This is why they say men die earlier than women. Stoicism doesnt mean ignoring your feelings and emotions. It just means managing them better where youre not overreacting or acting inappropriately during certain situations. When people nowadays refer to it, they apply it to them trying to show restraint to when someone disrespects them or when they are upset about something. If thats the case, folks need to learn about anger or emotional management. Basically learning how to not react or how to channel the anger out in a better manner where they write it out in a journal, engage in a sport where they can take that anger out and etc.