and call that stuff bad boy if you want that's on you ...

Right after that soft simpy R&B was still running things (Afrocentric hip hop and Gangsta Rap were in the back) until bad boy / gangsta hip hop fully kicked in

 

[Phoenix Hoely]

You basically just ignored the bigger picture because you're too hard headed and stubborn to hear the truth. I'm not going to go in circles with you continue to contribute nothing to the black community but defend faulty practices for vain reasons and watch it dwindle to nothing.

Shut the fukk up, sissified ass nikka. You nikkas on here make issues out of shyt I've never hear most black men in the real world complain about. You nikkas always have some fukking excuse on why you suck as an individual. No women want a self-loathing, low self-esteem ass nikka who can't admit to the simple fact he needs to work on himself. I don't see how you nikkas have time to get rejected by chicks when you spend a considerable amount of time engaging in discussions complaining about them. You nikkas are self-entitled. Of course, no woman will want you if your actual personality is like your forum personality. They have every fukking right too. She ain't obligated to talk, fukk, or date you.

As for contributing to the black community, more than half of y'all nikkas don't do shyt, but complain about the opposite gender. Like I stated before, the root's threads are never given this much attention meaning y'all nikkas don't give a fukk about the black community. You only give a fukk when the topic is about black women, even then y'all don't offer no damn solutions, just complain about minuscule things like "hair hats". fukk y'all unaccountable ass nikkas.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Nah, you running with labels and propaganda. I ain't miserable. I never said anything about a woman crushing my confidence (which ain't true), and I never said anything about me being lonely.

I just said that people who benefit from it are negligent because they right now, similar to all non black groups in white supremacy, but in the dating scene.

I'm convinced that you enjoy creating imaginary arguments outta nowhere

I never said anything about a woman crushing your confidence

Never said shyt about you being lonely.

Guilty much

 

[Wild self]

The term "nerd/lame" in the black community is ass backwards and I cringe when black ppl use it. "Nerds/lames" in the black community are just everyday, normal functioning people in other communities.

Thank you. That's what it boils down to, but watch some posters try to make people's lives harder just cause they call out on the bullshyt

 

[Neil Tyson]

offtopic, but this girl is such a cutey pie

edit:

nope, yep, i stand by what i said. most of these "black female nerds" gravitate towards non-black men

She probably has a nice personality.

 

[Neuromancer]

Not gonna front Id prolly walk right past this chick without a second thought

I wouldn't

 

[MalikReloaded]

Imma just cut @MarsPunka off. There aren't any black nerds. Black female nerds = the ugliest, most overweight, most desperate women in the black community that are so thirsty they'll accept the nerds and lames because that's all they can get. That's what she's really tryna say, so I'll say it for her. The Moniques, the Countess Vaughns, the Preciouses. That's the kinda women she's talking about. Nah. No thanks. Most black lames arent unattractive. They just don't live up to the hypermasculine standards of the black community. You clean them up, put them in a suit, put money in their pocket and they don't look too bad. So why should they get with the absolute worst looking black women. All that hyper masculine thug shyt doesn't fly in other communities. So the cute average girls over there don't see him as lame or undesirable. He's saw as normal. And you'll get some cute non-black girls liking you eventhough the cute black girls thought you were too lame and too square. That's why them nikkas hopping the fence like their lives depended on it. You're like some janky local business man trying to sell someone an inferior product for $100 and try to convince them to stay loyal to local businesses (black love) when a superior product is online for $40. Go get a black nerd that looks like Monique or Marty Khan when you can get a cute slim non-black chick. Yea no thanks.

 

[marcuz]

Not gonna front Id prolly walk right past this chick without a second thought

i would never ditch muh clementine