actually thats not what it shows. what it shows. is that the jersey thing, in addition to the other thing he mentioned adds up with all the other things that he never mentioned.Ive actually paid attention to the personalities of people that were either owners, or in high up mgmt positions for awhile.
From what ive seen, most, if not all have no issue w/ being aggressive w/ people. People who have only been workers their whole life dont know what its like directing folks and getting shyt done.
It seems a lot of these cats in hip hop are just fukking sensitive...you add that w/ being lazy and that makes workaholic types CRAZY!!!
I bet Dame was an a$$hole, but the simple fact that a grown ass man could be so heated over being made fun of for a fake jersey all these years later shows you what type of fukkery people like Dame have to put up w/ in the business.
Like he said, Kanye got that shyt done in one day...and I bet Kanye had the same amount of work to do, if not more.
its called a build up.
thats not a sensitive dude talking. thats a dude that was TIRED of Dame Dash.
guess who else was TIRED of Dame? JIGGA.
i called this out when i saw dame wilding out on mr def jam. even though i felt dame 100% in that situation. watching that entire movie made me realize. there's no way you can hang around a grown man that acts like that all the time. acting like that may have been necessary for them to be treated properly when they were coming up. but to do that to your on roc family when it wasnt necessary is where it goes overboard. dame obviously had one way of "getting things done" and that was his way. thats fine. it worked...for a time. people can and will get tired of that.
and its has nothing to do with being A BOSS vs a worker bee. its you do not have to be a complete A hole 24/7 to get your point across. dame knew no other way to handle situations. lets be real about it. thats all the dude knew how to do. that was his only reaction to what he felt when people disrespected his intelligence.
its like you cursing like crazy because thats the only reaction you know to certain situations. the truth is, thats not THEE only way to go about it. and yes you can still get things done.
if people know you aint a joke, and you prove your worth. they will not attempt to play you. people always ASSUME you have to be an Ahole to lead. you dont. just so happen a few A holes have been in leadership roles therefore everyone ASSUMES you have to be like them to become a leader. sorry thats not the case. the reason you dont hear about anyone else being a boss without being an Ahole is because A holes get all the headlines/attention. because they are LOUD and obnoxious . a good leader that leads by example as well as with words when need be. but knows how to keep it professional and respectful. will never be discussed.
its like the difference between a loud mouth rapper flashing all his gold chains vs a dude with paper not wearing any chains at all. the only guy you remember is mr flashy loud mouth, for better or worse.
here's the thing Dame was very passionate about his business. and you need that passion. but passion should not always equate to A holeness, loud mouthery and obnoxiousness.


, I mean they have a cool environment to work in. If you want your business to survive, without conning people to stay afloat, why would you say you would knock out your main producer or CONSTANTLY put them down?. If anything you make sure they are happy so they don't do things to fukk your shyt up, and move on. There is a time, way, and a place to do things.
as jay wuz a partner and the star.