Women focus more on what they have to lose because they're the only ones who really have something to lose!
Lets say maybe
spending $100 on a date > sleeping with a stranger with unknown intentions.
Are you saying after 3 dates women should feel trustful enough to have sex with a new guy?
I'd imagine one would like paying for dates if you actually like the person you've invited and want to put your best foot forward?
Like gift giving for example, it's fun if you like the person so you imagine what would bring them joy etc./things y'all can do together to get to know each other more....
I guess it would be different if my expectations were more in the line of, "hopefully getting some sex out of this!".
I'd be more inclined to split the bill if it's a date stemming from maybe online dating/apps as you don't know the person at all vs. someone that a friend introduced you to/someone from work/social gatherings.
Like the kind of date where you pick the woman up from her home and then go out, splitting the bill would seem ridiculous to me.
Meeting someone somewhere from tinder/any other random dating site would make more sense to split the bill.
Absolutely not.
Do you know how many women purposely don't shave leading up to a date/wear their ugliest underwear to the date to make themselves hold back on sleeping with a guy too fast?
Just because she slept with Humpty on the first date and with Dumpty on the third/later doesn't necessarily mean she likes Humpty sooo much more.
There could be various reasons like having had too much to drink, weak willpower that day, really horny that day, he wore her down, ugly underwear didn't do the trick etc.
And the standard would be what?
Have sex with me within the first week of knowing you or else it's bushes are standards?
The standard the man holds, it varies but if Darryl the aint shyt dude got box in a week. But I have to wait 2 weeks or a month I'm cool. However I'm starting to see women take the sex on a first date thing seriously. If you're an intriguing enough alluring woman you will be seen again by the man regardless, and if he keeps seeing you/spending time he clearly likes you to some degree.
I've never understood the she had sex on the first night so I can't date her mindset and never seen it that way. I'm more concerned about personality, habits, tendencies. As long as body count is below mine, and she hasn't had sex or performed sex acts for money. I will always be open to getting know a woman, assuming by prerequisites are met. I don't understand women holding out sex on men they like but giving it to men they don't care about keeping that's exactly how you lose out on good dudes, and this is a pattern of behavior I've seen in female associates. But y'all do y'all, I just observe and take note
Must be nice. Been texting this chick all week thinking she into me but she time ghost when we were supposed to link up.
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