The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Neuromancer]

No man is an island. It's not a matter of needing people. But you should surround yourself with positive supportive people who inspire you to be your best. Some people you will resonate with more than others and some will come into your life temporarily who will teach you a lesson that will make you better in the future.

At the end of the day, we are all dependent on each other. The fear of being vunerable is what keeps people from bonding.


I disagree. I'm not putting myself out there looking for a buyer. If I was to go along with the transaction analogy, I'd say I was a rare find in an old boutique. Only someone who sees the value beyond the frame, who sees the masterpiece in the art will get me.

1. I self improve best alone Tesla was like that. I have positive people around me, I just don't want to feel like I'm doing something to impress someone anymore or that I'm beholden to them.

2. You just sold your self to me. See that was easy. But what I meant was that we're always all under scrutiny. I just want to not give a damn.

 

[Blackout]

Who said anything about ratchets? I'm talking average black women.

Hopefully he finds a sista who will give him a chance.

Better for a sista to be with him than for her to be with some "real nikka with confidence" who will leave her to raise their kids on her own.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Oh, and sidenote: If you watch anime, and you're over the age of 13...you're a loser.

I'd say that around 90% of my classmates in high school watched anime (I went to a pretty "nerdy" high school). The vast majority of us have healthy dating lives and we have things going for us. So just because we watch anime, we are losers? k. I had no idea that someone's hobby could label them as a loser. Id' hate to find out what kind of environment you grew up in. You probably also think that people who play badminton or make origami are "losers". Yes?

 

[FSP]

Hopefully he finds a sista who will give him a chance.

Better for a sista to be with him than for her to be with some "real nikka with confidence" who will leave her to raise her kids on her own.

That's about to be @CinnaSlim

 

[FSP]

Oh, and sidenote: If you watch anime, and you're over the age of 13...you're a loser.

I used to love anime when I was 14-16

I still know this group of friends that do it

They were so into Naruto Shippuden like you wouldn't believe.

It's really really hard for me to watch anime at 24. Even DBZ which I knew I loved.

 

[FSP]

Cinnaslim is that toxic kind of black chick who is cute af, smiles a lot and is polite acting to everyone but only accepts getting her p*ssy blowed out by the roughest dudes in the city on the low

 

[Wild self]

Average black women don't necessarily want thugs. They want real nikkaz with confidence

I ain't a real nikka, I'm a black man. To many, real nikkas do dumb shyt disguised as masculinity. There a difference between the two.

 

[MalikReloaded]

Breh... you sound like someone who is in high school.

You may think that i'm oblivious and delusional but in reality... i'm probably just older than you.

When you get older and talk to older women, you will see that they will rarely extol the virtues of dating a thug. In fact, they will more often than not look for a stable square.

But hey... maybe i'm just full of shyt breh... who knows

And when you talk to younger women, you will see that they rarely look for the stable square.

So....what are you saying? Except the obvious.

In their 20s, women chase after thugs. In their 30s, they want squares to pay the bills and buy them a house. You can try to frame it under being mature and being more responsible but, it's all bullshyt....it's really about their sexual prime being over and them trying to snag a reliable partner before their looks are completely gone. That's not them DESIRING a stable man. If they desired one, they wouldn't wait until they're 30 to seek one. Its called being desperate.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I ain't a real nikka, I'm a black man. To many, real nikkas do dumb shyt disguised as masculinity. There a difference between the two.

 

[notwhoiusedtobe]

Average black women don't necessarily want thugs. They want real nikkaz with confidence

I didn't say anything about thugs either. But define real nikka? What is that? He speaks with his head up, back straight, eye contact, smiles and all that. Is that not confidence?
He's a Russell Wilson type of dude. When it comes to women he's that type of cheesy. And maybe if he was caked up that wouldn't matter , but he's not
Now, funny thing about that, his (yt) buddy set him up with this white girl who was mad successful - worked for a major publishing company. She thought he was confident enough

 

[FSP]

I ain't a real nikka, I'm a black man. To many, real nikkas do dumb shyt disguised as masculinity. There a difference between the two.

Why do real nikkas brag about being hoes??

 

[Ronnie Lott]

And when you talk to younger women, you will see that they rarely look for the stable square.

So....what are you saying? Except the obvious. In their 20s, women chase after thugs. In their 30s, they want squares to pay the bills and buy them a house. You can try to frame it under being mature and more responsible but, it's really about their sexual prime being over and them trying to snag a reliable man before their looks are completely gone.

Are you generalizing all black women or all you talkin about ratchets?

 

[Wild self]

Ignore black power and knowledge of self for some p*ssy, breh. I ain't hating at all, but get the facts straight.

 

[Wild self]

Why do real nikkas brag about being hoes??

That's commodity to them. fukking thousands of ratchets and lost women while being a damn stereotype is wack. If you can get it while being an upstanding person going through personal development , cool, but to sell out your basic principles that make your existence is wack.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I didn't say anything about thugs either. But define real nikka? What is that? He speaks with his head up, back straight, eye contact, smiles and all that. Is that not confidence?
He's a Russell Wilson type of dude. When it comes to women he's that type of cheesy. And maybe if he was caked up that wouldn't matter , but he's not
Now, funny thing about that, his (yt) buddy set him up with this white girl who was mad successful - worked for a major publishing company. She thought he was confident enough

A real nikka is one who walks, talks and exudes confidence. Handles his business. Has steady income, is independent, has a job, a vehicle, handles himself like a boss, takes charge, is a leader, cares about his health and appearance, isn't afraid to stand up for himself, hits the weights, knows how to move in a room full of vultures, can adapt to any surrounding, can converse with any type of female, doesn't bytch, whine and complain that bytches ain't checkin for him, is always looking to improve himself and his situation, has goals and keeps positive people around him.

I could go on