The friend zone is a myth

CrimsonTider

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:laff: breh i wholeheartedly 100% agree with this. nikkaS IS DUMB




:youngsabo: nikka im knowing. Im saying when you in the friendzone a chick will do lil things to show theres a light at the end of the tunnel in some cases. Maybe she'll text you outta the blue and start a convo with you feeding into the feelings you've already caught.

75% of it is dumb nikkas
25% of it is bytches playing games

As someone has already said, a lot of that "light at the end of the tunnel" that men perceive is the male ego seeing something that isn't there.
 

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HAHA fukk a friend zone
if yall lost the spark treat her like a homie
to try fukk her friends or something
even if she dont look better, pull bytches around her do all that
but dont be spiteful when doing it
 
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As someone has already said, a lot of that "light at the end of the tunnel" that men perceive is the male ego seeing something that isn't there.

breh thats why i said in SOME CASES. i know the bulk of the blame is on these nikkas not knowing how to KIM but a percentage has to be place on these females out here
 

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Then I'm not sure how you viewed them as friends in the first place. How can someone be your friend without knowing anything about you? Friendships are built on trust. If I don't know anything about you then I don't trust you. If I don't trust you or have a reason to care about you then don't be surprised if I stop hanging around. If they weren't really friends then why would you care what they do?

Notice I used the word acquaintance several times. I take the word friend seriously and use it only when applicable.

Hopefully the following words will illustrate why I don't tell any & everyone my business.

If you display weaknesses that are greater than my own, how are you of any help to me? (May sound harsh, but let it marinate)

Various individuals come to me for advice or in their time need and I wouldn't go to ANY of them if the shoe was on the other foot. If you're emotional, resentful, unhappy, close minded, etc. I don't pass judgement and spend the better half of our time together helping you notice what you're oblivious to (helping them get out of a rut) But, if I'm experiencing a moment of negativity said person will make matters worse before making it better (they have a hard time helping themselves and cancerous to others).

If you truly have an understanding of others you know what you can & cannot tell people.
 

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breh thats why i said in SOME CASES. i know the bulk of the blame is on these nikkas not knowing how to KIM but a percentage has to be place on these females out here

No blame, you only have yourself to blame if you get zoned. And if you do, pack up and move the fukk on. You don't wanna get fukked with? don't fukk with crazy females wantin their cake and tryna eat it too.
 

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nikkaz be knowin when she lose interest
if she cool put her in the friend zone
you aint gone hit every chick
but yall can get this money together
 

TLR Is Mental Poison

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Where did I say you are waiting? It's called moving on. A lot of women are insecure with how they look. It's easy to exploit. You may find this girl more attractive than the ones you are bringing around her but she won't look at it that way.. a lot or women view "skinny" as attractive, for example. You're not waiting. You are doing what you do and at the same time making her think twice about her decision. It's win-win. She may very well come around. If not, it doesn't matter. You're playing their game without really playing.
I feel you, I misread.
 

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As a woman I agree with the bold.

Meaning: A man will know you're not interested but in the back of his mind will attempt to prey upon your weaknesses in the guise of friendship.

Once I told a few of my male acquaintances I was pregnant not only did they drop me like a bad habit, I was accused of being a whore who lied about my 5+ years of celibacy :laugh:

Friend zone = one day she'll crack and let me hit that if I stick around long enough :smh:

Just curious, did you feel the same way about the girls that stopped talking to you at the same time? It sounds terrible but if you are pregnant or have kids, you instantly have very little in common with anyone who does not.

People with kids cant go out drinking, they cant go out to eat on a moments notice, everything is unreliable as it all depends on whether or not you can find a sitter. All of the things you and your friends used to do would now be much different. I dont doubt that some of the guys you knew may have saw your pregnancy as an out of business sign but I think it is also likely that it just made it harder to have a friendship like old times.
 
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No blame, you only have yourself to blame if you get zoned. And if you do, pack up and move the fukk on. You don't wanna get fukked with? don't fukk with crazy females wantin their cake and tryna eat it too.

We not living in a world where everyone is rational and logical. So guys like crazy warped bytches. So women like guys that dog them and treat them like shyt.


She Agree That I'm Looney said it right, friendzone is like being a jumpoff for women. When you have a pop, you have to do certain things to keep that physical relationship going with feelings being caught. All I'm saying is women know the game and are playing it as well as some nikkas. If a nikka gets strung along, yes its on him but theres somebody pulling the strings
 
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i wanna hunnid and fitty thousand!
women use our urges to wanna fukk them against us...they're already aware of what our intentions are and counter attack them by leaving us with the belief that we will get some p*ssy (or as the gawd would say "implied future p*ssy")...as long as we believe in THAT belief women are open to manipulating us for our time :ohhh:

they're playing chess my brehs
 
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