The friend zone is a myth

[MAKAVELI25]

"You've showed me what a true man supposed to be a great a provider" -

Is there any nicer way to be told that you're a trick?

 

[Rich Spirit]

:scustman:

 

[NerdBird]

this lame ass thread is made every month... take it to the quick gems on dealing with women thread

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

lol they should rename friend zone failure zone. Let's just call it what it is. Negroes get shot down and try to linger around trying to supersize their current consolation status. Then they go try and talk to other women and make sure his 'bud' notices and tries to do other specific things just to try to get the attention of the woman that rejected them on that 'look at how desired I am, don't you want to mess with me now??" tip. Man, get up off that woman. The best solution is to stop wasting energy on a woman that ain't trying to mess with you like that because there are ones that are.

That ether

 

[Ohene]

your dumb

you're*

 

[winb83]

this lame ass thread is made every month... take it to the quick gems on dealing with women thread

This is the original version. Was made 2 years ago back when SOHH still had forums and people were still migrating here. This isn't a gem for dealing with women either. It's a fact of life. There is no friend zone. There never was. Yet to this very day people still talk about such a bullshyt concept and keep the myth alive. I still hear the term used on the regular.

 

[BocaRear]

& then these women be like, why can't I find a nice man

 

[CrimsonTider]

This is the original version. Was made 2 years ago back when SOHH still had forums and people were still migrating here. This isn't a gem for dealing with women either. It's a fact of life. There is no friend zone. There never was. Yet to this very day people still talk about such a bullshyt concept and keep the myth alive. I still hear the term used on the regular.

My biggest thing is that it's not a friendship

The loser guy is just doing whatever to convince(trick) the girl into liking him

 

[HoloGraphic]

The friend zone is the perfect place to start inseminating more devious maneuvers

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

The friend zone is still an imaginary prison people who get rejected create to make themselves feel like the rejection never happened. Fools like that guy are just living proof. If people would quit spreading the myth we'd all be better for it.

If you admit to being in the friend zone then you admit to being rejected from getting the p*ssy. It's basically a dude that doesn't know when to walk away and is emotionally latched onto a girl and continues to HOPE. All the while she's using him. Which is stupid of the dude, but a lot of dudes fall for it.

 

[godkiller]

to this day people still talk about this thing called the friend zone. its really an imaginary thing people created to help them deal with rejection. the woman rejected you and you're still hanging around calling yourself in some type of zone. women are usually nice so if you're a decent guy but not what she wants she'll let you hang around but you're not in a zone you're just a guy in denial about the L you took.

its not a friendship either you're a vulture circling overhead waiting for a moment of weakness to strike. the worst part is you don't even want this chick anymore deep down. you just wanna conqueror her to reverse the rejection you experienced. you're just obsessed with "getting out of the friend zone" cause your ego got bruised. an ego that shouldn't have been brought to the game in the first place.

we all get rejected. these women don't know your value so don't take it personal. they're making split second decisions based on little to no info or superficial bullshyt. lots of times they come back around. you get a random call years later cause she kept your number and she wants to talk again. she realizes what she let go. she knows she fukked up.

Powerful post.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Just read through this entire post

Lots of gems in here for sure.

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

If you're in a "friend zone" you're not really even a friend. Friendship is a mutual bond of support, trust, and understanding. You're a convenience. Basically most friendzoned dudes are people that are trying to still get it in with a girl that's using them as some sort of emotional pillow. Especially if she's already got another dude in her life who's actually gettin some. You aint her friend son.

and yeah, keep a few actual female friends around because they can teach you a lot. and help wingman you.

It does exist...The way to avoid is be blunt....Don't hang out with chicks who aren't physically attracted to you. Because a broad will never overcome that hurdle.


If you that pressed to talk to the girl...keep it to text messages.........

Spoiler

With Your Simp A$$!!

 

[ryshy]

the first question to answer is what is the friendzone? it seems like one of those things that everyone has a different definition for

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

the first question to answer is what is the friendzone? it seems like one of those things that everyone has a different definition for

It's when a guy tries to get at a girl, and she's not attracted to him enough to sleep with him. The guy then attempts to win her favor by continuing to spend time and/or money on her in hopes that she'll eventually change her mind, give him some pitty p*ssy, or decide to fukk him because he's done all these things for her. However, he's just being a glutton for punishment for continuing to hold out for this chick while sacrificing his time and money and oh yeah....HIS DIGNITY. Because she's not going to fukk him, she's just using him and he's weak enough to allow it to happen.