The 'How To Get A Loyal Woman' Thread

[dark_magic]

Why would nature not equip men with that same ability by nature.. considering that they are equally needed to ensure procreation?

When you look at human history, it is the history of warfare. In warfare, many men die; go off to war; or are slaughtered (if not enslaved). Those women who could attach and detach themselves quickly to men were the ones to survive. This also may explain bisexuality in women as well. All the aforementioned describes the war bride phenomena. Recently, there were articles released of British women cavorting with Nazi soldiers who were invading Britain.

Some men are like this such as those who possess the ability to form and maintain harems.

Many others will suffer from limerence in contradistinction.

Could this not be a simple matter of demand and supply?

Because in western society men are expected to approach women, more women get approached than men so many women make sure to have a back-up plan which is easy because all they have to do is pick someone or two guys as potential next guys in case their current relationship collapses.

One could call this the sexual marketplace.

This is valid until a certain age say middle age for men and women. From about 40s onward, there are more women. There are roughly equal numbers of men and women below 40. There are also regional variations. Using the United States for example, there are more men than women on the west coast while the opposite is true on the east coast.

But on another hand, there is Preto's Law. Upwards of 80 % of women are really only checking for 20 % of men.
If there is any shortage of "good men", it is entirely of womens' creation.

We all know most women are slicker than men. Which is why you so often see that there's a break up and BAM a girl has a new guy and it turns out they were already talking and that they been talking. This is why men LOVE to hear that a fine girl has boyfriend problems and offers to be the 'shoulder to cry on'.

I would say that women are more devious. The previous sentiment is shared and recorded by many men of note throughout the ages. Couple deviousness and solipsism with war bride firmware, you get what we are discussing.
Also, it should be known that women typically have "Plan B" men all the while encouraging you to drop all your other backups.

Hence, women go after men they are aroused by and marry lesser men as a backup particularly as they age (hit the wall).

In my opinion, it is a matter of understanding the operational firmware in built within every woman.

When men do this, they are considered really foul. But women seem to do it and society does not say 'wow.. that's foul, you're basically a female dog.. a bytch'. 'No he just had that confidence I was missing in my relationship and things weren't really working out..' is standard talk for many women.

Woe be to the man who takes counsel from women with regard to relationships ...

I call what you described as the two rule books (credit for the phrase I must give to Rollo Tomassi). Women go by one code while expecting men to go by the traditional code book. This enables them to optimize their sexual strategy.

Women frequently say one thing and do the opposite hence the sage advice to not give too much stock to what women say. Observe what they do instead. The actions are the true statements.

Words are ephemeral. Actions are durable.

MOST men who are genuinely committed do not play that, they are focused on being providers and good men and sometimes they focus on it so much that women get bored and start talking to some rude dude because he's 'edgy'. This all comes down to 'be loyal to yourself' as a man. It's good to be in love, but be clear that you are a high quality man who can, whenever he chooses, have other options available.

Men are the true romantics with regard to relationships.
Women are the pragmatists in the same regard.

You can either love women or understand them.
Dealing with women in significant number should cause a man to transition from the former to the latter.

 

[MidniteJay]

Dudes doing way too much thinking regarding women.

Was thinking this thread was a good idea but a few pages in its giving me flashbacks to logarithmic equations in college.

 

[JQ Legend]

Be a gentleman, wine and dine her and wait for sex even if it takes over two years.

The gawd has spoken

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

1. Be able to identify if a woman really wants you or not. A woman who wants you will approach a lot of her interactions with you and do her best to keep you around (You won't have to question this). If not, you will know, you are wasting your time with someone but you choose to ignore it, stop ignoring what your body is telling you.

2. Do not fix a woman, it is not your responsibility. A woman flooding her problems onto you is letting you know you should leave and save yourself from her. Listen

3. Your interaction with woman should be limited online. The internet and cyber-world give people a false equivalent of life. You should be looking at ass offline, you should be putting yourself in positions to be around attractive woman offline. When you take out the equation of being satisfied with the opposite sex online with things like social media and porn, you'll have no choice but to go after woman in person.

4. If your goal is to find a loyal woman, begin to ask yourself the traits a loyal woman would carry and what her actions will present. While dating, look for the patterns.

5. When you respect yourself, you'll expect the same from your partner.

6. Be firm with what you want and expect from a woman. Do not play games or entertain the shyt. If she isn't it or attempting to be such, leave.

7. get used to rejection and stop taking it personal. Pick up on what works and what doesn't work, self-audit at all times while dating.

8. stop being afraid to leave a bad situation - it could be no one fault but if it isn't working, do not stay. Too many man staying in situations they don't want to be anymore

9. Don't listen to people, social media is a great way to figure out who you are dealing with. If they are seen online doing reckless shyt, believe it

That's the biggest issue I see many brothers having now a days. It's not your job or responsibility has a man to save any woman. Being a good guy does not mean saving a woman from her own problems. Those are her problems not yours.
If your advances don't work with her. It's not meant to be and move on to the next.

Now once you have this loyal woman - bring her guidance, learn to use the word No, be firm on your beliefs and movement, be the man in your relationship, enjoy time for yourself

Going 3 year strong with mine, never settle with a woman who does not truly love you or ride for you. You are only missing out on the beauty of a woman love. Too much of thecoli are dealing with woman who do not really want them, that's why so many of these nikkas are angry.

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

This is true.



Nah. This is false.

For the right man.... Women will do whatever.

Women were put here to assist us in accomplishing our mission/goals


If she isn't beneficial to your life & doesn't follow and submit to your instruction... Shes worthless.

Thats the problem.... nikkas always tolerate chicks that bring nothing to the table.

We gotta set some standards.

 

[JQ Legend]

Problem is y'all allow your self esteem to be in the hands of someone else's loyalty

That's the main reason men make such a big deal about loyalty from a woman he doesn't even want kids/a future with

Because u terrified of taking that L and how bad it makes you look

Low key men be more worried bout what others will think about them sharing their girl than genuinely being heartbroken

Start questioning your looks, pipe game/size, pockets, etc all because she decided to sleep with someone else

A man will disregard all logic if his pride is challenged, and men get more emotional than women when their pride is on the line

I like some of the posts here but as long as your self worth is determined by the actions of others you are a walking L no matter what game or tactics u use

 

[Carlton Banks]

Brehs... lemme give yall my experience

I was raised to respect all women, treat them like queens etc etc.

These chics out here DON'T WANT THAT.

I can't tell you how many times I got swerved in my life cause I was being respectful to a girl, trying to treat her right

I was raised the same way. But in hindsight, I think our parents only raised us that way so we could stay out of trouble. Cuz there's no way a fully grown adult, especially a mother, doesn't know the true nature of women. I probably would've been got a chick pregnant or something if I grew up disrespecting them. So in actuality our parents did us a solid

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

This is a good approach to life in general... focus on yourself, be accountable to yourself, look out for your best interests... everything else, women, money, happiness, health etc will fall into place.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Problem is y'all allow your self esteem to be in the hands of someone else's loyalty

That's the main reason men make such a big deal about loyalty from a woman he doesn't even want kids/a future with

Because u terrified of taking that L and how bad it makes you look

Low key men be more worried bout what others will think about them sharing their girl than genuinely being heartbroken

Start questioning your looks, pipe game/size, pockets, etc all because she decided to sleep with someone else

A man will disregard all logic if his pride is challenged, and men get more emotional than women when their pride is on the line

I like some of the posts here but as long as your self worth is determined by the actions of others you are a walking L no matter what game or tactics u use

This is a whole other thread. Be it fighting strangers out of "disrespect", cracking the Da Vinci Code to determine a woman's "number", or the myriad of ways brehs posture and stress out for the approval of complete strangers, there's an unhealthy obsession with perception that definitely holds men back.

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

Problem is y'all allow your self esteem to be in the hands of someone else's loyalty

That's the main reason men make such a big deal about loyalty from a woman he doesn't even want kids/a future with

Because u terrified of taking that L and how bad it makes you look

Low key men be more worried bout what others will think about them sharing their girl than genuinely being heartbroken

Start questioning your looks, pipe game/size, pockets, etc all because she decided to sleep with someone else
Ppp
A man will disregard all logic if his pride is challenged, and men get more emotional than women when their pride is on the line

I like some of the posts here but as long as your self worth is determined by the actions of others you are a walking L no matter what game or tactics u use

I agree with you bro. But I'm starting to think this applies to men with no options/or nothing going for them. I never hear these complaints from dudes who are bossed up/getting money. Or just dudes who are use to getting women

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I agree with you bro. But I'm starting to think this applies to men with no options/or nothing going for them. I never hear these complaints from dudes who are bossed up/getting money. Or just dudes who are use to getting women

Everyone here who does this shyt claims to be all of the above

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

Everyone here who does this shyt claims to be all of the above

I notice that. Awhile ago I started to feel like that women might not be the problem for most of the brehs. Of course if you not the best version of YOURSELF,living life to the fullest,taking care/love yourself,happy, having something going for yourself. Of course your going to have problems with dealing with chicks And it ain't always about money or what you got going on either. A lot of shyt depends on how to you carry yourself as a man ,the type of person you are( personality,values,etc..). But the dudes I see that deal with A lot of women. They don't put all their eggs in one basket, I don't see them depressed and dwelling over one chick(some do,but not for long) they keep it moving until they find one that's worth acting right for. One of my OG Told me this.


"You gotta examine your approach homie. Make sure you’re not doing too much. Or not doing enough. One thing about women. They like a confident respectful man who knows how to carry himself. If you move a certain way they’ll come to you. Or they’ll let you know through their actions that it’s ok for you to go to them"

 

[Crayola Coyote]

randomly decides to cheat? nahhhhh.

A lotta women marry men because they have the qualities that would make a good husband and father.. all the while cheat with the man they find physically attractive or brings "excitement" into their lives.

THIS. Never get married.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Whoa.

You wrote 'women are whores and a$$holes'

What you meant to write was 'Whores are a$$holes'

We all have female family members, colleagues and respectable young women in our lives I'm sure. If you for one second think ALL OF THEM play the 'aw sorry.. I gotta cancel...' game, you're sadly mistaken. If that's the repeated experience you have: find better women to talk to.

If ALL women canceled ALL dates: there wouldn't be dates. There wouldn't be relationships. There wouldn't be kids. You wouldn't exist breh.

So.. QUALITY women don't do that. Weed out the trash, the 99%. Focus on you and the 1% will appear in your life and trust me breh.. the right woman will make ALL the time in the world to meet.

No. I said women are whores and they are a$$holes. I know what I wrote. this is my experience with these devils. Do does not matter how I change my approach or try. I don’t need them so fukk them.

 

[Entropy Fan]

Do Muslim women cheat? I mean the very religious ones. I rarely hear female religious Muslim ever cheat.

Its rare. She has to be scum and the man has to be pretty much a fakkit. Flirting with another man gets you divorced in most muslim circles.

The line for cheating is way way way before penetration. Dance with a man at a wedding and your now single lmao.