The joys of dating an up front woman.

[King Poetic]

Does her past matter if she’s good now, especially if she doesn’t have kids?

it all depends

is u getting the same sexual treatment from her them other dudes got

and most importantly has she actually grown up from that past life or is she still willing to fall back into after day u two have a argument and she decides she need some other dik for the moment

everybody’s different, but be careful regardless if she is up front or not

 

[Abstract83]

So I'm not the only one going through this

This woman been being honest. She got way more than skeletons in her closet. She got full bodies with the flesh still intact



I still like her but dang.

That's basically what I found out. And more. But Its up to you and what you can handle. I dont think i can handle it. But her vibe and personality is A1. I've been on dates with some other chicks and its boring as hell. But i keep my options open. Don't cut her off yet. Just see how it goes. You never know.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

it is what it is

 

[Abstract83]

I like her but why couldn't I find her before the wolves did?

Yall should just talk it out. Date other women too. Don't put all your energy into her. Thats what im doing.

 

[Abstract83]

it all depends

is u getting the same sexual treatment from her them other dudes got

and most importantly has she actually grown up from that past life or is she still willing to fall back into after day u two have a argument and she decides she need some other dik for the moment

everybody’s different, but be careful regardless if she is up front or not

Straight factz

 

[skokiaan]

i prefer diplomacy; she knows when to talk and when not to.

ive got family and friends for that up-front shyt...cant be having my lady just randomly running her mouth ouchea

 

[BmoreGorilla]

it all depends

is u getting the same sexual treatment from her them other dudes got

If you a man with options that’s really irrelevant at the end of the day. If your in a position to choose than most likely you have had your fair share of sexual experiences

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Women keep it real are never single or unhappy

Too many woman want to sugarcoat it

Women need to learn truth is power

 

[King Poetic]

I just went on a date with a chick last week. The chemistry was insane we vibe a lot and we talked almost everyday. But shes upfront and she told me some stuff that scared the shyt out of me. I thought I could handle it but my ego was down for the count. We decided to be friends for now. Let's just say she's ummm waaaay more experienced than me.

dude .. I had a co worker years ago who liked me and we work together for like 1 year and she had a kid, so she was flirting and everything and I had said fukk it, let me just go out on a date and see if I can fuk

so we go out and shyt and this broad cane out literally to my face and said she really likes me but wants to be straight up... I said ok

she was like “ I got tag team twice by 2 dudes “ she went on and said” she fukked 6 dudes in 5 months “

I’m thinking to myself, I’m just going to let her swallow my nut and I’m bouncing, which I did

I also got transferred out to another location...

 

[Abstract83]

dude .. I had a co worker years ago who liked me and we work together for like 1 year and she had a kid, so she was flirting and everything and I had said fukk it, let me just go out on a date and see if I can fuk

so we go out and shyt and this broad cane out literally to my face and said she really likes me but wants to be straight up... I said ok

she was like “ I got tag team twice by 2 dudes “ she went on and said” she fukked 6 dudes in 5 months “

I’m thinking to myself, I’m just going to let her swallow my nut and I’m bouncing, which I did

I also got transferred out to another location...

Ummm yea I feel you. Its cool to be upfront but not all at once I heard everything all at once on videochat. I had to try to keep a straight face. But im like goddammit. Its always the cool ones that know how to boost a man's ego that got a crazy past.

Edit: She told me she wants me in her life and im different than anybody she's ever been with. I just said let's be cool for now and see where it goes. In my mind im like
woman you don't need me at all wtf

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

seriously though

 

[Neuromancer]

I just went on a date with a chick last week. The chemistry was insane we vibe a lot and we talked almost everyday. But shes upfront and she told me some stuff that scared the shyt out of me. I thought I could handle it but my ego was down for the count. We decided to be friends for now. Let's just say she's ummm waaaay more experienced than me.

She gave you the option to decide what you wanted to deal with. Too many people hide info and rob their partners of the ability to choose how they want to proceed. It's toxic.

 

[International Playa]

They are cool, but most dudes are not ready to hear the truth.

Most dudes wouldn't handle a woman telling you she been raped, your dikk ain't the biggest she had, she has never ogasmed with you or she been with black guys ( for the white guys) etc.

 

[Abstract83]

She gave you the option to decide what you wanted to deal with. Too many people hide info and rob their partners of the ability to choose how they want to proceed. It's toxic.

Yea thats definately the part I respect. That's what kept me talking to her. She was 100% honest. I was taken back like damn. I figured man you never know. Just gonna see what happens.

 

[Neuromancer]

They are cool, but most dudes are not ready to hear the truth.

Most dudes wouldn't handle a woman telling you she been raped, your dikk ain't the biggest she had, she has never ogasmed with you or she been with black guys ( for the white guys) etc.

I think giving your partner information and the ability to choose whether they want to deal with you or not is something everyone should hope for.