Gossip is a male thing since the Roman empire. Women stayed silent in the home for the most part. Gossipping was a right women gained over time ...
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Bible Quotes (Christianity)
1. Proverbs 16:28 (Old Testament):
“A perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends.”
This verse highlights how gossip creates division and disrupts relationships.
2. Proverbs 20:19 (Old Testament):
“A gossip betrays a confidence; so avoid anyone who talks too much.”
This warns against associating with those who spread gossip, as it breaks trust.
3. Ephesians 4:29 (New Testament):
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs.”
This encourages speech that uplifts rather than harms, implicitly discouraging gossip.
4. James 4:11 (New Testament):
“Brothers and sisters, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against a brother or sister or judges them speaks against the law and judges it.”
This directly condemns speaking ill of others, equating it to a violation of moral law.
Quran Quotes (Islam)
1. Surah Al-Hujurat (49:12):
“O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it.”
This verse explicitly forbids backbiting, comparing it to a repulsive act like cannibalism.
2. Surah Al-Humazah (104:1):
“Woe to every scorner and mocker.”
This condemns those who mock or slander others, warning of consequences for such behavior.
3. Surah An-Nur (24:19):
“Those who love that immorality should be spread [or publicized] about those who believe, for them is a painful punishment in this world and the Hereafter.”
This verse criticizes those who spread harmful or scandalous talk about others.
4. Surah Al-Qalam (68:11-12):
“[The one who is] a scorner, going about with malicious gossip – a preventer of good, transgressing and sinful.”
This describes the character of someone who spreads gossip as sinful and harmful.