The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

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I'm married to a white girl bro.
Nope but the average black women marrying a dude like me isn't very likely. It does happen though.
Not until theyre 35 and saddled with kids, debt and a struggle life. We just gotta wait until they're good and ready for us :troll:
Please tell me that your not one of those who thinks that black nerds have choices on who gives them a chance. :francis:
Ugh...
If that would have been my situation, I'd have opted out too.
fukk all that...get me a damn snowbunny.
Not like they weren't knockin anyway...



I once adamantly tried to convince @bcrusaderw that black men don't use excuses like social circumstances and population disparity to explain why they go after white women. :shaq2:



I told her that black men who like white women just admit they like white women...:shaq2:




shyt... maybe I owe her an apology :dead:
 

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Yall need to ask what makes someone a nerd. Is it knowledge and interests or is it the awkwardness?

My second bf was a nerd in the truest sense of the word. Hacking and customizing PCs and game consoles, training for video game tournaments, skateboarding, anime obsessed. He was my height and 19 (5'2). He also was a depressed bum who had little to no motivation, was bitter from so many people cheating on him, he was cheating on me the whole time unbeknownst to me, and had a small penis.

It's not like he wasn't getting girls, having them do stuff for him or a commitmentphobe. Is that still better than a "thug"?
 

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The fact that you believe that your nerdy tendencies are what is stopping you from being able to pull a 5 basically tells me everything I need to know. :ld:


But you are married now so that doesn't matter anymore.

Enjoy your marriage breh, I mean that sincerely :salute:
I think that we've established that what the black community views as nerdish and the definition of a nerd that you are using don't coincide. That being said, it's what a black male doesn't display that prevents a man from successfully pursuing a relationship with black women as a majority. And those qualities that this particular group of men do not have are the same qualities exemplified by not so respectable black men that's why it's detrimental to the black community and that's why it matters to me. Looks have nothing to do with it as you're trying imply lol. But I'd rate my wife a lot higher than a five so it's whatever.
 

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Yall need to ask what makes someone a nerd. Is it knowledge and interests or is it the awkwardness?

My second bf was a nerd in the truest sense of the word. Hacking and customizing PCs and game consoles, training for video game tournaments, skateboarding, anime obsessed. He was my height and 19 (5'2). He also was a depressed bum who had little to no motivation, was bitter from so many people cheating on him, he was cheating on me the whole time unbeknownst to me, and had a small penis.

It's not like he wasn't getting girls, having them do stuff for him or a commitmentphobe. Is that still better than a "thug"?
:dead:

Why you gotta do that man like that
 

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I once adamantly tried to convince @bcrusaderw that black men don't use excuses like social circumstances and population disparity to explain why they go after white women. :shaq2:



I told her that black men who like white women just admit they like white women...:shaq2:




shyt... maybe I owe her an apology :dead:
So yo dont believe that some nerdy black men are forced to go with white or nonblack chicks or end up as 40 year old virgins? :jbhmm:
 

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Yall need to ask what makes someone a nerd. Is it knowledge and interests or is it the awkwardness?

My second bf was a nerd in the truest sense of the word. Hacking and customizing PCs and game consoles, training for video game tournaments, skateboarding, anime obsessed. He was my height and 19 (5'2). He also was a depressed bum who had little to no motivation, was bitter from so many people cheating on him, he was cheating on me the whole time unbeknownst to me, and had a small penis.

It's not like he wasn't getting girls, having them do stuff for him or a commitmentphobe. Is that still better than a "thug"?
Define a thug.
 

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Yall need to ask what makes someone a nerd. Is it knowledge and interests or is it the awkwardness?

My second bf was a nerd in the truest sense of the word. Hacking and customizing PCs and game consoles, training for video game tournaments, skateboarding, anime obsessed. He was my height and 19 (5'2). He also was a depressed bum who had little to no motivation, was bitter from so many people cheating on him, he was cheating on me the whole time unbeknownst to me, and had a small penis.

It's not like he wasn't getting girls, having them do stuff for him or a commitmentphobe. Is that still better than a "thug"?

whatchu mean nerd in the truest form?:birdman:
 

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Harry Potter is all it takes now? :mjlol:

Exactly. That's gotta be offensive to real nerds. Mofos are faux, pop, social media nerds. If the first descriptor of your nerdom is a Harry Potter book and/or a video game or a cartoon. .. :camby: you ain't a real nerd in the classic sense, and perhaps another characterization of self is in order.

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