The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Behind-the-wheel]

Key part of that rant "now that Im in my 30's.......". Now I know the female brain is confused at the best of the times but do these chicks seriously think the type of dudes they want are gonna wait until ur 30's and finally ready to stop being a hoe to settle down with u????? One of the females on here explain this to me please. Because I find it to be quite disturbing.

I'm betting you won't get a response.
They know their sickness is on display for all to see.

 

[Blackout]

Can we dig deeper on this. What are nerdy interest?

I went to a nerdy school for computer engineering
-I build servers for fun/money
-I write short stories and poetry
-I do digital art as my biggest hobby
-I write java applets and powershell scripts to make my work life easier
-I listen to classical music when I code

Are these nerdy interest?

No women I have ever talked to has seen these as a turnoff. Maybe its because its not ALL that I do, I also go to basketball/football games, go out to eat, go out to party, go to concerts, etc.

I dunno what to tell you. Maybe one day a girl will come up to me and say "You like to draw? ewwwww fakkit "

Yet myself and countless nerdy black men have met black women who cringe upon hearing anime, video games etc. and have to put in extra effort to convince them to look past that therefore put in more effort and have more game than you.

It is what it is.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Damn we regular people get no love.
Nerd this, thug that.
What about the average black person that dates the average black person?
Its always one extreme or another.

Find a female that sees the middle and you'll get your answer.
Most of these birds only see two colors...
Nerd or Thug.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I mean, do we get mad at dudes for fukking a bunch of Instathots and then settling down with a "wifey" type?

What's the difference?

There is no difference because you're only playing one side of the field on both perspectives. There's girls who like nerds and aren't attracted to thugs and there's guys who don't have sex with instagram girls. She's speaking from experience not how things are for everyone

 

[VFib]

They do actually, they have to get the black women in question to ignore their nerdy interests. Its an extra step they have to take that normal dudes dont.

Its a big step that adds to what they have to do to get said women.


Yet when they have kid which is usually around that age it would be beneficial for them to be mature.

You have to get rid of this 'they don't want me anyway' attitude that you have. I think the aura you give off is the reason for your women troubles. Who wants to be around someone who doesn't have confidence in themselves? Just because they don't like your comic books doesn't mean they won't like you. I have no interest in these PS5 game consoles or whatever the F is out, but I have dated guys who liked that stuff.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Find a female that sees the middle and you'll get your answer.
Most of these birds only see two colors...
Nerd or Thug.

Can't say i ever dated a thug, a wannabe when i was younger but you would never know that now. The most bad boy thing a guy i dated ever did was sell and smoke weed. I have dated a nerdy type who only dated white women before me. He's married to a black women now. I actually never cared to find out why he only dated white girls.

 

[Neil Tyson]

Yet myself and countless nerdy black men have met black women who cringe upon hearing anime, video games etc. and have to put in extra effort to convince them to look past that therefore put in more effort and have more game than you.

It is what it is.

Those female cac nerds on twitch.tv

 

[miranda]

The bold is what i'm asking too breh.
Can some brehettes replay to this question?

If a guy approaches you and you find out he has nerdy hobbies/occupation, do you raise your standards for what he has to bring to the table?

occupation? no. but it's kind of overwelming to not understand anything they are talking about when it comes to work or school, i hate feeling dumb especially because i used to be really smart. hobbies, maybe, i just cant with the hours and hours of certain videogames or computer games ever again. super smash brothers, i dont mind watching that one, but all the shooting games i just cant.

 

[VFib]

The bold is what i'm asking too breh.
Can some brehettes replay to this question?

If a guy approaches you and you find out he has nerdy hobbies/occupation, do you raise your standards for what he has to bring to the table?

No, but they don't want to hear that. They just want to play the victim. Pathetic.

 

[The Mad Titan]

You have to get rid of this 'they don't want me anyway' attitude that you have. I think the aura you give off is the reason for your women troubles. Who wants to be around someone who doesn't have confidence in themselves? Just because they don't like your comic books doesn't mean they won't like you. I have no interest in these PS5 game consoles or whatever the F is out, but I have dated guys who liked that stuff.

If you have a ps5, I'm coming to your place boyfriend or not

 

[yardman]

That's why I tell my lil breh to stick with his own. So far he's following.

 

[Blackout]

You have to get rid of this 'they don't want me anyway' attitude that you have. I think the aura you give off is the reason for your women troubles. Who wants to be around someone who doesn't have confidence in themselves? Just because they don't like your comic books doesn't mean they won't like you. I have no interest in these PS5 game consoles or whatever the F is out, but I have dated guys who liked that stuff.

Miss i not only have confidence but I have more confidence in myself than the regular black men because thats the only way us nerdy black men get a chance with a lot of black women.

We have to have more confidence, more game and put in more effort which is what we do so we dont end up a 40 year old virgins.

Which is why I had to interject into this thread when I see lies saying how we are not confident and how we dont put in much effort cuz its a lie lol.

 

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oh, this thread again

 

[VFib]

The ones who this applies to wont admit it.

Chick in the OP did.

Do you want the woman in the OP? No? Then why would you care what she thinks or wants. You guys make your dating lives more difficult by dwelling on women you claim you don't want anyway. I don't get it, LOL.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Because they're fake, corny and they go by what they are conditioned to think black men are like and what black women want

They see a black chick and they try to morph into a "Tyrone" or whatever, and they aren't getting play

If they took the time and talked face to face with black chicks, they might find out that she's interested in some of the same shyt


Coulda had a chick interested in esotericism or some other wild geeky shyt like him, but he went and played himself trying to come at her like she was a thot


The only way to get a better perspective of someone is to actually talk to them instead of just being prejudice and lurking in the cut looking hungry

Rather these guys are fake or not isn't really the concern. Genuine or not these men are popular amongst black women. Right now for a lot of young black males and most young black women it seems as if being a "thug" exemplifies man hood in our community. Which is just an observation but still it's one that's hard to ignore especially when other black men who don't posses these qualities get called out for dating or marrying a woman of another race.