The Beta Males

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Alpha, Beta male is nonsense that came from the PUA community, in their attempt to intellectualize the art of picking up women. Instead of worrying about what little category you might or might not be, live your life, worry about how God sees you, your relationship with close family and friends, and dealing with women on your own terms. If you ain't getting what you want, change your gameplan around to be more successful.

That whole Alpha, Beta male thing is corny and none of it really got a doggone thing to do with reality. The term came out of PUAs that wanted to classify themselves into some 'elite' sort of category since they've gained a bit of knowledge about how to slam their johnson into easy women. Many sports stars can be classified as "alpha" in that classification system because they are in a position where women throw themselves at them, but how alpha do they really end up being when they impregnate 5 or 6 of these women, marry a couple of them and end up completely broke and 3 steps from jail due to a possible failure to make child support payments? How alpha is a man that may be able to pull a ton of hoes but doesn't have anything to show for it because he spent all his money on fly cars, clothes and jewelry to pull them?
 

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This cannot be a serious topic.

In the wild, where this should be kept. Alpha males are top guns of the pack that use their physical power, intellect or lineage to their advantage. Everyone thinks they're an alpha male until someone with higher authority comes and humbles them pretty quickly. Betas in the wild are the guys not good enough at a certain time to become an alpha male. They do not get to mate on some occasions but they are in second command if they merits anything. But on a note, betas do become alphas in the event that an alpha passes away or that the alpha can no longer do their job. That's right. Not every alpha was born one, some were betas before then. Also, alphas and betas aren't exclusive to the male species. Females can also be alphas as well. Lets not forget about the subordinates. There is an alpha male/female, a beta male/female and the rest of the crew is filled with subordinates.

To summarize....

There are no alphas or betas in the human world. The alphas that she is describing are straight forward men who go after what they want. The betas are simply men who are acting as nice guys to get what they want. I always hated this analogy because it makes no sense.
 

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Alpha, Beta male is nonsense that came from the PUA community, in their attempt to intellectualize the art of picking up women. Instead of worrying about what little category you might or might not be, live your life, worry about how God sees you, your relationship with close family and friends, and dealing with women on your own terms. If you ain't getting what you want, change your gameplan around to be more successful.

That whole Alpha, Beta male thing is corny and none of it really got a doggone thing to do with reality. The term came out of PUAs that wanted to classify themselves into some 'elite' sort of category since they've gained a bit of knowledge about how to slam their johnson into easy women. Many sports stars can be classified as "alpha" in that classification system because they are in a position where women throw themselves at them, but how alpha do they really end up being when they impregnate 5 or 6 of these women, marry a couple of them and end up completely broke and 3 steps from jail due to a possible failure to make child support payments? How alpha is a man that may be able to pull a ton of hoes but doesn't have anything to show for it because he spent all his money on fly cars, clothes and jewelry to pull them?

but it isnt just PUA

this applies in the workplace, with your family, amongst your friends :skip:

the misconception beta defenders are having is that this has only to do with women, nah thats just the most funny/cringeworthy
 

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but it isnt just PUA

this applies in the workplace, with your family, amongst your friends :skip:

the misconception beta defenders are having is that this has only to do with women, nah thats just the most funny/cringeworthy

Alpha and beta was originally a scientific cllassification system used to describe heirarchy and mating in the animal kingdom. Alpha/beta as used on the INTERNET to describe human relationships did come from the pick-up artist community who attempted to intellectualize pick-up.

why alpha/beta is corny is because human relationships are way too complex to divide it into some single, simple classification. You got multi-millionaires who end up paying prostitutes and getting all they have taken by women and then you have cats from the street without a dime to their name who are having women in the way they want... you can't simply break it down into a simple category as rich men who are leaders and are superior in everything and get all the women and 'the rest'. Different people are getting it how they are getting it.

But if you need a synthetic term that you can categorize yourself in to feel better than other men, I ain't mad at ya.
 

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MY GOD! :damn:
 

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This reminds me of that vid with the white guy talking about how black guys can have the white women coz their all whores. Dude sounded bitter as fukk, who got that video?

I think you're talking about George Sodini:

George Sodini Blog, LA Fitness Shooting Planned in Online Diary - FULL BLOG TEXT - ABC News

Every black man should get a young white girl.... Kinda a reverse indentured servitude thing. Long ago, many a older white male landowner had a young Negro wench girl for his desires. Bout' time tables are turned on that ----. ... LOL. More so than they dig the white dudes! Every daddy know when he sends his little girl to college, she be ... real good. I saw it. "Not my little girl", daddy says! (Yeah right!!) Black dudes have thier choice of best white ----. You do the math, there are enough young white so all the brothers can each have one for 3 or 6 months or so.
 
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Alpha Male
This type of Male is the guy who does it all fearlessly and for absolutely no one but himself. No female will ever control him, and those that try are promptly shown to the proverbial door. Never the less the hotties follow him around everywhere, and this is how he is most easily recognized in a crowd.
Nothing hurts the Alpha emotionally (since he is as far out of touch with his own emotions as is humanly possible) and physical injury is all simply part and parcel to the game, as he will gladly, proudly and LOUDLY explain, all while showing off his most recent battle wounds to a delighted crowd of 'oohers and ahhers'.
This guy's strength in the face of adversity is legendary and unmatched. He is the guy who gets more ass than a toilet seat. He ALWAYS gets the position and the promotion. His female neighbors admire and desire him. His male neighbors either love or despise him completely, and he cares about none of it. The best descriptors for the Alpha Male are: arrogant, aloof, boorish and sexually obssessed.

Beta Male
The very antithesis of the Alpha Male, this sad sack has spent his entire adult life abandoning any and all traditional (or Alpha) male gender roles and has instead dedicated his life to pleasing others (i.e. females). His needs come dead last, and you will never, ever hear him complain about it, even though he and everyone he knows is aware of how miserable he truly is. He is easily reconized in a crowd by his overbearing and domineering wife (though not necessarily large in physical stature), who is seldom far from his side.
This terrifying creature controls every aspect of his life; his time, his money and his social/sex life, and he woludn't say shyt about it if he had a mouthful, either.
This burned out shell of a man will most likely die early in his ceaseless and futile attempts to please the women in his life and not much about him will be missed by very many of them afterward, except for the selfless service he provided to them, perhaps. The best descriptors for the Beta Male are: hen-pecked, withdrawn, depressed and exhausted.

Omega Male
This Man has been forever put through the wringer by the females in his life. He is usually divorced, living alone and destitute. He is happy to recieve the meager leftover scraps of a former life from his ex-wife, the court and even his kids, like a starving man feels about recieving a single cracker.
He is not necessarily suicidal, but he certainly is still very much a masochist.

His days consist of scraping by at some menial low wage job, and getting as drunk/stoned as he possibly can during the down time. He has few friends left except maybe his mother, as everyone else in his life is now gone, due to his protracted self pity and intoxication. He is not easily spotted or reconized in a crowd as he seldom goes anywhere except work and home to get drunk/stoned. He too wil most likely die early out of self neglect and abuse. The Omega Male's best descriptors are: ashamed, intoxicated, detached and angry.

Zeta Male
This Man has finally come full circle, having himself been each of the above type, at some point or another in his life. He now realizes that his whole life had been about his winning the approval of others (i.e. females) with virtually no returns on his investment whatsoever. Once this shattering reality had at last set in, his choice to reject the Alpha, Beta and Omega male lifestyles for a better way, became obvious.

The Zeta Male is able to succeed and be happy with himself (according to his own definitions), no matter who may or may not approve. He is neither a jock douchebag, a wimpy nerd, nor a hopeless loser. He knows how to unashamedly draw on or reject either type's strengths and weaknesses, depending on his situation, if needs be. He has decided to reject trying to win the approval of others (especially females) and instead is focused on the bigger realities of life, such as his own self-approval and acceptance. He is easily recognized in a crowd because he is the one having the most (genuine) fun regardless of others (females) around him. He feels no need to show off nor apologise in any way, and he is well liked for it. The best descriptors for the Zeta Male are: self sufficient, happy, unashamed and whole.


Zeta Males>>>>
 

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Even though a good chunk of the article is bullshyt, you can't deny shyt like this:

Spotting a Bitter Beta isn’t difficult. They have “Nice Guy Syndrome” and complain about how all women want thugs or bad boys. The likely scenario is that the bad boy is really an Alpha male who dated the pretty girl the Beta was crushing on but didn’t have the cojones to ask her out. Bitter Betas embrace their victimization and blame women for their failed relationships and poor choices. Rarely does a bitter beta take an introspective look at their lives and make changes that would improve their chances with quality women.

Bitter Betas have delusions of grandeur who feel entitled to top shelf women because they have a penis and breathe air. These pitiful males believe they are great catches but they either have no personality, poor grooming habits, weight issues, struggle with psychological issues, or all the above. Successful men with personality do not have problems getting women. Bitter betas believe their lack of success with women has nothing to do with their personal deficiencies but a wide scale societal issue. They will never acknowledge that they are just undesirable bottom feeders. Bitter betas embrace in their victimization which is why they will never take responsibility for their own behavior or lack of social skills. They are not datable and women should avoid them at all cost.

Y'all can't say the bolded ain't true. There's a lot of fukk nikkas on this site who believe just that. It's never a situation where they're inadequate. It's a problem with feminism, the media, white supremacy, black women, Oprah, simps, gold diggers and everyone else as to why they can't get the broad they want.
 
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