I already warned and began deleting his post. And now I'm about to ban him.
Thanks!I already warned and began deleting his post. And now I'm about to ban him.
Thanks!I reported you, lack of reading comprehension, abuse, and deliberately deleting my post. I have a freedom of speech.
byeWell as black women we're not as emotionally open as other groups. We often don't trust others enough to let our guard down around them, especially black men. That's the whole angry black woman trope. Black women need to be able to be okay with not being okay. We don't really think we can afford to be okay, we're so used to taking care of ourselves.
Cause we can't be like them white women and Asians and be damsels in distress so we have to put up a tough exterior. I'm guilty of this a lot. It's just second nature to black women to be tough cause we carry the burden of everything in our lives. People don't cut us any slack and we don't expect it.
Fear of being vulnerable. We feel like we need to be strong for everyone. Keeping a guard up 24/7 is draining.
Edit: Elle pretty much said it.

And many of us are raised believing that a black woman MUST be strong if she is to be anything.Fear of being vulnerable. We feel like we need to be strong for everyone. Keeping a guard up 24/7 is draining.
Edit: Elle pretty much said it.

]), Ursula Burn (CEO of Xerox), Isabel dos Santos (wealthiest black woman in the world) are what our young girls should aspire to be, not some chick on the gram with 473k followers, a fat ass, with a bunch of athletes and rappers on her clit.I think many of our women and girls need to hear and believe that their self worth, self esteem, validation, acceptance, etc is not dependent upon a man. And that they are truly worthy of love, kindness, affection, etc just because of who they are internally and not based upon their vagina.A few months ago I had this beautiful idea for all of us as black women, but I abandoned it. I want to get some fresh motivation for it. What do you think we could do to empower our sisters? What kinds of problems do you think we face?
we need our women to be backbones and we also need to learn to be part of the solution of uplifting them rather than propping the stereotype that most of society has against them. A lot of us black men are guilty of this and it makes me sick at times.I'ma write a blog about this within the next week.Well as black women we're not as emotionally open as other groups. We often don't trust others enough to let our guard down around them, especially black men. That's the whole angry black woman trope. Black women need to be able to be okay with not being okay. We don't really think we can afford to be okay, we're so used to taking care of ourselves.