The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Ronnie Lott]

Someone give me sparknotes



Didn't read, but I assume this article is talking about my cousin. Handsome dude, smart, not the slightest bit awkward, though. He's just well-mannered and knowledgable. Black women don't check for him. Truth
....we're a lot alike in alotta ways, first gen grandkids into guitars, sci fi, gaming, computers and graphic novels. When we talk it's just but black women, outside of our family, not wit it.

Ratchets don't fukk with him. There's a difference

 

[Neuromancer]

You mean I pump and dump them?

If that's what happens. Hypergamy is why I tend not to trust women. But eat brehettes

 

[MalikReloaded]

No, I don't think it's about black nerd entitlement, it's more about if I wasn't shyt then, I shouldn't be shyt now. It's more to the point of someone who's been burned out with baggage (female or male) who want's someone with they're life together (be they male or female). It's about people wanting to live like it's party time and then coming after the person who worked to get where they are.

Like I said previously, no one is obligated to date anyone they don't want. However, once they have three or four kids with different people (and this goes for men and women), the nerd isn't obligated to save them. You got people actually trying to guilt trip nerds into accepting this.

If people could've agreed to this, the thread would've been over in 2 pages.

You didn't owe the nerds a relationship when you were young, hot and fly.

The nerd doesn't owe you a relationship now that you're older and seeking real commitment.

Boom. Bam. Over and done with.

Instead of having this fair conclusion, you have women and the simp nikkas trying to suck up to them saying that the nerds/lames/nice dudes are bitter or whiny or complainers because they couldn't get over it. All sorts of shaming tactics. Save it.

 

[Neuromancer]

It doesn't mean he has to be Superman lol. Everything is extremes with yall. I'm submissive by nature. If I am going to submit to a man and let him lead, he needs to be worth it. He has to bring something to the table. Lead us to greatness.

Notice my post was talking about insecurites and made no mention of material wealth. Keep it in context boys.

What you bringing to the table? Just curious.

 

[Arishok]

yes

Oh it's SailorMars

 

[CinnaSlim]

If that's what happens. Hypergamy is why I tend not to trust women. But eat brehettes

Is it a bad thing? Wouldn't you want a women who makes you a better person?
It's only bad when they want the fantasy more than the person, as a woman I have to deal with that too.

 

[Neuromancer]

shyt, i agree. can't have two homebodied introverts laying up under eachother. someones gotta be the outgoing social type.[/QUOTE]
This isa lie my relationship consists of two introverted home bodies who like to keep each other company indoors and joke about anime and 80's cartoona

 

[FSP]

I touched on this in the bitter bytchmade thread I made earlier. You know how there's a saying, you probably don't get along with certain people because they remind you of yourself?

I feel like certain self-proclaimed "nerds" dislike thugs because they want to be assertive or confident like them, but feel that they are to awkward to. Like a self fulfilling prophecy.

I dislike insecure men because I also suffer with insecurity and I feel like because they are men they should be better than me. I want to spend time with someone who makes me a better person, or we make each other better people. I don't want to be around people who bring me down. A lot of the time people like to bond over misery and sit and stew in it. I want more.

Wow I feel like that stuff you wrote in bold is so off base that I'm thinking female intuition itself is just screwed up until 30. I do believe nerds can hold jealousy toward the thug type, shyt I probably I hold some jealousy myself. But what you attribute the jealousy to is atrocious. ANYONE who is a nerdy type guy, knows that sentiment is a completely and totally misled by what you are believing nerds consider "quality behavior". I guarantee you, some nerd isn't layed up at his computer, cussing some thug dude under his breath, because he only wishes he could be as big of a giant walking douchebag as him. godwtf no that is insulting my intelligence for real. If anything, jealousy stems from the observation that nerds always seem to be horribly misunderstood by the female population in general, and for reasons not really known, while they understand the intentions and words deeper from a thug. So the animosity would be bred from the attitude that we don't really know why thug-type dudes communicate visceral emotion to females better than nerd-type counterparts, we assume that it might be because of some kind of social conditioning or because females just fukking suck. WE DON'T KNOW! But we are very aware of it, and it sucks. This isn't limited to nerds either, actually the point is that thug type dudes tend to be quite strong in this area, and you cannot figure out why by yourself, which leads to frustration which causes jealousy obviously. You might take issue to the fact that nerds(and not just nerds!) have a built in resentment toward the thug type in the dating scene. It's because I'M fukkING DOPE TOO MY nikka, only difference is now it's not my fault ya'll are to basic to take note. But I'll let ya'll stew.

And before anyone calls me out on admitted jealousy, just know that everyone envies. It also not lost on me the irony that when a thug type exhibits emotions of jealousy and insecurity toward nerd types they tend to act out in certain behaviors that women are more forgiving about. Just my observation. But this just lends back into what I was saying above which is WHY ARE NERDS SO fukkING HARD TO UNDERSTAND FOR YOU FEMALES? cuz most of us aren't particularly difficult people to get into.




Also the bolded text in red is why feminism is fukking trash.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Non social ones, absolutely.

Social nerds get women... so I assume you guys are all taking about the non-social ones.

In fact, if I look at all the people I know, the social nerds are the ones who are in relationships at a higher rate. Most of my other friends are single.

/thread. A lot of people in this thread are implying that certain women should change who they are attracted to,pffft. If a women isn't comfortable around you there's really nothing that you can do lol. Just move on and find someone that is attracted to you. If a "nerdy" guy is social and confident then he should have no problem with women. I have plenty of friends like this. In fact, my best friend used to play Pokemon competitively yet he was one of the most popular people at my high school . This whole thread is dumb.

 

[Neuromancer]

Is it a bad thing? Wouldn't you want a women who makes you a better person?
It's only bad when they want the fantasy more than the person, as a woman I have to deal with that too.

I don't need anyone to make me a better person. I want to be self motivated . I fear other people controlling me in that way. If she brings something to the table though than that's fine. Something more than her body though .

 

[Gold]

Oh it's SailorMars

says its a justinTV only channel

 

[Blackout]

Someone give me sparknotes



Didn't read, but I assume this article is talking about my cousin. Handsome dude, smart, not the slightest bit awkward, though. He's just well-mannered and knowledgable. Black women don't check for him. Truth
....we're a lot alike in alotta ways, first gen grandkids into guitars, sci fi, gaming, computers and graphic novels. When we talk it's just but black women, outside of our family, not wit it.

Good to see that you see it too.

 

[Arishok]

?

I can't see the video

 

[marcuz]

This is a lie my relationship consists of two introverted home bodies who like to keep each other company indoors and joke about anime and 80's cartoona

how long have y'all been living together?

 

[Gold]

I can't see the video

I was linking your channel