The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Mirin4rmfar]

Both articles are full of generalization. The guy is letting high school experiences fukk up his game and the chick is just a dumb bird.

Take it from a former awkward nerd, most black women don't want thugs lol. The finest black woman I pulled was strictly based on not being stereotypical( I am tall with an athletic physique but was extremely shy at the time.the only nerdy thing about me is Academics) and we clicked right away and she even hit me up first. Honestly after I pulled her, I have been able to date quite a few attractive black women ever since then. The finest black woman I am friends(at one point more than just friend, would have dated if we lived in the same city) wants nothing to do with a thug. She is beautiful and 22 years old.

Also a lot of these tupes of guys usually settle for the bottom of the barrell white chick. I am not even comfortable being seen with a white chick in public anymore.

The more assumptions you make about a woman's taste, the more Ls you will take. A month back I had a girl go out of her way to hook up her bad ass counsin with me. Mind you, my ass would have thought she was out of my league.

Let that high school shyt go.

 

[Neuromancer]

So because people care he has to explain himself? Or force himself to date women he's not attracted to/interested in or whatever the case may be? At the end of the day, those people that care aren't paying his bills, feeding him, giving him money, etc. They are doing nothing to make sure he is healthy physically, mentality, or emotionally. The only person doing that for him is him so the only opinion that should matter is his. But let's be honest the black males who do pawg because they feel black women don't want them aren't announcing why they pawg to explain their reasons, they're doing it because whether consciously or sub-consciously they know they're doing it for the wrong reasons and are trying to explain to themselves why they pawg not to other people.

Or they're doing from a place of hurt. Not right either way but still.

 

[Soon]

I get what you're saying. As I said before I advocate for self improvement and finding some one who is gonna compliment you. I found my black girl nerd and I'm watching her rise as I rise. Just saying.

True, chemistry is everything.

It took me a while to get it

It wasn't until I was messing with this 52 year old chick (I'm 34). And I thought she was past the puppy love stage, but she was acting all love jones towards me, almost like a teenager. Then I realized once a women likes you she is not content until she knows she got you. We split ways, but it shows you there is no reason to get anxious over anyone, if they like you they will never make things difficult.

I've seen black nerds snatching up black women who were 8's and 9's, because that's what she liked. If they like you they will never make things difficult.

 

[Mr. Negative]

This is huge when it comes to dating black women. Though a lot of the thug chasers have fathers that are good role models in their lives.

yeah, they rebel against the archtype their father represents, then look for men that remind them of their fathers the later and "unstable" life becomes.

edit: some of them *blanket statement defense*

 

[Neuromancer]

Both articles are full of generalization. The guy is letting high school experiences fukk up his game and the chick is just a dumb bird.

Take it from a former awkward nerd, most black women don't want thugs lol. The finest black woman I pulled was strictly based on not being stereotypical( I am tall with an athletic physique but was extremely shy at the time.the only nerdy thing about me is Academics) and we clicked right away and she even hit me up first. Honestly after I pulled her, I have been able to date quite a few attractive black women ever since then. The finest black woman I am friends(at one point more than just friend, would have dated if we lived in the same city) wants nothing to do with a thug. She is beautiful and 22 years old.

Also a lot of these tupes of guys usually settle for the bottom of the barrell white chick. I am not even comfortable being seen with a white chick in public anymore.

The more assumptions you make about a woman's taste, the more Ls you will take. A month back I had a girl go out of her way to hook up her bad ass counsin with me. Mind you, my ass would have thought she was out of my league.

Let that high school shyt go.

I think the nerd they mean is the anime comic kind. You're also tall and women love that regardless. But I digress. Good W's for you.

 

[Neuromancer]

True, chemistry is everything.

It took me a while to get it

It wasn't until I was messing with this 52 year old chick (I'm 34 by the way). And I thought she was past the puppy love stage, but she was acting all love jones towards me, almost like a teenager. Then I realized once a women likes you she is not content until she knows she got you. We split ways, but it shows you there is no reason to get anxious over anyone, if they like you they will never make things difficult.

I've seen black nerds snatching up black women who were 8's and 9's, because that's what she liked. If they like you they will never make things difficult.

Lemme ask were these nerds academically or hobby wise? What did they look like?

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Rappers, actors, athletes, etc are always saying pimps and gangsters were their role models growing up. It shouldn't shock anybody that young girls idealized those men too.

 

[Wild self]

This will go on deaf ears.

Immature women arent common and thats the issue.

Not enough women want to admit their faults and want to blame black nerds instead of themselves for their crappy judgement in men until they hit 30 and finally smarten up when they are past their prime.

They will call the black nerd awkward, antisocial and lame and then tell him to fix it yet fail to notice how they ramp up the difficulty when it comes to him. Despite popular belief many nerds are social and not awkward yet only appear that way to women who clearly set up a lot of invisible barriers for his type and his type alone to knock down to get to her.

I agree with the article that this cycle needs to stop so there will be less black nerds being forced to date out and benefiting non black women and less black women and children being used and then abandoned by aint shyt men.

I also agree that the media does promote being ghetto by both men and women rappers and singers.

I just hope a fad starts up which will make intelligent black men popular cuz looking at the scene it looks like thats the only thing immature women will respond to.

I learned to dumb myself down and act mad comedic like to get with some women. This "socially awkward" nonsense is propaganda to the fullest because you not in the top 10% of dudes.

 

[Soon]

Lemme ask were these nerds academically or hobby wise? What did they look like?

I don't consider someone a black nerd cause they are into the books. I consider someone a black nerd because they are a geek. A high school drop out can be the geeky type.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I hate when people compare dudes thinking insta thot's are hot and them wanting a good chick to women thinking awkward nerds are lame and then wanting one that grew out of it.

No dudes wants a insta thot that grew out of thotdom.

Plus one is purely sexual and the other is not.


Dudes over all are more sexual than women, so yeah you put up some bad instat thot's and even I'd ohhh and ahh over them, some nikka's would even date them if given the opportunity. Most dudes however aint trying to do that. All that rawr rawr in conversation or on internet is just that noise.


However when it comes to the image of a black awkward nerdy dude, thats damn near a personality flaw for women and especially black women. Most women outside of a few jewels and smart ones (the younger generation too) really aint trying to smash, hangout, date or settle down with that kind of guy.

 

[Matt504]

Eh, awkward black nerds should just work on getting rid of the akward part. That's what I'm doing

Just be yourself

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

I don't consider someone a black nerd cause they are into the books. I consider someone a black nerd because they are a geek. A high school drop out can be the geeky type.

Geeks and nerds are distinguished by definition. Nerds are smart geeks are into comic books.

 

[Neil Tyson]

Yeah she's nuts ( the character ).tbh it might be settling if you got with her, do you like her alot?

Too many kids.

 

[Neuromancer]

I don't consider someone a black nerd cause they are into the books. I consider someone a black nerd because they are a geek. A high school drop out can be the geeky type.

So what did they look like? Tall short? Ect. Cause physicals are important.

 

[Neuromancer]

Too many kids.

Sorry to hear breh.