The friend zone is a myth

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women use our urges to wanna fukk them against us...they're already aware of what our intentions are and counter attack them by leaving us with the belief that we will get some p*ssy (or as the gawd would say "implied future p*ssy")...as long as we believe in THAT belief women are open to manipulating us for our time :ohhh:

they're playing chess my brehs
A lot of dudes play chess too. Women have urges too, just different ones. You will never go broke selling dreams
 

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We not living in a world where everyone is rational and logical. So guys like crazy warped bytches. So women like guys that dog them and treat them like shyt.


She Agree That I'm Looney said it right, friendzone is like being a jumpoff for women. When you have a pop, you have to do certain things to keep that physical relationship going with feelings being caught. All I'm saying is women know the game and are playing it as well as some nikkas. If a nikka gets strung along, yes its on him but theres somebody pulling the strings

I fukking love crazy looney bytches. I can't even get with normal women. I'm just saying you can never allow yourself to fall in the frame of mind where you get dragged along by a woman like that. The whole friendzone mindset comes from dudes being more concerned about what or how some female is doing instead of yourself. Ignore a text message, go to the gym, and always have other shyt bubbling so you don't get focused on a single girl unless she's worth it. Or at least make it look like you got something better to do than listen to some bytch problems

:smugdraper: :win:
 

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the quickest way to get out of the friendzone is fukk her best friend.

the change in emotions afteward = :wow:

then leave both them hoes alone and do something better with your life​

This is true and the only way you can turn that shyt around on them. But any dude that hangs around a chick on some revenge shyt trying to fukk her friends cause she rejected him is still losing.
 
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ou got one dude who took a loss and refuses to let it go and then you got the woman who sees a treasure trove of low cost benefits and she maxes him out... and when this ol' sneaky negro gets tired of doing all of this for no return, he's going to go out and get mad and talk bad about her. Naw mane, if you want to mess with a woman on that other level, that man and woman level and she ain't feeling you, pick up your bags and keep it moving to another one that is. ALl of that lingering around and trying to show her your worth so that one day she will eventually choose you is some follower behavior. She's NOT that important for you to be hanging around, getting bitter when she told you what it was and trying to trick your way into her vagina. Talking to other girls in front of her to make her jealous and all of that is some vindictive behavior. I see a lot of cats talking about don't put women on pedestals, but doing something like that is doing exactly that. Get up, talk to other women because you actually want to spend time with someone that is interested in you and not to try to creep up inside a woman who wasn't feeling you.

I call that the failure zone because today we use way too many soft euphemisms to cover up what things really are. Ain't no real friendship there. Ain't no real winning there. Ain't no real reason for a man to allow himself to accept that kind of deal, and there sure ain't no reason for no man to be playing ninja and trying to stealth himself into a woman's life. If you trying to be friends with a woman, let that be genuine friendship. If you are trying to go solo and be in a relationship with that woman, learn to accept when one doesn't accept you, thank her for not wasting your time, and keep it pushing for the one that's really ready to get down for you.

:wow::ohhh: this should be put in booklets and passed out to the youth when the graduate 8th grade
 
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I fukking love crazy looney bytches. I can't even get with normal women. I'm just saying you can never allow yourself to fall in the frame of mind where you get dragged along by a woman like that. The whole friendzone mindset comes from dudes being more concerned about what or how some female is doing instead of yourself. Ignore a text message, go to the gym, and always have other shyt bubbling so you don't get focused on a single girl unless she's worth it. Or at least make it look like you got something better to do than listen to some bytch problems

:smugdraper: :win:

:yes::yes: REAL shyt
 

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Just curious, did you feel the same way about the girls that stopped talking to you at the same time? It sounds terrible but if you are pregnant or have kids, you instantly have very little in common with anyone who does not.

People with kids cant go out drinking, they cant go out to eat on a moments notice, everything is unreliable as it all depends on whether or not you can find a sitter. All of the things you and your friends used to do would now be much different. I dont doubt that some of the guys you knew may have saw your pregnancy as an out of business sign but I think it is also likely that it just made it harder to have a friendship like old times.

I already have a son, plus I'm an introvert. I don't do clubbing, partying, drinking etc. so that was never a factor.

With the females more of them are salty because I'm engaged. I went so long without being in a relationship & now that I'm happy; most of them view it as 'why her? it should be me' :smh:

Often times it takes a particular situation or turn of events for an individual to convey how they've always felt about you. If my happiness makes you mad or uncomfortable you never had my best interest at heart.

Such is life....
 

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i was put in the friend (failure) zone. i stuck around, waited for a moment of weakness and i striked. sure it was a year later. maybe i spent too much time and energy but fukk it, i got what i wanted.

men and women cant be genuine friends, if they are, it is rare (and good for you, i couldnt do that shyt tho) we are constantly tying to fukk, its in our DNA.

im still amazed at the mistakes im making tho... currently im heading towards the friendzone. i can feel it. i became this bytch's texting buddy. im just gonna tell her i want her and if i get rejected that will be it for me; i wont be sticking around.
 

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Bruh at the end of the day, and this is not to be scumbagish cause it goes both ways, but if you are dealing w/someone and they are not holding up their end of the deal why continue dealing with them?

Theres no way you someone can toy with you if you keep shyt in the open... like if you make a move, and a chick doesnt go for it, what else is there to be said? When you go back to chill with her afterwards, you basically give her the go ahead to take advantage of you

Being in the friend zone = being afraid to walk away, period

Bingo. I learned this lesson the way.

When a girl openly "friendzones" you and you let it happen, you've given her the advantage. Walk away from the friendship entirely and it'll tear her up on the inside. And while it ain't sex it's a damn good feeling to do so :win:
 

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The problem with alot of men who end up in the friendzone is that ya are so afraid of rejection. Just tell a bytch what it is man. Let her know how you feel and keep it pushing. If she reject you, so what? You were gonna get rejected anyway if you didnt man up and lingered around longer (ie:Friendzone)



My mentality is I usually let a chick kno how I feel within the first week of meeting her. If I get curved :to: .......but eventually it will be :manny:









And thus I shall continue on my quest for new and profound p*ssy....
 

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i was put in the friend (failure) zone. i stuck around, waited for a moment of weakness and i striked. sure it was a year later. maybe i spent too much time and energy but fukk it, i got what i wanted.

men and women cant be genuine friends, if they are, it is rare (and good for you, i couldnt do that shyt tho) we are constantly tying to fukk, its in our DNA.

im still amazed at the mistakes im making tho... currently im heading towards the friendzone. i can feel it. i became this bytch's texting buddy. im just gonna tell her i want her and if i get rejected that will be it for me; i wont be sticking around.

I had to learn it the hard way myself when I was a kid. I stuck around this b!tch for a year and never even got a whiff of that puzzy :sad:

After about a year I met a new girl tho and I started going out with her and forgot about that bytch. I never contacted her again and she didn't contact me neither so I could tell she never gave a f*ck about me.

This was in high school so I would still say hi to her in the halls if I saw her and she would do the same but that was it.
 
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I don't even try to be friends with women anymore. Sometimes it happens because you'll have certain girls hanging around in your circle of friends, going out with you guys, showing up at all the parties, etc.. but that's unavoidable.

If I want to take a girl out the only thing I can do is approach her as such. I've learned my lesson. The longer you are 'friends' the worse you are going to feel if she isn't feeling you..
 

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If you're afraid of rejection, I can guarantee you a spot in the friend zone. You can't assume that woman know your intentions. Just because a woman calls you and go with her everywhere such as shopping, clubbing, etc. doesn't establish that you are interested in her. It actually conveys that you like being around her and you don't feel the need to be sexual. This is another sure way to end up in the friend zone. You may consider this spending quality time, but she'll consider this similar to spending time with one of her homegirls. Men who like women don't hang around them and suppress their feelings.

If a woman feels comfortable enough to tell you about another man she is interested in, I'm sorry to inform you, but you are now in the friend zone. Women who are interested in you, will never talk about another man they are interested in in your presence. They are very different from us. They don't feel the need to make us jealous. In addition, don't give relationship advice to any woman that you are interested in.

Another pitfall is hanging around woman who have boyfriends, becoming their friend even though you like them because that is the only option available. It is quite true that this puts you in position to be the rebound, but there is a larger possibility that you'll get so cool with her that you will be taken out of consideration. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being her friend, but you need to let her know that you are interested on a sexual level.

What's even worse is when you know you're in the friend zone, and you remain there, hoping that one day she will look at you differently and you will live happily ever after.
 

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