Riiiiiight!
The internet can be like Bizzarro land. People literally be flying backwards mad at others for moving forward.
The better family woman: The one who serves her kid(s) food first or serves her hubby first ...
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The internet can be like Bizzarro land. People literally be flying backwards mad at others for moving forward.
Neither. She should serve herself. Actually, somebody should serve her. If she cooked and cleaned the kitchen, spent hours to prepare a delicious meal, the last thing she should do is cater to a bunch of entitled mofos who taking her for granted.
This is how resentment builds in wives. They constantly sacrificing and people taking them for granted. Hell as children we had to serve our parents anyway so this is moot point. And if my mom had spent hours in the hot ass kitchen, my dad would yell at her.
Dad:"Sit down baby! You ain't but gotta do everything ur damn self!"
Mom: "B-but let me at least fix you--"
Dad:
Mom:
Dad: What u think we got kids for?! Ya'll get off that damn video game and fix the food.
Us:
I love my parents. They been married for 47 years. Watching them look out for each other without ego and gender bullshyt has been such a gift. I'd die for those two.
Dapped and repped.
Exactly how it's done with my family. Reading some of the rubbish on this thread has me grateful for being raised in a system I used to take for granted. There is no better way to make someone respect you than to make them realise that you respect them.
One of the dumbest sentences I've read on here to date
Hold up, you don't read your own posts
So what's the best way to make someone respect you in your opinion? Have you never heard of the term "mutual respect"?One of the dumbest sentences I've read on here to date
Any and all kinds of respect should be EARNED
It also has to be TAUGHT to children
There are plenty of married men who respect theirs wives while said wives do not return said respect
At that point you're just someone elses whipping boy
Males didnt invent the term "nice guy" as an insult. Females did
I've seen females LOSE respect for a Male BECAUSE said male respected them
Its not as black and white as yall are making it seem
Respecting a woman doesn't mean being a simp. I refuse to believe you're an adult who can't grasp the nuance, and I therefore feel that you're arguing in bad faith.
So is it possible for a wife to respect her husband without her serving him food before she serves their children (or at all for that matter)?
Idk, can you provide an example of another kind of display of respecf?
The general way they interact? You've never met a couple and been able to tell off the bat whether or not the woman respected the man? Or can you not tell until you see their dinner routine
Kids are way more observant than you give them credit for.... they have to be to learn how the world works.... so no, these ego serving rituals are not necessary. If your wife serves you dinner first.... but is constantly nagging you, undermining you, backtalking to you, will your kids see that as respect?
Stop fixating on these little ego inflating fantasies and actually establish the principles you want your family to live by. You're more obsessed with how your family will serve you rather than the other way around, which is the true purpose of a husband and father. It's not supposed to be all about you
The general way they interact? You've never met a couple and been able to tell off the bat whether or not the woman respected the man? Or can you not tell until you see their dinner routine
Kids are way more observant than you give them credit for.... they have to be to learn how the world works.... so no, these ego serving rituals are not necessary. If your wife serves you dinner first.... but is constantly nagging you, undermining you, backtalking to you, will your kids see that as respect?
Give breh a break,. That's why I said when he has a family it will change
I know Im not the same father I thought I was gonna be.
I'm actually stricter than my wife. Lol.
I feel that maybe he got did wrong by a woman, therefore he had to show he is the dominant person in all situations. In actuality u only show how fraile u truly are.
If u confident in yourself u don't have to prove it. My boys get in trouble they hate to have me know, but if they get hurt I'm the first they run to.
Don't make it out to be more than what it is. Some of u guys sound selfish and put what u did above all. Tit for tat shyt is not masculine.
To be real if I was single I would take all y'all chicks
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ain't nobody eating till we say grace.... who gives a fukk who got their plate put down in 30 second intervals
people really in here like "kids NEED to eat first" like they gonna starve and die cause they waiting an extra 30 seconds to get a plate
stop catering to your children and they'll stop thinking they are king of the world and everybody owes them shyt.. dad keeping these lights on and clothes on your back AND he just got home from work... if my big ass plate can't be set down first, cause the kids gonna do what?? cry, fuss, bytch, moan? they can eat sleep for dinner
people really in here like "kids NEED to eat first" like they gonna starve and die cause they waiting an extra 30 seconds to get a plate
stop catering to your children and they'll stop thinking they are king of the world and everybody owes them shyt.. dad keeping these lights on and clothes on your back AND he just got home from work... if my big ass plate can't be set down first, cause the kids gonna do what?? cry, fuss, bytch, moan? they can eat sleep for dinner
Why did you quote my post asking you a question, when you didn't actually respond to said question?The general way they interact? You've never met a couple and been able to tell off the bat whether or not the woman respected the man? Or can you not tell until you see their dinner routine
Kids are way more observant than you give them credit for.... they have to be to learn how the world works.... so no, these ego serving rituals are not necessary. If your wife serves you dinner first.... but is constantly nagging you, undermining you, backtalking to you, will your kids see that as respect?