yep
but its why I always say that no girl is out of your league, many lack self esteem and validation in themselves.
I remember talking to this coworker at work were like break buddies and she was telling me when her boyfriend broke up with her like 5 years ago that he told her if she wasn't fat they would still be together, mind you this chick isn't even fat at all but that stuck to her and to this day she barely eats at all
I don't play manipulative mind games but it would be easy if I did
He broke her down to her lowest level with just a few words, breh. She'll always return to him for validation to try to get back what she perceive was taken away. She know he has the power over her emotions, now. Notice how she mentioned she'll bring other nikkas around to fukk in an effort to try to piss him off?
She's trying to show him that she's desirable.
If he hits her with the "those dudes must like 'em with a little more meat on their bones than average", she might seriously consider committing that.
Women have very low self-confidence. If you find that one thing they're terribly self-conscious about and chip away at it, in various ways, you can break them. Once you've broken them, dangle that validation out there like a dollar on a string and watch them work their hardest to grab it.

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