' The Guy I Am Sleeping With Called Me Fat After We Had Sex.' (PHOTOS)

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It's not so much about confidence and the outward appearance of it, it's about a deep sense of FEELING. There are places in the body that actually generate that feeling of love and security and when we experience trauma or adopt negative self images we close ourselves off to those parts of the body on a subconscious level. A lot of confidence building techniques are just intellectual exercises, they don't really work with the body when it comes to releasing pent up emotions.

Her childhood has caused her to disassociate from the love within, which is why this exchange with such an inconsiderate a$$hole has come about.

No 6 year old should be worried about their weight or who they compare to but unfortunately in the world we live in we put a lot of ideas in childrens heads that end up influencing their whole lives from the background noise of their psyche.

Hopefully she takes this experience and looks deeper into it and realizes he was only saying what she was thinking...he played the external role for her own inner critic.


naw, she's just one of those broads whose parents let her get raised by the tv and other kids that don't know any better, spoiling her, giving her lip gloss and make up at 4 years old and etc instead of actually parenting her. i'ma also guess that she's one of those hipsters that is living off of her parents money too where she doesn't have a sense of responsibility. it's always somebody elses fault. this is what happens when parents don't stay active in their kids lives, act like they are their kids best friend and then they grow up to do dumb shyt thinking it's normal and BLAMING other people.
 

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naw, she's just one of those broads whose parents let her get raised by the tv and other kids that don't know any better, spoiling her, giving her lip gloss and make up at 4 years old and etc instead of actually parenting her. i'ma also guess that she's one of those hipsters that is living off of her parents money too where she doesn't have a sense of responsibility. it's always somebody elses fault. this is what happens when parents don't stay active in their kids lives, act like they are their kids best friend and then they grow up to do dumb shyt thinking it's normal and BLAMING other people.

I disagree.

We externalize our internal experience IMO, she is missing something as we all are to a degree. Not to say that she's not a hipster, or irresponsible or didn't watch too much TV...but it's deeper than that, not just with her, but with you as well. "BLAMING" others for how you feel is a sure sign of disassociation....and the remedy requires self inquiry and reflection...if this was her personal blog then it was good for her to write this up. Maybe the people so eager to clown and judge could use a similar outlet to lay their "stuff" table.
 

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She is a whore that fukks her landlord for free rent in the slums.

Exactly why is she getting a platform to share her views on ANYTHING?

Coli stay dishin' out them harsh realities
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So now I’m searching for new sex partners, preferably to bring home and rub in his face -– again the high road is not for me -– and for a new place to live.

yea that'll teach him...(someone who already got up in your guts then called you out for being overweight)...by bringing home fukk buddies for your previous fukk buddy to see....

dude might dap the first cat you bring home like "tag...you're it...enjoy that p*ssy fam...i'll just be out here on the xbox if you wanna kick it"

shorty can't be any dumber and her self esteem can't be any lower......I GUARANTEE HER GIVING UP THE p*ssy IS HER WAY OF COPING WITH BEING A FAT ASS.....

fukk an older man and then try to call him out for fukkin girls young enough to be his daughter, brehettes
 

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reading articles like this and the many more on the internet really fuk peoples heads up...why? Because back in the day, there was no medium where you could read and worry about other peoples thoughts giving you a piece of mind, learning about your problems and dealing with them as time goes on. Nowadays people try and relate to everyone feeling empathetic towards themselves furthering pushing their issue. BRAUH...

I was better off when I didn't have to read chit like this but I can't just log off the internet because I am addicted. I need help, we all do.
 

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This bytch could get any guy he wants here in buenos aires, why fukk the landlord? Daddy issues? :patrice:

She can make him jealous with me tho :lolbron:
 

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It's not so much about confidence and the outward appearance of it, it's about a deep sense of FEELING. There are places in the body that actually generate that feeling of love and security and when we experience trauma or adopt negative self images we close ourselves off to those parts of the body on a subconscious level. A lot of confidence building techniques are just intellectual exercises, they don't really work with the body when it comes to releasing pent up emotions.

Her childhood has caused her to disassociate from the love within, which is why this exchange with such an inconsiderate a$$hole has come about.

No 6 year old should be worried about their weight or who they compare to but unfortunately in the world we live in we put a lot of ideas in childrens heads that end up influencing their whole lives from the background noise of their psyche.

Hopefully she takes this experience and looks deeper into it and realizes he was only saying what she was thinking...he played the external role for her own inner critic.


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its simple to break down a chick once she confides in you.

Example a chick tells you she's always had issues battling weight
you call her fat even if she isn't subconciously she will start to feel fat and her self esteem will erode

a chick is skinny and flat, she always wished she had bigger boobs, the moment a big boob girl walks by and you glance with the :jawalrus: she will start to feel inadequate

its sick and twisted mindgames but any chick can be broken down once she confides
 

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He broke her down to her lowest level with just a few words, breh. She'll always return to him for validation to try to get back what she perceive was taken away. She know he has the power over her emotions, now. Notice how she mentioned she'll bring other nikkas around to fukk in an effort to try to piss him off?

She's trying to show him that she's desirable.

If he hits her with the "those dudes must like 'em with a little more meat on their bones than average :yeshrug:", she might seriously consider committing that.

Women have very low self-confidence. If you find that one thing they're terribly self-conscious about and chip away at it, in various ways, you can break them. Once you've broken them, dangle that validation out there like a dollar on a string and watch them work their hardest to grab it.
 
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its simple to break down a chick once she confides in you.

Example a chick tells you she's always had issues battling weight
you call her fat even if she isn't subconciously she will start to feel fat and her self esteem will erode

a chick is skinny and flat, she always wished she had bigger boobs, the moment a big boob girl walks by and you glance with the :jawalrus: she will start to feel inadequate

its sick and twisted mindgames but any chick can be broken down once she confides

It wouldn't be so easy if their self-confidence weren't so low. We got to do a better job raising our daughters, brehs.
 

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It wouldn't be so easy if their self-confidence weren't so low. We got to do a better job raising our daughters, brehs.

yep
but its why I always say that no girl is out of your league, many lack self esteem and validation in themselves.

I remember talking to this coworker at work were like break buddies and she was telling me when her boyfriend broke up with her like 5 years ago that he told her if she wasn't fat they would still be together, mind you this chick isn't even fat at all but that stuck to her and to this day she barely eats at all

I don't play manipulative mind games but it would be easy if I did
 
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