The Illusion and Luster of Alpha Male in has Ruined Black Men, Black Women and Ultimately the Black Family.

[Stuntone]

No other Men desires to be Alphas (Thug Alpha) as much as Black Men.

No other Women desire to be with an Alpha as much as Black Women, many of our women go to their graves refusing to settle for anything other than a Alpha.

The real problem is that we don't really even understand that Alpha is a trait that you can only possess in certain areas of life. There's really no such thing as an Alpha Male. He can be Alpha in dealing with certain areas of like, but no man can be Alpha in all areas of life. Many Black People are under the illusion that there are Men that always does thing the "Alpha" Like a Boss or like a Gangster. That's not possible. We're all weak, ignorant and timid in certain areas of life.

So now we have so many men trying to be a Bosses (High Value Men) or Gangsters. Takes a certain amount of money to even pretend to be a Boss so most shoot for the Goon Image.. High Value Men and Gangsters are always on the move and women and kids aren't their man focus. So Neither really make greats Fathers or Husbands, but women love a challenge I guess.

In every other race the average, working class man are doing most of the marriage and raising family. In the Black Community, the average man is seen as a Beta male and are now undesirable for most part. There are not many Black women without a history of years of being a sidepiece / chasing a High Value Man or Street guy.

I think this might be the first time in history and race, that the average woman doesn't respect or desire an average man. And with that fact, Black Love is doom.

 

[Stuntone]

Kevin Samuels really showed how many women desire HVM and nothing else.

 

[Wiles]

This was here before this online alpha male shyt

 

[Jaguar93]

 

[RamsayBolton]

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Why is what black American women desire in their "high value men" different than what other cultures and countries deem high value for men?

 

[Ziggiy]

Ehhhhh

I see what OP is saying but I also think that by nature women desire the bosses just like men desire the beautiful.



I do definitely agree that every man has something he excels in and not every man can be perfect in all things. There are a certain segment of women that seem to not understand that basic fact.

 

[Stuntone]

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Why is what black American women desire in their "high value men" different than what other cultures and countries deem high value for men?

Yes women thru out history all have, but mostly usually would end up with the Best man they could attract. What's different is the masses of women that are refusing respect and or be with a non- high value man.

Back in the day women were thrilled to be with a man with a decent job.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

No real (black) man needs to be allowed to or given the right or ask for permission for anything

You make that shyt happen on your own. A woman is not gonna let you do shyt. YOU as a grown ass man have to stand on your two feet and make it so.

 

[BornStar]

Crazy thing is all of your male ancestors were "Alpha Men" that dominated, procreated and survived in physically and emotionally harder times than 99% of you guys otherwise you wouldn't be here. Your mother most likely seen your father as alpha at a point in time. That's how you popped up, Ya momma choose up.

 

[MMS]

Maybe the problem is using dog logic instead of human

 

[Bigblackted4]

Crazy thing is all of your male ancestors were "Alpha Men" that dominated, procreated and survived in physically and emotionally harder times than 99% of you guys otherwise you wouldn't be here. Your mother most likely seen your father as alpha at a point in time. That's how you popped up, Ya momma choose up.

 

[Turbulent]

It kinda ties in but i think some of us men are too obsessed with "the look". Instead of doing things out of principle or out of achieving a mission, a greater purpose, a divine calling or whatever...we do it for "the look". Not just how it looks to other women, but also other men, family members, neighborhood. Some of us want to be looked at as "The Man" (alpha) so bad...

I would have said this ties in with hip hop, but I'm pretty sure this existed before hip hop...

 

[Kingofthereal]

Cap! Lack of accountability and delusions of grandeur has done the most damage to black men and women.

 

[FrontoBama]

In a time long gone, repeating that Alpha/Beta thing was the highest level of whiteness.

That ”Cuck” word and culture is the next thing they’re going to put into the marketplace.

 

[The Fade]

nikkas attaching their masculinity to pimping was the dumbest shyt ever

Not being born in the ISM, but treating women as a commodity because you are blackballed out of monopolizing commodities by others just shows how much of a man you are not

Making slow nikkas who can’t read or produce anything but are neighborhood terrorists who destroy their capital bases the epitome of masculinity was also the dumbest shyt as well