Will need to look into this more, and also see whether two parent black families were compared to single parent black families. Barring some shift that she found, two parent black families out perform one parent black families. So I need to read this when I get home.
My concern is that often two parent families are dismissed or attacked by a certain segment of black academia that despises nuclear families and heterosexual marriages. Not saying that's the case here, I'm not familiar with this author at all. But I'm wary of anyone telling black people that marriage has no benefits.
This is an absolutely valid concern and was also my concern when I watched one of her interviews last week.
What I gathered is that she wanted to highlight the importance of community in our, well,
community and how Black children who don’t have present fathers are essentially brought into the fold and nurtured by the extended family and family friends. On the other hand, when the White nuclear family loses the dad (through death, abandonment, etc), the mother and children are on their own. There is no sense of community or responsibility for those children.
Black children in single parent homes still have a good chance of faring better and making social connections because Black people look out for each other.
-The “uncles and aunties” who aren’t blood, but are family.
-The neighbors who look out for you.
-The uncles and aunts and cousins who are like another set of parents or siblings because of how tight you are.
White people don’t function that way. It’s basically “every man (in this case every family) for himself”. So White kids are essentially isolated from the social benefits of the group because if the dad isn’t in the picture, there is no entree into their society. For the most part, they aren’t gathering at grandma’s house every Sunday, playing with cousins 1-3x a week, getting reprimanded by uncles and aunts as if they are parents, etc.
Black kids from two parent households still face more challenges than White kids from two parent households because of all the reasons we know (operating in a system with racism ingrained in it).
Basically, without a father present, White kids fall more drastically than Black kids because Black society will still lift up and include the children. White society will not.
It’s like how in the past (and still kinda now, but not as bad as before) White society ostracized White women who were divorced. If they weren’t with that man they were out of the group, and that went for the kids, too.
That happens with all groups, but it’s really pronounced with White folks. I think those attitudes contribute to the difference she noted between Black and White families in this study.