The 'How To Get A Loyal Woman' Thread

[MaxPain]

You've defeated your own point, why would a women be loyal to someone She's not with.

If a women is loyal to everyone then she is loyal to no one.

Therefore the fact that she is loyal to you, proves she's a loyal women

Reading comprehension is critical.....

Its ok fam.

 

[ultraflexed]

And you don't wanna admit it but I'm not the only person that has come to the same conclusions on those videos you post

This the funny part though, cause their just training videos showing the reality.
When we agreed to do those vids what we wanted to be different was to show the struggle, show the frustraition, show the attitude, keep it real as possible.

So when normal people see it they'll understand that not every training session is going to be blue sky's, sunny days and smiles.
You gotta train when you wanna go and you gotta train when you don't wanna go.

So you guys attempted to draw conclusions from "planned" videos, you saw exactly what we wanted you to see.

 

[ultraflexed]

It's like I said... I love women

But I got my eyes open to the reality of women

And you don't wanna admit it but I'm not the only person that has come to the same conclusions on those videos you post

You guys don't understand the concepts of what your saying, if you use the all women are blank approach.
Then what about when they say all black people criminals.
All black people can run a 4.4 40 yard dash an dunk.
All black men have huge penis
All black people have low IQ

Those same concepts would apply using your rationale, but we both know that's not true at all.

There are more sh#tty women then there are good women, let's say you line up 100 women against a wall about 25 to 30 of those women would be legit, another 20 would be questionable, the rest would be trash.

It also depends on how they were raised
Was there father around, what was there relationship like, it all depends.

 

[Squidward24]

Well since y’all asked, here’s what I was talking about yesterday. Moral police, dont quote me because I dont care to hear what u have to say. This is for those who are interested anyways.

First, u gotta break a bytch down (yes im using bytch to bring the point home). U start off with subtle slights at her, never validate her. Do light teasing. If she asks if she looks good in a dress, say not really. Make fun of something shes insecure of. Tell her to change her hair for you cuz u dont like the way it looks (if its brown tell her to add blonde tip). Always give her something to do as far as looks (cuz women are extremely insecure about their looks). Pimps call it put her under instructions. Say hey I need u to change ur hair color, or start wearing this, STOP wearing that .All this does is make her invest more in you psychologically and try to gain her approval. She will always try to get her on ur good side. Every once in a while, reward her for doing what u asked, show her ur good side. Do simp shyt, like dinner with candles, poems etc. Make it very brief, then go back to ur bad side. 75% bad 25% good. Switch on and off for the emotional roller coaster, ull never be “boring”.

After time u get more and more disrespectful. U keep breaking her down. Start random arguments out the blue then ghost for a week or two at a time. U flirt with other girls infront of her. U stare at other girls infront of her. Hell if u want to u can cuss her out and call her every name in the book, even use shyt she’s told u in private. By this time shes been cut down and molded up in ur liking she will put up with it.

Always Remember:
Never stay the same day to day. Be nice one day then an a$$hole the next
Never apologize even if u did something wrong, to a bytch ur judgement is never wrong , make her feel crazy for questioning it. Ive even had a woman apologize to me for me cheating on her lol
Never ask her for anything, tell her (give me ur phone number versus can I have ur phone number)
Always choose up on other females subtly or non subtly and make sure she knows
Make her value ur time

She can still leave but it wont be because she really wants to. It’ll be because she has to. Best beleive u could still smash post break up even if shes got a man or a boyfriend. And u will probably always be “the one that got away”. She’s literally been customized for you, and no one else. Shes kinda ruined for life unless she meets someone with game on ur level.

This isnt healthy relationship advice. I dont claim it to be. But it works on a lot of women, they’ll give u far more loyalty than they do other men doing this. Especially low quality ones. So basically most women u run into. This is some Lester from Casino type shyt.

Happy Memorial Day. @Hungerpain @ItsGhost

this is a really good post,

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Agree with all three points of the op. And would add to make sure you have good dikk, not trying to be crass, but don’t underestimate how important it is. After that, everything else is going to depend on the woman and the relationship you have—every woman is different.

Also, if there are any men in here that are believers, never underestimate the importance of seeking a woman of God—not a woman that calls herself a Christian, but nothing in her life demonstrates it, but a woman that truly bears the fruit of the spirit. She’ll naturally have all the qualities and character that would cause her to be loyal to you. (If your looking for a wife, that is).

 

[Squidward24]

Reading comprehension is critical.....

Its ok fam.

only thing i would disagree from your great post is the cheating part. I wouldn't cheat ever, thats an a$$hole move and yeah I know your post doesn't encourage cheating lmao but I would say the relationship is 100% ruined once either one cheats

 

[Critical Distance]

Agree with all three points of the op. And would add to make sure you have good dikk, not trying to be crass, but don’t underestimate how important it is. After that, everything else is going to depend on the woman and the relationship you have—every woman is different.

Also, if there are any men in here that are believers, never underestimate the importance of seeking a woman of God—not a woman that calls herself a Christian, but nothing in her life demonstrates it, but a woman that truly bears the fruit of the spirit. She’ll naturally have all the qualities and character that would cause her to be loyal to you. (If your looking for a wife, that is).

Aren't you a single mother???

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Aren't you a single mother???

Yep.

 

[MMA]

No disrespect but I disagree with this. If a woman is doing this she may have some issues because that's not love...that's infatuation. I usually see that type of behavior in women whom 1- don't like being single, 2- are seriously lonely or 3- just looking for somebody (anybody) to love them.

I think most mature and emotionally secure women are wise enough to know that within those first 3 months, there's a good chance the guy is telling her everything she wants to hear and pretending to be what she wants him to be for the sole purpose of gaining access to that honey pot between her legs.

For me, I don't even feel like I know or trust a guy enough in 3 months so I'm damn for sure not loving him. Yea I may really like him but I'm usually sitting back watching his actions to see if he remains consistent.

I agree with your sentiment on mature and emotionally secure woman but that all goes out the window with the right guy. Your idea of emotional secured is emotional protective, those are 2 different things. A emotional secured woman would simple not take up with abuse, protective

A emotional secured woman can be head over heels for a guy in a month but the difference is she will know how to identify a bad relationship path or judgment of person character and leave before it becomes a bigger issue.

You guys want a loyal women but you wanna play minds, then turn around and get made when women play games with you, can't have it both ways

Agreed, if you has a man don't have it naturally in you to be playful with a woman, not hold her to some greater being because she has a p*ssy, able to take charge, be very upfront about your demands and expectation from her. Attempting to usually comes off very phony and acted.

The best we can tell other guys is if you don't like the law system, do not get involved with it, if you don't trust woman - keep a part of yourself grounded and responsible for any part of your life (whatever needs you have) in case she decides to bounce one day. You should try your best to plan out what might happen tomorrow at all times.

Agree with all three points of the op. And would add to make sure you have good dikk, not trying to be crass, but don’t underestimate how important it is. After that, everything else is going to depend on the woman and the relationship you have—every woman is different.

Also, if there are any men in here that are believers, never underestimate the importance of seeking a woman of God—not a woman that calls herself a Christian, but nothing in her life demonstrates it, but a woman that truly bears the fruit of the spirit. She’ll naturally have all the qualities and character that would cause her to be loyal to you. (If your looking for a wife, that is).

I see your point but all that God talk and spiritual connections is just a means to avoid the truth of your existence and path. Usually is a gateway to avoidance of past poor decisions and forgiveness for future one's.

 

[Typical Simp]

Be a gentleman, wine and dine her and wait for sex even if it takes over two years.

 

[ultraflexed]

Be a gentleman, wine and dine her and wait for sex even if it takes over two years.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I agree with your sentiment on mature and emotionally secure woman but that all goes out the window with the right guy. Your idea of emotional secured is emotional protective, those are 2 different things. A emotional secured woman would simple not take up with abuse, protective

A emotional secured woman can be head over heels for a guy in a month but the difference is she will know how to identify a bad relationship path or judgment of person character and leave before it becomes a bigger issue.



Agreed, if you has a man don't have it naturally in you to be playful with a woman, not hold her to some greater being because she has a p*ssy, able to take charge, be very upfront about your demands and expectation from her. Attempting to usually comes off very phony and acted.

The best we can tell other guys is if you don't like the law system, do not get involved with it, if you don't trust woman - keep a part of yourself grounded and responsible for any part of your life (whatever needs you have) in case she decides to bounce one day. You should try your best to plan out what might happen tomorrow at all times.



I see your point but all that God talk and spiritual connections is just a means to avoid the truth of your existence and path. Usually is a gateway to avoidance of past poor decisions and forgiveness for future one's.

I’m not understanding what you mean by your last paragraph... The majority of good loyal women that I personally know, have been women of God. Since this thread is about finding a loyal woman, I thought of that immediately. And the keyword is that my second paragraph was targeted at believers, you aren’t one, so it didn’t apply to you.

A lot of people that are of this world, have fleeting loyalty to everything, because everything is disposable these days, and people are consumed with themselves. The women I know of, as Christian women, think about others before themselves, and don’t base their decisions on the fleeting desires and emotions that are tied to being a slave to the flesh.

I personally think it’s important for a man and a woman to have spirituality in their lives. I know that when I didn’t have it, and that when I didn’t have God, and people of God in my life to hold me accountable, I was lost, and wasn’t really loyal to anyone or anything. I was only loyal when my needs were getting met, because I was selfish. I think we are living in times where a lot of people are selfish, and lost, which imo may be part of the reason why men and women in this current ALL ABOUT ME generation complain about not finding quality partners.

I’ve never had that complaint(that it’s hard to find a quality partner) strangely enough lol, but as I mentioned before, I didn’t grow up in a time period that was influenced by online dating, social media, etc. I’m thirty. But I also never expected a man to be more than what I was, I always knew(and still know) that water seeks its own level. Which is why I said that believers, men of God, should seek women of God(true ones).

 

[MMA]

I’m not understanding what you mean by your last paragraph... The majority of good loyal women that I personally know, have been woman of God. Since this thread is about finding a loyal woman, I thought of that immediately. And the keyword is that my second paragraph was targeted at believers, you aren’t one, so it didn’t apply to you.

More often those woman just have a old school mindset of thinking - moving. I agree with your sentiment but telling guys on here that God is a good place to start is not good advice, too many church goers are looking for excuses to excuse their poor decisions. We see plenty of single woman by their decisions in church every week.

It simple shouldn't be a man's starting point for looking for a loyal woman*

 

[Squidward24]

Agree with all three points of the op. And would add to make sure you have good dikk, not trying to be crass, but don’t underestimate how important it is. After that, everything else is going to depend on the woman and the relationship you have—every woman is different.

Also, if there are any men in here that are believers, never underestimate the importance of seeking a woman of God—not a woman that calls herself a Christian, but nothing in her life demonstrates it, but a woman that truly bears the fruit of the spirit. She’ll naturally have all the qualities and character that would cause her to be loyal to you. (If your looking for a wife, that is).

define good dikk no homo

 

[Squidward24]

Be a gentleman, wine and dine her and wait for sex even if it takes over two years.

thats way too long , 3-4 months top