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Once again yall nikkas are making shyt more complicated than it need to be.

Nice guy, beta males, push overs, etc... its all in the same category of insecurity. Being afraid of being their-selves so they think being a yes man or a door mat will work better.
 

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I think a lot of people equate "alpha" with being a loud mouth jock looking fella...Especially women...Women are verbal communicators, so they love men who talk a lot...

To them a man who talks a lot is probably an "alpha," especially if dude has the physique to match his mouth...

I have had women tell me I am not "aggressive/confident" enough for them...Basically, they were telling me I am not an "alpha"...

I think for women it's a way for them to have an idea, if dude would be able to protect them in a dangerous situation...

So, when you are a quiet guy, women don't know what to make of you...They either feel that you are not all that interested in them and/or you are not going to be able to provide protection for them...(also they may think you are not "adventurous" enough)

Basically by being a quiet guy, you are not addressing their insecurity issues, so if a girl doesn't really know you like that, she probably wont give you the time of day...

This is just a generalized opinion...I am not a woman, so I don't really know...I could be wrong...

So take it with a grain of salt...

Yeah, I don't talk much, but if a woman ever thinks that I'm some kind of lame cause I don't yap my mouth like that, she can kick rocks. I just joke on her an play around with her for the hell of it and kill that assumption.
 

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1. He believes that nice guys finish last and all women want thugs. He won’t acknowledge that women find him undesirable and it has nothing to do with other people.

2. He complains that women won’t “let” him do anything. Any man who blames a woman for his lack of success or shortcomings is pathetic. He isn’t accountable and plays the blame game. He’s the type of guy who complains about his ex not “letting” him see the kids when he has made no effort on his part.

3. He refers to himself as a male feminist. Run away from these dudes. They have loose screws. No man in his right man would call himself a feminist. That’s pure insanity. These males believe that adopting feminist ideology will give him access to more sex.

4. He’s part of some fundamentalist men’s rights movement that believes women are evil and deserve poor treatment.

5. He rants about how unfair it is that he has to pay for the first few dates. He complains about how he shouldn’t have to buy gifts or participates in chivalrous acts for his woman.

6. He thinks having a good job or education makes him qualified to date quality women. He doesn’t take into account other factors such as morals, values, spiritual beliefs, lifestyle, personality, or attraction.

7. He complains that there are no hot women but he has a BMI over 32, bad acne, poor hygiene, and lives in his mom’s basement.

8.Thinks women are gold diggers but he doesn’t have gainful employment

9.Engages in passive aggressive activities towards women like harassing them online or stalking. He also highly manipulative and engages in arguments with other women. Notice that he will not challenge another man.

10.Thinks he is a good decent man but can’t provide concrete examples of what qualifies him as such.

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As an alpha male I agree with some of those posts....fukk paying for first date and most women are bytches who like a$$holes. :yeshrug:
 

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Crazy how nikkas I have on ignore still follow me around and quote me 12 times a day. Having nikkas mad. :win:
 

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Alpha/Beta ideology is nonsense. It's all about looks. Women care about looks as much as men do, but they create reasons to disqualify a man "boring, not a leader, no personalty" etc. Instead of calling him ugly like a man would do.

either you only mess with 17 yr old hood rats or you are lost :snoop:
 

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Its overblown you need either looks or a perosnality if you have both your gonna have to shake women off of you if you have none then your fukked

Just dotn be a socially retarded and groom yourself and you can get women
 

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Its overblown you need either looks or a perosnality if you have both your gonna have to shake women off of you if you have none then your fukked

Just dotn be a socially retarded and groom yourself and you can get women

:whoa: Mostly right, but you forgot to add exercise.
 

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Name names nikka.

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http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/10146-quick-lil-gems-dealing-women-thread.html#.USMdsRG9KSM

the people who posted the most in ^^^this ^^^ thread
 

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Alpha/Beta ideology is nonsense.

Basically. People need to stop doing this to themselves.

1) The hell you comparing yourself to the next nicca for? Forget him...

2) This state of mind relies on the idea that a man needs to understand women to get them. You don't need to understand women (women barely understand women!) - a woman needs to understand YOU. Figure your chit out and what you want, and find a female that will ride with that.

3) We all have times when we have to loc up, and times when we have to fall back. A lot of dudes out here trying to be "100% Alpha" all the time are really "Betas" trying to put on.

XP) I can tell a woman wrote that ish at the beginning. "How To Be A Man", by some lady. Pass.
 

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I don't really think that women like "bad boys" so much as they like confident men. It's just that "bad boys" always appear more confident because they treat women like they're expendable, being rude to them or treating them outright badly. I'll bet my bottom fukking dollar that a good man (not a "nice guy") that can match said bad boy for looks, athleticism, and personal success could beat the bad boy out every time if he makes a solid stand in defending said woman. In other words, they key isn't to be "bad," so much as being strong and exciting to be around.

:manny: My two cents.

What do you exactly mean by "good man"? Is it referring to a man who values what is decent/upstanding/positive morally by default? If so, I would have to disagree with you on that part because the bottom line is that women in general view this type of man to be lame and a prospective captain-save-a-hoe to "save" them after years of accumulating baggage due to their poor decisions when they were younger.
 
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