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I need some major advice (not going to make a thread about this on the first page and have these dudes drag me) super exhausted at this point...

So, there's this guy who I met last semester in one of my classes. We were paired up for an assignment so this is the only way we got to know each other and he was the one who suggested it. Anyways, the class was during the summer and has been done for weeks now and this dude has been messaging me non stop. Basically, when the class wrapped up in August our prof suggested that since we were a great class we should all keep in touch by adding each other on Insta. I said 'sure' not making much of it. I added my prof right on the spot as well as a couple of other girls who I had became friends with. Then, suddenly this guy in question asked me to add him. So, I said 'ok'. He seemed nice, very chill however it has become clear to me that he has stalker like tendencies. Fast forward to now, this dude is STILL texting me non stop eveyday and during all hours of the night (3/4/5am). At first it was cool, he was talking about matters pertaining to the course so I didnt make much of it. But, then he finally texted me, 'btw, you look SO good in that Black dress on ur Insta. Wow!' The picture he's referring to is one that showcases my booty. I was caught off guard and weirded out by his text bc it was late at night and I'm sure he was staring at it all night doing God knows what'. All, I replied with was 'thanks'. Then, he started texting me late at night at 3am talking about, 'are u free to talk on the phone right now?' The text woke me up. I just stared at my phone bewildered. I didnt reply. I made sure he got the message LOUD and CLEAR that I wasn't interested in him whatsoever. I ignored him for about a week until he started messaging me randomly again talking about, 'hey, you there :smile:, did you hear about this?, whats your Snapchat? Until he finally messaged me with, 'R u mad at me or something???' I was so fukking pissed at this point in which I spazzed out at him and said, 'Umm, I don't even fukking know you like that. I'm extremely busy and dont have time to sit around and talk during questionable hours of the night.' That is when he finally got the message and replied with, 'so, sorry. I was just wondering what happened to you its been a week since we talked But, now I understand that you're very busy. I won't disturb you again'. He stopped texting me for 3 days until he started back again on Sunday. Now, he's talking about the movies and how we should go see the Anabelle and It movies and how the tickets, food and drinks will be on him. I havent replied to him. I asked my friends for advice and all of them have told me to go use him for the free movies and food bc he's a Simp. Idk.

1- Im not attracted or interested in him
2. He's Indian- NOT intersted AT ALL
3. I'm not interested in watching no stupid movie about a fukking doll.
4. Once money begins to get involved he'll think I owe him something in return which I dont.
5. I'm creeped out by him.
Block him
This. You don't owe him shyt. I wouldn't had even added them to my social networks. Every time instructors suggested we'd exchange numbers and get close, I wouldn't. lol
 

ChiefQueen

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Block him

On everything? I remember I had casually told him thru text that I would low key unfollow our prof bc he didnt like any of the ppl in the classes pics so he was a useless follow and then he suddenly started liking all of my pictures and then texted me, You better not unfollow me or else'.... I was thinking to myself like, or else what? :what:

He is deranged and extremely immature. Indians as a whole are weird ppl, man.
 

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On everything? I remember I had casually told him thru text that I would low key unfollow our prof bc he didnt like any of the ppl in the classes pics so he was a useless follow and then he suddenly started liking all of my pictures and then texted me, You better not unfollow me or else'.... I was thinking to myself like, or else what? :what:

He is deranged and extremely immature. Indians as a whole are weird ppl, man.
Yeah he taking the aggressive approach. You should block him asap if you haven't. In his mind u not blocking him sooner prolly validates his chronic creepiness
 

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Yeah he taking the aggressive approach. You should block him asap if you haven't. In his mind u not blocking him sooner prolly validates his chronic creepiness

Damn. I'm so creeped out rn. I just blocked him. I'm scared that he'll start messaging me on insta from fake profiles. This is the downside of being a nice person/people pleaser. Fml..
 
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