The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Blackout]

That's bullshyt man. Why? Because you assume that what makes a person a nerd is because they are too nice. That's wrong. Nerds are so by interests only. I've only dated nerds and their personalities range from nice to cocky. How many nerds on thecoli that like dragon ball z and gaming but are complete dikks? Exactly.

Plus you assume no one likes nerdy guys when you are totally wrong. I've never seen a nerd lack a girlfriend because of their geek status. Social awkwardness or isolation or physically unattractive? Yes, those are barriers. otherwise nerds eat too, you just are blind to it or choose to ignore it. Even the ugly quiet kid who wore the same dirty plaid shirt everyday from orchestra and played Pokemon had a girlfriend. She was on his level, but she existed. And they were happy.

For the record I am talking about normal nerds not crazy people lol. So yes most nerds are nice which is why they can get easily used and abused by the wrong woman.

I dont assume that no one likes nerds. What I know is that nerdy interests is what actually becomes a barrier because most black nerds are social. We are not talking about white or Indian nerds. Thusly thanks to the nerd barrier a black nerd has to try harder to get a black woman compared to a normal dude since black women that go with nerds arent common.

So yes they go with women on their level if one is around and open to nerds but if one isnt around then he is forced to date out. But hey you wont believe this cuz you think it cant happen when multiple people in this thread and in the OP confirmed it. Both nerd and non nerd alike.

 

[LezJepzin]

This narrative is tiring. If you're a "unconventional" black man, then cook with the ingredients in your kitchen.

 

[(Lean Ambrose)]

Get in the gym

Word life...

 

[TwistedMetal]

We're all on an auction block.

 

[TwistedMetal]

The black woman's downfall is all about
Their decisions.

Life is about decisions

Who's the fattest group of people?


Who's the brokest group of people (worth a average of five dollars) ?

Who has the most stds (3 times more then there own race of men)?

Which group of people have highest percentage of single mothers?

I go to the food mart every day and i see a black woman with 2 or 3 kids, paying for food with of course food stamps ,ebt, etc

Everybody got choices in my e40 voice



No other men of any race has to deal with these with these odds

And the women who are successful (strong independent types) claim they ain't got no time for no man.

That hatred

 

[YeLovesBoston]

How many "nerdy nikkas" have the opportunity to fukk thots and then marry a nice, wholesome girl? Only the most attractive men can do that.

Women can sleep with whatever type of man they're actually attracted to, then turn around and use "nerds" and nice guys for their money.

thots will fukk anybody.

 

[YeLovesBoston]

I still don't understand how the article rubs anybody the wrong way. Just another black gender war on the Coli

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

I still don't understand how the article rubs anybody the wrong way. Just another black gender war on the Coli

Because she's proving the stereotype that's attached to a lot of women, especially black women and she has entitlement issues. She just set women back a whole year or 2 and pretty much gave any heartbroken nerd a reason to further fck over the women who are around them.

 

[YeLovesBoston]

Because she's proving the stereotype that's attached to a lot of women, especially black women and she has entitlement issues. She just set women back a whole year or 2 and pretty much gave any heartbroken nerd a reason to further fck over the women who are around them.

so she realized she could have done much better and it was too late

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

so she realized she could have done much better and it was too late

In short

 

[MalikReloaded]

Black nerds aren't even real nerds. A real nerd stays in his room programming all day, no showers, unshaven, plays dungeons and dragons, and world of watercraft, building robots and motherboards, are highly anti-social. Looks like Steve Urkel or Carlton or someone similar. How many black dudes legitimately fit that description? Not a lot. In our community, if you not a playa, a thug or a real nikka, then you're a lame. A nerd. That just shows how weird the black community is. That's why those nerds can leave and date women from other groups so easily. Because they're not real nerds. They're normal dudes. The BC is too hyper masculine.

 

[badtguy]

Black nerds aren't even real nerds. A real nerd stays in his room programming all day, no showers, unshaven, plays dungeons and dragons, and world of watercraft, building robots and motherboards, are highly anti-social. Looks like Steve Urkel or Carlton or someone similar. How many black dudes legitimately fit that description? Not a lot. In our community, if you not a playa, a thug or a real nikka, then you're a lame. A nerd. That just shows how weird the black community is. That's why those nerds can leave and date women from other groups so easily. Because they're not real nerds. They're normal dudes. The BC is too hyper masculine.

Lol perception is crazy I had glasses on took them off at work and the black ladies Said I act and look like a completely different person when I take them off. Mind you they all wear glasses too.

But for some reason I'm a nerd. Lol judging by this ladies picture if I was in my younger wild ghetto thug days I would said like lady looks lame as shyttttttt

 

[Wild self]

Black nerds aren't even real nerds. A real nerd stays in his room programming all day, no showers, unshaven, plays dungeons and dragons, and world of watercraft, building robots and motherboards, are highly anti-social. Looks like Steve Urkel or Carlton or someone similar. How many black dudes legitimately fit that description? Not a lot. In our community, if you not a playa, a thug or a real nikka, then you're a lame. A nerd. That just shows how weird the black community is. That's why those nerds can leave and date women from other groups so easily. Because they're not real nerds. They're normal dudes. The BC is too hyper masculine.

It's one extreme or another. No in betweens.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Even tho "Creed" was a movie, it was telling that they were calling dude a square.

That's the reality. If you ain't posted up on the block or knocking down jumpshots, you's a geek.

 

[Reginald Noble]

I dislike insecure men because I also suffer with insecurity and I feel like because they are men they should be better than me. I want to spend time with someone who makes me a better person, or we make eachother better people. I don't want to be around people who bring me down. A lot of the time people like to bond over misery and sit and stew in it. I want more.

Men want more too . This is not against you personally but your general life perspective on Men is shared and very common among American Women of the Millennial Me, Me, Me Generation

Why would I as a secure Man want an insecure Woman fukking up my vibe?

People in misery should bond with each other they are both undergoing the same process. I am beyond that phase and not in the habit of lending a "helping hand" to females in distress this is not the chivalry era anymore. American Women are strong, independent and fearless

Ever heard of the phrase "Equally yoked" well many Women have forgotten it and choose to either sleep with a thug beneath them or try and tag along and be a kept Woman to a Man who is 10x above their level then wanna wonder why he is cheating with Ms. Power Lady because they thought they could "Level Up" and instead are just riding on his coattails

No Man has room for luggage in his life either shape up or ship da fukk out In 2015 it's not a Man's job to make his Woman "better" in America - that's why so many Women are unhappy is they try and lock down a superior nikka and end up getting curved