the premise of what he said is true tho 
just worded strange
just worded strange
The friend zone is a myth
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look i just didn't want to type all this im about to have to type (you're makin me type this)
You had multiple male friends that you knew were interested in you, but you weren't interested in them.
Instead of telling them "hey im not interested lets be friends." You come up with some lie about being celibate(thats the reason you can't be in a relationship). Which as a woman you gotta know is a calculated move to make dudes interested in you.
You string these men along for emotional support and/or attention. Most likely calling them when your real boyfriend is ignoring you and you need some guy to listen to all your crazy bullshyt but you also use them as a tool to make your real boyfriend jealous cause you're crazy and play those type of games.
All while this is happening you are fukking your man without a condom and letting him cum inside you. Telling your "friends" that you're celibate.
What kind of people hide relationships from their friends? If you are doing something in secrecy it usually means you are ashamed of what you are doing. being in a relationship is a normal thing, why hide it?
When you do tell the "friends" the truth the first thing they are thinking is "This bytch has been lying to me." all the while you are thinking "I thought you were my friend" when basically you had been using them the whole time for your own selfish needs.
You also mentioned that your the type of woman that doesn't have a lotta female friends. This means that you're probably immature, jealous, crazy hoe. because those are the only type of women that dont get along with other women.
The thing you need to realize is that crazy hoes like you (the topic of this very thread) are a dime a dozen and guys all realize one day that you are crazy and this is why you are gonna end up alone talking about "your daddy aint shyt" everyday but in reality you facilitated all of this happening to you.
see how it was just easier to say "i feel bad for your unborn baby"?
You had multiple male friends that you knew were interested in you, but you weren't interested in them.
Instead of telling them "hey im not interested lets be friends." You come up with some lie about being celibate(thats the reason you can't be in a relationship). Which as a woman you gotta know is a calculated move to make dudes interested in you.
You string these men along for emotional support and/or attention. Most likely calling them when your real boyfriend is ignoring you and you need some guy to listen to all your crazy bullshyt but you also use them as a tool to make your real boyfriend jealous cause you're crazy and play those type of games.
All while this is happening you are fukking your man without a condom and letting him cum inside you. Telling your "friends" that you're celibate.
What kind of people hide relationships from their friends? If you are doing something in secrecy it usually means you are ashamed of what you are doing. being in a relationship is a normal thing, why hide it?
When you do tell the "friends" the truth the first thing they are thinking is "This bytch has been lying to me." all the while you are thinking "I thought you were my friend" when basically you had been using them the whole time for your own selfish needs.
You also mentioned that your the type of woman that doesn't have a lotta female friends. This means that you're probably immature, jealous, crazy hoe. because those are the only type of women that dont get along with other women.
The thing you need to realize is that crazy hoes like you (the topic of this very thread) are a dime a dozen and guys all realize one day that you are crazy and this is why you are gonna end up alone talking about "your daddy aint shyt" everyday but in reality you facilitated all of this happening to you.
see how it was just easier to say "i feel bad for your unborn baby"?
KnowledgeIsQueen
Duality Duel
the premise of what he said is true tho
just worded strange
Meh.
In a society where females broadcast every aspect of their lives it was expected i do the same. The fact that individuals are upset or feel some type of way because they were the last to know indicates I'm doing something right
KnowledgeIsQueen
Duality Duel
Projecting at its best!
There is no way you can get this salty unless some female did this to you ( who I happen to remind you of) therefore you're not only letting your over active imagination fill in the blanks you honestly believe what you're typing.
If a man asks why aren't you in a relationship (which could have been established years ago) the following question is are you having sex? I never talked about my celibacy, I said it once and that was that. Whenever any of them cracked jokes about me dying a born again virgin or becoming a lesbian I simply laughed along with them. I wasn't going to say omgggggg stop saying that I'm in a relationship now
All that extra crap you typed comes from 1st hand experience of getting done dirty, you still have the inability to see past your pain believing I am one in the same with whoever hurt you.
Have you tell it I'm a crazy slore though ;)
Bilz
Superstar
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Earlier in the thread I indicated I don't divulge personal information about my life (especially relationship wise). Due to the fact I never spoke about my now fiancé it was assumed I wasn't in a relationship thus still celibate. Therefore when I announced my pregnancy & engagement I got thewhen did this happen treatment.
I'm not 'crazy' for not knowing their TRUE intentions, they are for going through what I now view as BS believing it would one day work in thier favor.
Maybe they thought you weren't their real friend for hiding this stuff from them in the first place? I know I'd probably fall back a little if someone I considered a close friend told me they were seeing someone and said "oh by the way, we're engaged and have one on the way too" If you're too closed off to talk much about your personal life to your close friends, it shouldn't be a surprise that they aren't really that close to you.
Guys know how other guys think. If a guy finds out you have some guy they never even heard about before, the first thing they're going to think is that the guy might not be all that cool with random guys having friendships with his girl.
KnowledgeIsQueen
Duality Duel
I see your point in the 1st paragraph.
IMO most relationships don't last because people don't know how to hold water. They'll tell anyone who'll listen every detail about their s/o all the way down to what they ate fit dinner last night. Half the individuals they talk to don't give a damn and can't wait for their relationship to fail because they aren't happy or single. If I choose not to make the same mistakes I witnessed so many others before me make, in my minds eye I'm not at fault.
Anyone who believes they should have access to every aspect of your life should evaluate if they did the same and what was the outcome.
yeah because not telling someone what you and your boyfriend ate for dinner last night is the same and not telling some guy friend that is interested in you that you are in a relationship. it's the exact same thing. you're right.
KnowledgeIsQueen
Duality Duel
If you like a female that doesn't feel the same is a personal problem. The fact that they're with someone else should snap you out of the lie you told yourself that if you stick around long enough they'll miraculously change their mind.
Persistence isn't always a virtue, it's a set up for failure (prolonged with a painful ending)
Angel On The Rag
I'm bloody hungry!!
you can get out of the friend zone anytime
just have to initiate it
friend zone is for friends, friends, yall should join
just have to initiate it
friend zone is for friends, friends, yall should join
OC's finest
All Star
somtimes your in the "friendzone" and have female friends because you rejected THEM. and you keep THEM around because they serve some function in your life.
If you like a female that doesn't feel the same is a personal problem. The fact that they're with someone else should snap you out of the lie you told yourself that if you stick around long enough they'll miraculously change their mind.
Persistence isn't always a virtue, it's a set up for failure (prolonged with a painful ending)
are you just gonna ignore the fact that you are the liar in this case?
see this is how other people can easily tell you are a psycho. ignore the evidence. change the subject. blame someone else. play the victim.
I am cool with this cute chick I went to high school with (20 years ago). We live in different states so for a while it was just phone calls and naked pics but we eventually hung out. She was supposedly on the outs with her dude, but he kept coming up. Eventually I was like "Let's f***" more or less and she said she wasnt in the mood. Fast forward a couple years: she married the dude getting divorced and never gave up the goods. We talk regularly. She tells all about her problems, I tell mine. She prolly calls me more often, so it's not me sweating her. I like it tho. She talks explicitly about sucking d***, taking it up the a**, and lipstick lesbianism. Plus I have the nudes and a lil vid to keep me 
Bilz
Superstar
Have you been burned a lot in life? You seem pretty jaded about the human race.
The people I've seen that fell into the trap you're talking about are people who dig their own grave.
Person A: "My ___friend sucks, they do ____, _____, and ______ and I don't know how much longer I can stand it"
Person B: "That sucks, well there's plenty of people out there, you should dump them and find someone that appreciates you and treats you better"
Person A: "Why are you talking shyt about my ____friend? You don't even know them!!"
Person B:
People aren't all out to sabotage other people's relationships but people are only going to know what you tell them. If all you ever do is complain about your significant other, people that like you will hear these stories, side with you, and will want you to find someone that makes you happier.
KnowledgeIsQueen
Duality Duel
Have you been burned a lot in life? You seem pretty jaded about the human race.
The people I've seen that fell into the trap you're talking about are people who dig their own grave.
Person A: "My ___friend sucks, they do ____, _____, and ______ and I don't know how much longer I can stand it"
Person B: "That sucks, well there's plenty of people out there, you should dump them and find someone that appreciates you and treats you better"
Person A: "Why are you talking shyt about my ____friend? You don't even know them!!"
Person B:
People aren't all out to sabotage other people's relationships but people are only going to know what you tell them. If all you ever do is complain about your significant other, people that like you will hear these stories, side with you, and will want you to find someone that makes you happier.
Jaded, not at all.
What you stated are obvious characteristics of an individual who lacks maturity & life experience. Or as I've stated earlier cannot hold water.
If I said it once, I've said it a thousand times: If you want to know how someone truly feels about you give them GOOD NEWS! and watch their reaction (which is prevalent in this thread by simply looking at the responses of a particular poster). Said negativity has nothing to do with me, it stems from self.
You hit the nail on the head when you stated: 'people only know what you tell them'. The fact that aspects of your life are unknown burns various individuals to no end. In a relationship, you're not obligated to tell anyone outside of said union anything. Being privy to specific details/information is a privilege not entailment.
When you have the inability to hold something sacred it blends into the sameness of everything else. Real happiness is lived, it's not an everyday topic for discussion.