The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

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Can we dig deeper on this. What are nerdy interest?:jbhmm:

I went to a nerdy school for computer engineering
-I build servers for fun/money
-I write short stories and poetry
-I do digital art as my biggest hobby
-I write java applets and powershell scripts to make my work life easier
-I listen to classical music when I code

Are these nerdy interest? :patrice:

No women I have ever talked to has seen these as a turnoff. Maybe its because its not ALL that I do, I also go to basketball/football games, go out to eat, go out to party, go to concerts, etc.

I dunno what to tell you. Maybe one day a girl will come up to me and say "You like to draw? ewwwww fakkit :scust:"
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Wow I feel like that stuff you wrote in bold is so off base that I'm thinking female intuition itself is just screwed up until 30. I do believe nerds can hold jealousy toward the thug type, shyt I probably I hold some jealousy myself. But what you attribute the jealousy to is atrocious. ANYONE who is a nerdy type guy, knows that sentiment is a completely and totally misled by what you are believing nerds consider "quality behavior". I guarantee you, some nerd isn't layed up at his computer, cussing some thug dude under his breath, because he only wishes he could be as big of a giant walking douchebag as him. godwtf no that is insulting my intelligence for real. If anything, jealousy stems from the observation that nerds always seem to be horribly misunderstood by the female population in general, and for reasons not really known, while they understand the intentions and words deeper from a thug. So the animosity would be bred from the attitude that we don't really know why thug-type dudes communicate visceral emotion to females better than nerd-type counterparts, we assume that it might be because of some kind of social conditioning or because females just fukking suck. WE DON'T KNOW! But we are very aware of it, and it sucks. This isn't limited to nerds either, actually the point is that thug type dudes tend to be quite strong in this area, and you cannot figure out why by yourself, which leads to frustration which causes jealousy obviously. You might take issue to the fact that nerds(and not just nerds!) have a built in resentment toward the thug type in the dating scene. It's because I'M fukkING DOPE TOO MY nikka, only difference is now it's not my fault ya'll are to basic to take note. But I'll let ya'll stew.:sas2:

And before anyone calls me out on admitted jealousy, just know that everyone envies. It also not lost on me the irony that when a thug type exhibits emotions of jealousy and insecurity toward nerd types they tend to act out in certain behaviors that women are more forgiving about.:sas2: Just my observation. But this just lends back into what I was saying above which is WHY ARE NERDS SO fukkING HARD TO UNDERSTAND FOR YOU FEMALES? cuz most of us aren't particularly difficult people to get into.




Also the bolded text in red is why feminism is fukking trash.

The pain and emotion in the above post :wow:
 

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Can we dig deeper on this. What are nerdy interest?:jbhmm:

I went to a nerdy school for computer engineering
-I build servers for fun/money
-I write short stories and poetry
-I do digital art as my biggest hobby
-I write java applets and powershell scripts to make my work life easier
-I listen to classical music when I code

Are these nerdy interest? :patrice:

No women I have ever talked to has seen these as a turnoff. Maybe its because its not ALL that I do, I also go to basketball/football games, go out to eat, go out to party, go to concerts, etc.

I dunno what to tell you. Maybe one day a girl will come up to me and say "You like to draw? ewwwww fakkit :scust:"
Is it weird to like listening to hip hop when I code?
 

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nope, i switch it up too. Depends on what i'm really doing though. Since most of my coding time is debugging, I can't listen to anything to with words when I debug.

It fukks me up
I might even consider giving my Gucci catalog a spin when I code

My method is anything to get my mind off the frustration of development.
 

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I don't need anyone to make me a better person. I want to be self motivated . I fear other people controlling me in that way. If she brings something to the table though than that's fine. Something more than her body though .
No man is an island. It's not a matter of needing people. But you should surround yourself with positive supportive people who inspire you to be your best. Some people you will resonate with more than others and some will come into your life temporarily who will teach you a lesson that will make you better in the future.

At the end of the day, we are all dependent on each other. The fear of being vunerable is what keeps people from bonding.

We're all on an auction block.
I disagree. I'm not putting myself out there looking for a buyer. If I was to go along with the transaction analogy, I'd say I was a rare find in an old boutique. Only someone who sees the value beyond the frame, who sees the masterpiece in the art will get me.
 
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