The friend zone is a myth

[winb83]

to this day people still talk about this thing called the friend zone. its really an imaginary thing people created to help them deal with rejection. the woman rejected you and you're still hanging around calling yourself in some type of zone. women are usually nice so if you're a decent guy but not what she wants she'll let you hang around but you're not in a zone you're just a guy in denial about the L you took.

its not a friendship either you're a vulture circling overhead waiting for a moment of weakness to strike. the worst part is you don't even want this chick anymore deep down. you just wanna conqueror her to reverse the rejection you experienced. you're just obsessed with "getting out of the friend zone" cause your ego got bruised. an ego that shouldn't have been brought to the game in the first place.

we all get rejected. these women don't know your value so don't take it personal. they're making split second decisions based on little to no info or superficial bullshyt. lots of times they come back around. you get a random call years later cause she kept your number and she wants to talk again. she realizes what she let go. she knows she fukked up.

 

[illadope]

man what?

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Sometimes its good to keep a platonic female friend around. She can hook you up with her friends and also talk about how much of a great guy you are to other females. They can also tell you about the things that you do that turn women off.

 

[Fmju]

Sometimes its good to keep a platonic female friend around. She can hook you up with her friends and also talk about how much of a great guy you are to other females. They can also tell you about the things that you do that turn women off.

OP musta been in so many friend zones it warped his perception of reality.

The friend zone is real nikka

 

[TRUEST]

to this day people still talk about this thing called the friend zone. its really an imaginary thing people created to help them deal with rejection. the woman rejected you and you're still hanging around calling yourself in some type of zone. women are usually nice so if you're a decent guy but not what she wants she'll let you hang around but you're not in a zone you're just a guy in denial about the L you took.

its not a friendship either you're a vulture circling overhead waiting for a moment of weakness to strike. the worst part is you don't even want this chick anymore deep down. you just wanna conqueror her to reverse the rejection you experienced. you're just obsessed with "getting out of the friend zone" cause your ego got bruised. an ego that shouldn't have been brought to the game in the first place.

we all get rejected. these women don't know your value so don't take it personal. they're making split second decisions based on little to no info or superficial bullshyt. lots of times they come back around. you get a random call years later cause she kept your number and she wants to talk again. she realizes what she let go. she knows she fukked up.

unless the chick witnessed you catch a one on one type of asswhooping, u can always recover from being in a "friendzone".

 

[newworldafro]

......................

OP, this a intriguing interpretation of the "friendzone"......... I have probably considered it to some extent the way you describe it, but the popular perception of it has prevented me from looking at it like that......

Nonetheless, I think the counter arguments presented are rather strong too, as in don't burn the bridge when it could connect to other viable options and network.....(just not the one you initially intended)

 

[Silkk]

Its as real as you allow it to be

 

[CrimsonTider]

The OP is 100% right.

Sometimes its good to keep a platonic female friend around. She can hook you up with her friends and also talk about how much of a great guy you are to other females. They can also tell you about the things that you do that turn women off.

Did you read the OP? Do you have any clue on what being "friendzoned" means?

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

to this day people still talk about this thing called the friend zone. its really an imaginary thing people created to help them deal with rejection. the woman rejected you and you're still hanging around calling yourself in some type of zone. women are usually nice so if you're a decent guy but not what she wants she'll let you hang around but you're not in a zone you're just a guy in denial about the L you took.

its not a friendship either you're a vulture circling overhead waiting for a moment of weakness to strike. the worst part is you don't even want this chick anymore deep down. you just wanna conqueror her to reverse the rejection you experienced. you're just obsessed with "getting out of the friend zone" cause your ego got bruised. an ego that shouldn't have been brought to the game in the first place.

we all get rejected. these women don't know your value so don't take it personal. they're making split second decisions based on little to no info or superficial bullshyt. lots of times they come back around. you get a random call years later cause she kept your number and she wants to talk again. she realizes what she let go. she knows she fukked up.

As a woman I agree with the bold.

Meaning: A man will know you're not interested but in the back of his mind will attempt to prey upon your weaknesses in the guise of friendship.

Once I told a few of my male acquaintances I was pregnant not only did they drop me like a bad habit, I was accused of being a whore who lied about my 5+ years of celibacy

Friend zone = one day she'll crack and let me hit that if I stick around long enough

 

[Liquid]

lol winb is back

 

[Assata Shakur]

I disagree and women's aren't usually nice

 

[TheBigBopper]

Women are nothing but c*nts. Don't bother with them, friend or lover.

 

[Turbulent]

As a woman I agree with the bold.

Meaning: A man will know you're not interested but in the back of his mind will attempt to prey upon your weaknesses in the guise of friendship.

Once I told a few of my male acquaintances I was pregnant not only did they drop me like a bad habit, I was accused of being a whore who lied about my 5+ years of celibacy

Friend zone = one day she'll crack and let me hit that if I stick around long enough

keeping it real, that's more or less what it is. if i'm friends with a chick, chances are i'm trying to hit.

i only have one female friend who i can honestly say is a genuine friend. and even then i still semi-flirt with her. not necessarily because i want to hit. but more just to see if i could seduce her. i think there is always sexual tension between males and females friends.


as far as your friends, they played themselves. they figured they were up for the challenge of cracking you open. but when you got pregnant, they figured you were fukking dudes all along. it's not that they think you're a whore that frustrates them. it's that they think they were trying hard to take it slow with you while in their head you were getting dikk on the side. in other words, they feel like you provided them with false info and that they lost their time and efforts based on that info.

 

[wutang512]

you know he's right. it's only real if you allow yourself to stick around and stay friends with them woman. every single female that rejected me and got me with the, "but we can be friends though" I usually just stop talking with them. cause I wasn't talking to her with the purpose of being friends. I was talking to her to either have sex or see if she was girl friend material.

sent from my phone nikka....

 

[Rominati]

Its cool to have one female friend or two. You can learn alot from em, if ya'll are really cool like that.

However that whole, me trying to hit and you rejecting it angle is not the foundation of a legit male/female platonic friendship. So there is really no point in hanging around