Suleiman Bey
Banned
no it doesn't. Women who enjoy nonsense brings nonsense to ya life. Has nothing to do with being a single mother.
The harsh reality is most of single men 30 + will end up with a single mom & its not that bad.
maturity, somebody thats understanding and somebody around your age.what exactly would I get out of that arrangement that I can't get from younger women ?
Women want to be smutted out when they're young, it would seem if you're looking for that young women would be the best bet.
Older women come with baggage, kids, and expectations for relationships.
Older women come with baggage, kids, and expectations for relationships.
JoseLuisGotcha
Aka Allhiphopsux
As a man as long as you got your coins up you can bag pretty much anything ...women love power and security if you have one you’re good If you have both you really Gucci
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youre putting yourself in a never ending box bro...take a chance...life is a gamble
This. I already came to this conclusion a while back, and i see a bunch of women who would either be a catch or are a few attitude adjustments away from being dope but they also have kids and major relationship baggage.
There is a lady at work who confessed to having a couple kids with a dude who already has 10
Aiming for the mid 20's ladies when I make my way to dating. Wanna knock this debt out first, but yea, gonna be 24-25 range even after I turn 31 this year.Can't entertain the single mothers.
Ricky Fontaine
Superstar
BlaqkSpliffin
Ni**as Still Weird - Me
I've dated chicks with kids before and tbh it's not that different than dating childless women....unless you're a weird ass nikkas who tries to compete with kids for womens attention. The only downside is when the kids get attached and shyt don't work out. That shyt is rough.
I have no problems "raising" another dudes kid because I was lowkey raised by the nikkas that were around me growing up. Uncles, teachers, coaches, brother in-law, all looked out for me and guided a breh when pops wasn't around. Are there some crazy ass chicks with kids that ain't shyt...yup. But there's also some dope ass chicks who just happen to have kids. I just find it funny how most nikkas was raised by single moms but for some reason have so much contempt or disgust at the prospect of cuffing one. If these chicks don't deserve love, does that mean neither did y'all mommas?
I have no problems "raising" another dudes kid because I was lowkey raised by the nikkas that were around me growing up. Uncles, teachers, coaches, brother in-law, all looked out for me and guided a breh when pops wasn't around. Are there some crazy ass chicks with kids that ain't shyt...yup. But there's also some dope ass chicks who just happen to have kids. I just find it funny how most nikkas was raised by single moms but for some reason have so much contempt or disgust at the prospect of cuffing one. If these chicks don't deserve love, does that mean neither did y'all mommas?
Mirin4rmfar
Superstar
There are good women out there that are single moms. As a matter of fact I applaud single moms for raising their children while the dad bail out. It's just to me I don't want to deal with the dynamics of it. A potential guy that she use to be with constantly interfering in our daily lives. I just can't do it. When I am ready for kids, I want to keep an intact nuclear family. If I were to divorce then yeah, I'd entertain women with kids.
Marc Spector
the 4'11 Cuban
Im 30 and need like 3 years of vacations, sex, adventures, partying and drugs with a 50k or more income and then MAYBE I'll consider seriously dating a single mom/bytch who is ready to settle.
Until then I'll be dammed if I sacrifice having a somewhat comfortable work/leisure life to settle down with some washed chick who wants a "quiet life" to raise kids. fukk that.
Until then I'll be dammed if I sacrifice having a somewhat comfortable work/leisure life to settle down with some washed chick who wants a "quiet life" to raise kids. fukk that.
I dated a 32 year old single mom last winter. Couldn't do it. Every time i looked at her I just wished I met her before she had another nikka's kids. If you under 40 years old, you shouldn't be dating chicks with kids. I'm 30 so it's a no from me dog. There's too many women out here without any. And once you get past 40, if you wanna go that route, most of these broads kids will be halfway out the house anyway so its still a win win 
Also, chicks with kids make you feel flabby. In that mid 20s to early 30s age, you supposed to be getting money, traveling, enjoying life as a young black man starting to see the fruits of your labor....you date a chick with kids and you give up that care free lifestyle to play step daddy and have to take care of a ready made family. NO.
Also, chicks with kids make you feel flabby. In that mid 20s to early 30s age, you supposed to be getting money, traveling, enjoying life as a young black man starting to see the fruits of your labor....you date a chick with kids and you give up that care free lifestyle to play step daddy and have to take care of a ready made family. NO.
Quiet Magician
Superstar
I've dated chicks with kids before and tbh it's not that different than dating childless women....unless you're a weird ass nikkas who tries to compete with kids for womens attention. The only downside is when the kids get attached and shyt don't work out. That shyt is rough.
I have no problems "raising" another dudes kid because I was lowkey raised by the nikkas that were around me growing up. Uncles, teachers, coaches, brother in-law, all looked out for me and guided a breh when pops wasn't around. Are there some crazy ass chicks with kids that ain't shyt...yup. But there's also some dope ass chicks who just happen to have kids. I just find it funny how most nikkas was raised by single moms but for some reason have so much contempt or disgust at the prospect of cuffing one. If these chicks don't deserve love, does that mean neither did y'all mommas?
You want the real? If you have this kind of thinking you don't value yourself very much man. Do you respect your standards or are you conforming to what the majority is saying? Convincing yourself a single mother is not much different than a regular chick is a big load of nonsense.
A lot of you nikkas have such low self worth I have to wonder where your father figures are in your life because my old man would have slapped the side of my head for entertaining this shyt. Grown ass men with value don't date single moms.
My bro is 50 and just got engaged to a woman with a kid.
She's cool as fukk. Dope addition to the family.
It made me open to the idea honestly. I'm just not ready to be a father figure at the moment unfortunately. My parents are getting old and I'd like them to see me with a kid but I'm not gonna rush it. I want my own though, not another mans
She's cool as fukk. Dope addition to the family.
It made me open to the idea honestly. I'm just not ready to be a father figure at the moment unfortunately. My parents are getting old and I'd like them to see me with a kid but I'm not gonna rush it. I want my own though, not another mans